Would you say I am a solid 8?

PUBLISHED : 22/09/2021
PUBLISHED BY: JUMPER01

Hi everyone good day, I hope we are all keeping safe and I hope this read meets you well. I’m recent years I have had people give me several reasons why they think I am still single. Some would say because I am too picky, others would say oh Levi likes too many women and so he can’t choose. Well let’s see what you would think At the end of this article.

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welcome to my world

Hi my name is Levi most people like to call me jumper..I am a light-skin eastern Nigerian boy who grew up in the west. This article would seem like it is about me and my journey to finding the one by the one : I mean a partner but it sure is about young men my age and trying to find a romantic relationship.

I read @Olasquare‘s amazing article on relationships where he talked about building character and basically understanding the hurdles of relationships. Which you can check out on here by the way: it prompted me to ask myself if I was really ready to go into a relationship. I found myself asking me: if I was attractive enough, financially stable enough, mentally and emotionally stable enough to take on a relationship; I mean I wouldn’t want to ask a girl out and just take the relationship for granted because there is a popular saying which goes whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well. Anyways I came up with a lot of answers and theories hence this article. I would let you in on a few things about me then let you decide..

For the purpose of this article I would use a grading system as follows so you can understand what I mean:

1 to 4 : men in this category are not so desirable 5 to 7 : men in this category are okay above the average

8 to 9 : men in this category are wanted, needed by the opposite sex and therefore desirable

10: this is the ultimate category only a few people have achieved this category

Bear in mind sometimes a male can be a solid number or a shaking number; for instance a handsome man, with good manners, a job , wealthy and can cook, but lack hygiene and has a temper would be a shaking 6 or 5 not a Solid one

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My Physical attributes..

light skin, 😂😂 curly hair, amazing eyes great physique so I have been told. I have a great smile too. Moderate style of fashion, cool haircut, I have beards I actually have Beards. I am not short neither am I a giant. White teeth, clean nails, thing eye brows and a nice jaw line. Here is a picture of my face :

other attributes include: great sense of humor, a lot females say I am funny, I am a sport person, very active, I am also social, a little popular, friendly and fun to be around. Also I speak and write good English and a little bit of French .

wait are you doubting me ? 😂 all these characteristics are true. Anyways these are some of the reason why I think I am single.

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High standard

High standards in this context has to do with physical look, dress sense and presentability . For some reasons the kind of women I find my self attracted to are women with high standards. In as much as i wouldn’t advice anybody to go for just the looks I always look for women that are physically beautiful, classy and possess all the Quality of a boss lady.

Now, due to the structure of our Society any woman that possesses all these qualities must be hard to get which means it becomes even harder for me because I won’t be the only one fighting to get her to be mine. In as much as I know having high standards in physical looking is good when choosing a partner it can be very disadvantageous in the sense that even if you succeed in getting the person you want, you might find that in the long run jealousy may come in due to the fact that other people would try to take them away from you. It basically boils down to how strong your relationship with your partner is.

Bad girl vibes

Most of you might be thinking 😂😂 what is he saying, well as much as we want to argue as men that we need a partner who is very innocent and reserved we also want the freaky side. Let me explain, if I had options to pick a girl of any character and attribute I would mostly likely make the following list:

• Gorgeous, heavenly innocent smile.

• Pretty eyes and hair.

• A believer of Christ

• Innocent in attitude 😂😂 and looks

• I am indifferent about heights so she can be of any height

• A goal oriented person

• A funny and fun to be with person and for the last one .

• A freak 🌚

I would love a simultaneous relationship where we can love each other in different way, publish display of affection and just not plan whatever we would do when we go out.

Some other attributes I look out for include; a girl that can influence me positively, push me beyond my goals and takes good care of me. If she has money it would be a plus but I really don’t look out for money in a partner.

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my friends think …..

Levi is single because he has too many women in his life and he his talking to all of them, my question is what would they have me do . The fact that I am talking to 4 or 3 girls at the same time is because I am single; it’s basic human strategy keeping my options open.

I think….

I am single because i am not emotionally, physically and financially ready to take up a relationship. What do you think ?

In conclusion

I advice that before you go into a relationship make sure you have something to offer and make sure it genuine, relationships are like demo in game play where you are still testing the water trying to find out if your partner is the one so it’s best you give it your all. Take your time to study your partner. Look for signs are they willing to grow ? Are they ready to help you grow? Apart from finance are they other thing they can offer ? These are the most important points to consider because relationships can get very boring quickly and at the end of the day what remains is friendship.

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For Levi

Not to brag but personally I think I am a solid 8. I mean you have seen my qualities and personality. It is true that the only way you can truly know a person is when you live a long time with them but based on what you have read what do you think?let me know

thank you for your time as always

Peace ❤️