Hello my dear can I get to my life please.

12 June 2022.

Hi friends, Good day and happy Sunday. I am aware that emotions are running high and the crypto-verse is in such a scary place right now seeing as major stable coins have fallen so much in value. I just want to say that we should just have faith. Though it seems like the red isn’t going anywhere anytime soon let just keep believe that things we eventually change for good there would always be a balance, it is just how the world works… but that’s by the way.

This wasn’t the article I was suppose to post today. Actually I had something else written and ready to be published but this popped into my head because of the incident that happened some weeks back and now I just have to pour it out..

You see sometimes when people try to get your attention by doing extra stuff and you don’t react they would try to say bad things about you in order to tarnish your image in public and make you look like the bad guy.

“well you can’t gaslight me I love being the villain sometimes”

They can even go as far as telling other people that you aren’t a nice person and that they don’t like you. To me it’s so funny because how can you say such things about me if you don’t even know me.

Now I am going to narrate a small incident that happened to me about a week ago not because I care so much about it but because I want to use it to buttress my points besides this article has to be upto 4 mins lol.😂

So I joined a project team recently. We are trying to create NFTs and do some other new things on the crypto-verse you know. It was a team of 4 boys and 3 girls. Just for context it was initially 3 boys I was the fourth.

So sometimes we would chat on the platform provided by the team leader other times we would just maybe do a video call. I noticed when I joined initially all the boys in the group were always being nice to one particular girl because she was really pretty and she had a lot of followers on social media.Let’s call her “the special girl”.

I didn’t think much of it because truthfully it was none of my business. And after regular meetings for the project some of them would stay online socializing and fixing dates and stuff which was good but I just couldn’t join them because I only knew the boys I didn’t know the girls well.

Eventually two of the other girls started talking to me and every now and then I would make jokes about the things we talked about to them but I never really talked to the “special girl” because we had nothing to talk about honestly. Don’t get me wrong I like fine girls everyone who knows me knows that but I just couldn’t force a vibe that wasn’t there.

About a week ago one of the girls on the team sent me a direct message asking me if I knew that “the special girl” hates me because thinks that I am a proud person. At first I started laughing because I have never really given a thought about her and what she thinks of me. Well she was shocked that I sent her a voice note of me laughing seriously that she had to ask why I was laughing. This is was my response.

”I really don’t care what she thinks about me, she is not friends with me so why should I care. Besides you know me am I what she really says I am ?” She responded “of not I was really trying to explain to her but you know how she gets when you don’t agree with her”

The conversation went on for over 3 minutes or more and then we started to talk about something else.

I would just like to add this:- when people say things about you that you know fully well are all Lies and B.S you don’t need to bother your head thinking why they feel so about you. Just tell them this instead if you get the chance to and especially if they aren’t you friend.

“I don’t care if you don’t like me, cause I see clearly and I don’t compare what you think my life should be to what my life is which means I don’t care what your opinion might be. I have no fear because I am living my dream, hello my dear can I get to my life please? Thank you”

This has been therapeutic for me. Thanks for reading stay safe and stay hopeful.

The jumper.
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