A friend's chaotic moment

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2 years ago

April 6-4

I mention in my recent article about my workmate and a friend who is facing problems right now.

This issue of her husband was an open book to all of us already, we shared whatever burdens us, we collect advice from each other, and comforting words as well-motivated her to stand her ground.

Last Monday evening as we are already out of work she is accompanied by our coupled friends and they went out to where her husband spent most of his days.

The village was a few minutes' drive-by tricycles from the spa.

There she found out her husband's deepest and darkest secrets. He had another woman. The worst is, that he also brought that girl during the funeral of our friend's late father. They show hospitality to the girl and even assist her in everything.

But after that incident, a rumor was lighted up between her husband and the girl which she just ignore and put her trust in her husband that he will never betray her. Although, she is also uneasy about them.

Now, the girl was pregnant. I don't know how does it feel when your husband did this horrible thing? But I'm sure this betrayal was hit our friend so hard in the heart.

We witness how she helps her husband cope with his shortcomings both financially and emotionally. She saves her salary for her husband to secure his driver's license.

She even provides for her husband's shares during his group get-together because he has no permanent work. He earns less and even can't support himself for his personal needs.

Last night, she posted the girl's face on her social media account. I can't blame her though, I will surely do the same way too if I were in her shoe.

I just hope that she will find a way to feel better amidst her chaotic moment right now.


Why does infidelity often put down-home and a family? Are those unfaithful husbands or wives or partners not aware of the hearts that break when doing that filthy thing?

From what I saw in my friend's situation was there is no contentment in the husband. His love is not genuine and pure.

The truth is, this is not just the first time that he did this. There are times in the past that our friend confided to us that her husband is flirting with a gay too. The husband is a mess, right?

Ugh! Enough for this, tomorrow I will meet my friends in the spa. Hope her the best.

Update:

My friend and an Aunt of her husband filed a complaint this afternoon in the office of the Brgy. Captain and send summons to the concerned persons including those accessories people who cover up the misdoing of her husband.

I admire how strong she is, she still manages to go to work despite her problem. She still manages to smile and crack a joke during our conversation.

Oh well, just hope that everything will be okay for them this coming day, or if not they will legally settle themselves for the sake of the kids.


It's time to end this blog, thank you awesome family for your precious time in reading again.

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Published: April 6, 2022
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Damn this hurts so bad even if am not the one it happened to, I hate hearing stuff like this coz it annoys me😞 some men are just ungrateful, this is the reason why most people are scared of loving someone due to all the crap they have experienced.... She should stay strong so it won't weigh her down

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2 years ago

I just hate cheaters to the core! Matitigas talaga mukha ng mga taong ganto huhu

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2 years ago

Sobra, kasintigas ng adobe po:(

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2 years ago

Such a vulgar act on the part of the husband. If there is really commitment and love in his heart, he wouldn't have done such a thing. Hoping your friend gets through this disaster of her life. 🙏

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2 years ago

We are hoping that for her too.

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2 years ago

Ang kapal naman nong asawa na un. Pero mas maigi pa ng hiwalayan na lang yang ganyan and ework and sarili na maka move on. Masaktan kalang ngayon pero soon once makabangon sya sa lahat ng sakit mas magiging strong woman pa sya.

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2 years ago

Sabi nga namin bigyan niya ng leksiyon, wag n siya papayag na uutuin n n siya. Sana lng makinig siya.

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2 years ago

Wag naman sanang ang bagsakl nya ee ang pagiging tenge tas ang dahilan pa 'mahal ee". Ywa na pagmamahal yan pag ganyan

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2 years ago

Kaya nga full support din kami sa kanya kasi inamin nman niya na gusto p niyang maayos sila ng mokong na yun, kaso nga gagawin lng siyang tanga ulit kung papayag siya, kc oang ilang ulit na ginawa yun ng lalaki sa kanya.

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2 years ago

One of the most painful things to experience in our life friend, what a shame for that man. I hope your friend will be okay soon friend and that he will always be guided to do the things that are right and beat for their children.

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2 years ago

Wala siyang hiya lods, tas love parin nung friend namin haist!

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2 years ago

Ganyan naman talaga yan lods, sadyang mapaglaro ang pag ibig

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2 years ago

Magiging katawa tawa lang siya dun sa babae ng asawa lods kung tatanggapin p niya yong walang wentang yun.

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2 years ago

Haist. Why would some ppl do that :(

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2 years ago

Likas siguro sa kanila ang ganun gawa sis ma'am.

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2 years ago

Hirap ng ganyan lalo na't may mga anak, kasi sila yung naiipit sa sitwasyon. Ewan ko ba ba't nakuha pang maghanap ng iba. Sana maging okay na yung friend mo

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2 years ago

Ayun halatang nag uumiyak dahil maga ang mata. Wala kasing kakintentuhan yong ganong mga lalaki lil sis.

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2 years ago

Ang hirap masaktan sissy noh, kaya mas maganda ng ganito nlbg hehe

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2 years ago

Hehe okay lng masaktan ng isabg beses sis pero wag yong ulit ulit 😁

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2 years ago

This is so heartbreaking for your friend. The man shouldn't have done that and even if he's tired of the marriage he shouldn't go about it this way. Look at how he shattered the heart that loves her💔

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2 years ago

He's so selfish sis.

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