The sympathy of people will go always to the person who told the story. Of course! He will never open his bad side. Only the mistake of others.
Gossips spread by itchy mouth people who really don't know about you. They are like viruses spread everywhere. They think they are clean and never commit sin. But the truth is, their life is full of lies.
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The Human CCTV
"I heard that the daughter of ____ is pregnant. I told you I knew it! I knew that it will happen. Look at her body now she was so losyang, like she is overused!
"I'm not shocked if she is pregnant. I saw her together with a different man. Oh, Lord!"
I wonder who's Lord they are talking to? They already judge a person base on what they see. Maybe she looks haggard because of stress at work. Maybe she's with a different man because those are her friends, her colleagues. Or maybe they are right! She is pregnant with a decent man because she is decent too.
One month passed, one of those gossiper's stressed about her daughter because it was pregnant and they didn't know who is the father. See? Karma is doing its job.
Another Scenario with my neighbor before
Neighbor 1: I heard Diana passed the Civil Service Exam on her first try.
Neighbor 2: Yeah! Because she studies every day.
(Suddenly they saw me buying near where they are talking, I'm on my way home from my shift)
Neighbor 2: Kelzy? You didn't pass again in cse?
Me: Huh?
Neighbor 1: How's your exam in Civil Service? I heard you didn't pass for 2nd time?
Me: Uh... Hmm. I still don't know the result. I haven't check it yet.
Neighbor 2: Nah! You're too late! Your Aunt already told us.
I was shocked and sad at the same time. Imagine you are tired from morning class and afternoon shift at work and then you will hear those words from a neighbor.
It's not about the result of the exam, it's the gossip that my relative spread that's makes me look small. Even it's the truth why do you have to share it with others? It's okay for me to fail a lot of times but knowing that they are laughing behind my back makes my heart crumpled and pulverized!
When her daughter enroll in the university and want to take a course in psychology she failed to pass. My aunt didn't tell us that she fail, her alibi is her child didn't get the slot for the course. Look what happened! Hays. I just don't want to say anything about it.
Closing Thoughts
Laughing at someone's failure because of feeling that they are better than them are the arrogant people. You will never get real success when you want to down others just to look the best.
Lets be like the Bamboo
The higher you grow
the deeper you bow.
CHINESE PROVERB
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We can't do anything about their mindset. Sila lang makakabago nya'n. Pero grabe 'dun sa overused ah tapos biglang anak pala n'ya makaka-experienced ng ganun. Ibang klase na talaga mga tao nowadays. Grabe 'yung Tita mo, Ate ah. Mas nauna pa talaga nyang nalaman. Partida ah, CSE pa lang 'yan, what if kung Board Exam pa? Tsk tsk.