It is a 13 day of October, and a few days from now I will celebrate my 2 months here at read.cash🙈. The weather seems so good from the raging Maring yesterday, hopefully. Early in the morning, I just checked and read some articles and I am stuck in @BreadChamp article "Why fight for it if it's not worth it" and I ask her permission to make an entry on it. Thank you sis for allowing me😘. Thanks for saving me and my loaded mind😂.
Lemme start😊
If your partner hides your photos on social media, is it okay for you?
Totally okay, no big deal. Just like what I want, a private relationship no need to flex or whatsoever. If he does hide my photo it is up to him co'z it is his account.
Is it considered a one sided relationship if your partner is not 100% open to you?
A big yes, in a relationship trust is the foundation to make the relationship healthy and grow. Being open to the partner means so much and it helps the relationship go deeper because both of us know what we are fighting for. Kung hindi nagloko for sure no need to hide. Openness is important on the girl 's side, I dunno if you could agree with me. In girls if our partner is very open we feel like he loves, trusts and treasures as much as his partner by considering knowing. Kaya nga partner kasi dapat dalawa tao ang involve.
You opened your partner's social media once, is it okay that your partner changed her/his login right ahead?
Yes it is okay to change his password co'z it is his account not mine but what is a big deal is when he didn't tell me the new password hahaha. I trust him but the gut feeling and overthink inside me will cause our fight. If he wants privacy maybe in the first place he could not let me access his account. The gut feeling will always be there even if we don't want to. Change it then tell me the new password to avoid fighting and misunderstanding😘.
Is this type of relationship already a toxic one?
Maybe no, a toxic relationship is when both of you are hurting and not growing individually. Toxic when no more understanding of both sides and one voice rule the decision in a relationship. When that situation comes, leaving and breaking up is my solution to save from being more toxic. It is better to end than to suffer more.
When can you say that it is over?
When? maybe when I did my part to fight for but my partner still wants to let go and go. I want to fight as long as I can, for me not to have regrets when break up comes and proudly tell myself "I did my best in that relationship". When I say it's over, totally over kahit ubos na ubos nako.
Do years in a relationship matter to you?
No, many couples last for years but end in break up. In years, partners can get to know each other more and still break up and some stick to that relationship because of the word "sayang". No matter how long the relationship or small span of knowing when both of you are ready for lifetime commitment in each other's arms surely ends up into a married thing.
Is it still worth fighting for if you already tried your best in your relationship?
This question is what stuck me the most the moment I read until now. Part of yes but also part of me no. Maybe yes, still worth fighting for if I see my partner also fight the relationship we have. If not then maybe that's the time the fighting for is not worth it. I will stop fighting when I can see he doesn't see my worth.
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Di jud btaw nag matter ang years ayy. Naay dugay na kaau inya wala nagkadayun japun.