We met our partners in life in different ways. Some are found in the workplace, others in a group of friends but nowadays most on the internet (guilty? kidding!) and etc.

I wonder if some writers here find the love they are searching for. @Codename_Chikakiku be baka nasa readers mo talaga ang soul mate mo Charing!

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The more you hate, the more you will love

I met this guy 4 years ago. He is my classmate. I don't notice him before because I am so busy with my schedule, morning shift in work, and school class in the afternoon. I don't have friends when I was in my first year of college. I see him sometimes but I thought he is from other course.

We got time to talk when we were in our second year in college because of group activity. I really hate him because he always laughs in class, like what is so funny? He laughs at the small things and I don't get what is it. He said that I am so rugged and scary. I start to annoyed again and told him to mind his own business and just disappear.

There was a time after our shift from our OJT (on-the-job training) he saw me buying a pet fish selling outside the office. I give him a nasty glance and then he smiled again which makes me irritated!

The more I wanted to avoid him, the more we get close. I'm riding on a bus when I saw him standing in front of me because there is no seat available. He laughs again at me and said "you're so childish" I didn't mind him because I know he wants me to get irritated when suddenly the bus abruptly stops. The plastic where the fish was placed was punctured. I cried because my fish will gonna die and he keeps on laughing and said "para kang tanga" "you look stupid!" I feel ashamed on the bus and try to calm myself but my tears still fall. He is with our guy classmate. He also laughs but he gave his bottle of water to put my fish there. Even I'm so annoyed I take the bottle and put it inside my fish. I cursed him after that! He always laughs at me like he thinks I'm so stupid.

Fast forward

When we were already in 3rd-year college we became friends after he apologized for all the teased he did. He said "Because you're so clumsy and you always get irritated with the small thing where you can just laugh at it"

I'm super sensitive and crying baby before. But when we got closer I started to laugh and change my ruggy face to a smiley one. We became best friends. He is so caring and kind. Sometimes he fetches me in my workplace even it's so very late. We talk till midnight about the nonsense topics when I don't have a shift by tomorrow. He got the humor that removes my tiredness and sadness away. I feel something in my heart that I like him more than a friend and I think I'm falling for him. But I need to stop it because I'm older than 2 years than him and I know entering a relationship is not in his vocabulary. He never had a relationship before.

But after my birthday he confesses his feeling for me. I can't hide my feelings to him also that's why I told him the truth.

@Ruffa dzai ito yorn sinasabi ko sayo na mas matanda ako hehuhaha!

@Codename_Chikakiku be true nasa bata ang true love! Hahaha chos.

This is our best shots! ❤ We already both graduated.

Our relationship now is 1 year and 6 months. We're still counting for more months and years together.

© All photos are mine and edited in canva.com

Closing Thoughts

I believe that we all have pairs in life, maybe you don't notice but it's already in front of you. Because mine, I find the love with the bully.

How did you meet your partner? When did you meet him/her?

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