Men and women are fundamentally different, and it is sometimes difficult to imagine how any relationship works. So, what do women want in love?
I am here to tell you that the relationship between success and health is entirely possible. In fact, I am one. Moreover, my guy does a lot of things every day to make me feel loved, and so can you.
There are 5 ways to love a woman in love.
1. Tell the truth
So let's be honest. How many times have you told your woman a lie to protect her and prevent her from being harmed? How many times have you discovered that your woman didn't know if she would hurt her?
I have a friend who doesn’t tell her when he is dating a woman but doesn’t want to see her again. When she held out her hand, he responded briefly. When she wanted to do something, he made vague excuses. He was waiting patiently for his girlfriend to leave him. why? So he will not "harm her".
What men don't know is that women are stronger than men in thinking. Many of my clients tell me that if their guys just tell them the truth, then they can decide whether to fish or cut the bait without having to sit there and be curious about their actions.
Therefore, if you do something that you know may upset your woman, please tell her! If you are going to be late for work, please tell her, even if you think it will make her unhappy. If she receives a text message from you while eating at the dinner table saying that you will not be at home, it will make her even more unhappy.
initiative. I promise, one of the most effective ways to make your woman feel loved is to respect her strength and be honest with her, even if you are worried about how she will react.
And, know that if you want to keep a secret from your woman, it will eventually come out. When doing so, her trust in you will be violated, and good luck will come back from there.
2. Make time
I know I know. Life is very busy. There are jobs, friends, sports, mothers, children, pets, and chores. They all take a lot of time.
That being said, although all these things are important, the most important thing is right in front of you-your woman. Imagine if there was no her. What would you do?
When your golf game requires some work, you will practice more. If the project at work is particularly challenging, you will have to be late to complete it correctly. So why do so many men not spend time in a happy relationship?
Spending time with your woman does not mean not paying attention to other things in life, it means giving her priority.
I have a client who plays golf with his wife's permission every weekend. When he contacted me, he felt a little alienated from her, he was not sure why. I advise him not to play golf on one Saturday every month, but only one Saturday for them.
what happened? His wife is happy to spend more time with him. She feels special because she knows that he is wasting time doing what he loves her. Her distance disappeared immediately, and they had a great time on those Saturdays.
Therefore, put your woman first. I promise that you will make her feel loved.
3. Use your words
I can't tell you how many times I have asked my clients whether they told their partners how much they love them, how much they appreciate them, and how beautiful they are.
What do my clients usually say? I don't need to tell her that she already knows.
I can assure you that even if your woman knows you love her, she wants to hear from you. why? Because almost woman (and most men) are like to be told how and why, they are so special to you.
Today, my good friend and I are discussing how he does not have so many habits that bother me. Of course, he puts the OJ glass on the counter every morning, and the truck is too old and often unreliable, but I realize that these are not important because he keeps telling me that he loves me.
Tell me clearly how much he cares about me, which freed him from a lot of trouble every day and made our relationship stronger.
4. Don't be afraid
This is an interesting story. A client of my wife gets up late at night and puts his toes on the treadmill to celebrate his birthday. She immediately began to feel frustrated with this clumsy treadmill, how frustrated she was at work, and how she did not want her mother to roar the next day. My client is frustrated with her behavior.
As a woman, I can tell you what reality is. What happened was that his wife felt pain after her toes, and she needed to say a few words about the pain. These things are actually not a problem for her, but they are in her mind, and the pain makes them worse
Don't be afraid of women's emotions. Women do have emotions, and women are more likely to express these emotions than men. Her emotions seem big and uncontrollable to you, and you may do all possible to avoid them being displayed.
If you don't let the fear of her emotions drive you, but you will try to understand that they are real and absolutely possible, you will make her feel loved. She will know that you see her and believe her, and understand and respect her feelings.
It seems unbelievable, but if your wife cries loudly at the end of a long day, life and love will continue.
5. Listen
There is a very popular video on YouTube in which a woman is telling her partner that she is indeed struggling with headaches and stress, and she does not know what to do.
The camera pans to the left and we see a nail on her forehead. The camera pans to the man trying to point the nails and suggests that removing the nails may reduce stress. She was angry because he always tried to fix her when she just wanted him to listen.
When he did this, she calmed down and kissed him. Or, at least try. The nails on the forehead are difficult.
The number one problem I hear from women is that when they try to express how they feel about a man, the man does not acknowledge her feelings, but tries to find the root cause and solve it. Women don't want this.
Women want to be seen and heard by people, not fixed. If you can remove one thing from this article, then do it. The next time our woman feels sad, sit there, listen, acknowledge her and become compassionate. Don't try to fix her!
This is an interesting piece