Ladies stop bashing

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How is it going? Hope we are good? The day went well for me, I was at home all through the day with the intention to have a good long rest but ofcourse it turned out the other way round. It was laundry day for me and I succeded in washing all the clothes I received from clients. After that I prepared a big pot of beans to treat my stomach, my brother travelled so I had it all to myself and I really enjoyed myself today.

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My blog today will be talking about what I find not funny with ladies, BASHING.

What is BASHING? To bash someone means to criticize them severely, usually in a public way. This is a simple definition from this source

Disclaimer: The message you're about to read is completely my opinion on what I've noticed. It's not to hurt or hate anyone.

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This idea came up when I was sitting outside, glued to my phone while taking fresh air. Some girls traced down to the front our compound to patronize a lady that sells quick foods(noodles and eggs). They were there and seriously bashing a lady (not among them), saying how bad the lady is looking, "she has flat butt, chubby cheek, small bre*st and big tummy", they said all these at the top of their voices. I had to turn at their direction to really look at them, to see how they look to have the guts to talk ill of a fellow lady like that. I amazed me to see that they were "night" workers. No wonder there's no shame at all.

This is a very serious case in ladies as guys are hardly seen on this angle. For God's sake, what do ladies derive in bashing other ladies? Does it make them more beautiful or superior? It pains me so much. That's not how to kill low self esteem if that's why it's being done.

This thing happens often in my work place and I challenged them one day. I work in the midst of 10 ladies as the only guy except the manager who seldom stay or joke with us. These Ladies have this common quality in them. Thank God I'm the type that's not moved by certain gestures and knows how to keep boundaries to avoid some irrelevant issues, I've been keep cool with them.

I've caught them several times talking about female customers that came to patronize us, most times I keep a deaf hear to their talks or put on my headphones in order not to hear at all.

One day, a lady came, purchased food and on her way going, they assembled and focused their eyes on her while she was leaving (looking her as she's walking toward the door), one busted into loud laughter as they were saying all manners concerning her look. She has this and that, she even has stretch marks. Jeeeezzz. I turned instantly and calmly told them that the lady they're bashing is more beautiful than any them.

They felt my word but jokingly used laugh to cover it up. I didn't stopped there, I told them if they place all of them including the lady, for me to choose, I'd choose the lady over them 100times.

I've been with these ladies and I've seen things that I'm not supposed to see because they've all wanted the 'other side' of me but I've never been interested (sometimes I used to wonder on the way I go about spec, a lot of things don't move me). Yes I know that four of them have stretch marks. So I brought it to their notice that the lady they were mocking because she has stretch marks is not different from four of them(I pointed at them)yes, I pointed to their stretch marks and that finally shut their mouth that day.

Although, till today they are still bashing and I took it as it's in their nature to do that.

Is bashing really in girl's nature?

I know it's not all ladies are involved in this but the percentage involved is really much. I don't know where they inherited such traitit from because God is not responsible for that or maybe they were taught in school lol🤣.

They fail to know that "one man's food is another man's Poison", the look you're criticizing is what a young man somewhere is ready to kill himself for. The chubby body and big tummy you're criticizing is what good percentage of men are looking for. Eg the slim guys. The small backs you're bashing is what some guys want because they want someone that can easily controlled in the "upper room"

A good observation I noticed in the social world is that, the so called "ugly" ones have high percentages of settling down before the "all round beautiful" ones.

Looking at it the other way round, maybe ladies don't feel hurt when they're been talked ill at concerning their body, because since most of them do it, they fancy it as normal and with that it won't put pain in them. I don't know, I'm only assuming...

But on a normal stand, everyone feel pain when we are being bashed on our body. I remember when I used to suffer bully because of my slim nature during high school, it pained me so much.

If you're fond of it, please stop it. It doesn't make sense at all. Bashing other ladies won't make you feel more beautiful. You're only telling God that He didn't know what He did(what He created). Even if the person has deformity, please let the person be.

Thank you for reading.

14th April 2022

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