She said she didn't want her kids to share

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September 8-2

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The word SHARE to most of us indicates how thoughtful every individual is toward others.

I can say also that sharing is caring as some of us practice and is known as a sign of thoughtfulness and kindness.

But in a video that I watched recently the definition of share was debunked by the uploader. I mean she has a different meaning in terms of sharing. Please refer to the link below for the video.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/752647926001454?fs=e&s=cl

She said instead of sharing things like playthings, don't tell your kid to share instead wait for their turn to use the thing that they want, she also stated an example like when using a printer or something like that.

Her reason was to avoid the certain negative feeling of both parties.

I can't say that her thoughts about it are wrong but in my opinion, sharing can be different in meaning in different circumstances.

For example in food, how can you tell your kid to give some of his food to his or her friend? Isn't it you will surely say "share some of your food my dear" or "can you share some of your food with your playmate?". Or what would you rather do, wait for your kid to finish before sharing some? And if that is the case, all the kids have surely all done by that time and no more is interested anymore in what your kid wants to share lol.

I can say that the word share senses like endearment towards your kid and not just a plain command in which sometimes the kids can't connect immediately or can confuse them with your attitude as if you care more about the other kids instead.

Another thing that a kid can share with was when there is enough space on their bench or chair. With the right approach to your kid, you can let them share without feeling frustration or anger toward the other. By this means, I could say friendship will be built between the children.

Of course, sharing from the heart is the sweetest I mean without expecting in return.

Share what you can afford, don't share beyond limits.

Finally, sharing is caring as long as it is not abused.

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Published: September 08, 2022
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Being a living thing, either human or animal there is always love in sharing, sharing makes you feel loved it

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1 year ago

Very interesting :) Sharing is good and we need to set certain boundaries to just like you said, to not be abused.

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Sharing from the heart without expecting anything in return brings satisfaction. As for children, it's good we show them this principle of sharing and not to abuse it otherwise they'll turn to people's pleaser

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1 year ago

Exactly, my dear.

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As a mother, sharing has boundaries too. At an early age, kids know what they want but at the same time they should learn how to share things of they are not using it, just like adults do.

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1 year ago

That's true sis, since not everything can be shared too.

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Finally, sharing is caring as long as it is not abused.👉I totally agree with that. as long as the good deed is not abused

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Thank you for the appreciation friend.

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Rica ederim. (You're welcome)

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Yes friend. Sharing is the best. It should be practice. We must share what we have. We share from our pure heart.

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You are right my dear.

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