Ew, A Toxic Kind Of Leader

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This day has been a normal day for me. I am a bit busy, but I am not that exhausted or tired. I don't know why, but I feel so productive today. I just finished my 3 reports today, continuous reports. Also, next week will be our midterm, and everyone has been kind of busy these past few weeks preparing for the upcoming midterm. We know that some teachers aren't considerate to some students.

The main thing that I will be sharing with you guys is this lovely classmate of mine. I will just let out my anger at her since I don't want any trouble or issues. LOL. As I've said, I had just finished my three reports. We were divided into four groups, and we were the last ones. I was the leader of the fourth group, after we tackled all of our reports on that subject, our professor then gave his comments on each of the groups as well as to the leaders. This leader of the second group was kind of arrogant and bossy towards her group members. The rest of the groups were given a great grade except for their group. Our professor said that it is so visible and crystal clear that they have a lack of teamwork and most of the members weren't able to tackle much of their reports. Because most of the reports were being discussed by their leader.

Then, after that, our professor talked to their leader, and he told her that she should at least let her members talk or discuss their assigned reports, but it looks like she didn't assign anyone for their reports. Do you know what she answered to our professor? She blamed all of her groupmates for not discussing some of their reports, and that they just let her discuss them all. Like, how come her groupmates can discuss their assigned topics when all of the reports were already discussed by her? I can still hear the time when one of her groupmates was about to tackle their report. She didn't let her groupmate finish talking because she was the one who continued discussing everything. She is the real definition of "Pabida". 

She was literally blaming all of her groupmates; they didn't do anything and didn't even help with their reports. She even let out words that were too offensive. Her groupmates then said that they had approached her and asked what the assigned topics were all about so that they could study. Her classmates said that their leader said that she would only be the one to report everything because it was just too easy for her, and if she let her groupmates do the reporting, it might just ruin everything. But little did she know, she was actually the one ruining their group reporting. She keeps on blaming everything on her groupmates when the truth is that it was all her fault all along, and she was supposed to take the blame for everything she's done. She's the reason they got such low grades.

She's the type of person who feels like she knows everything and is perfectly smart. This is the type of toxic person who doesn't want to be the second and should always be the first one on the leaderboard. Toxic mindset, toxic attitude, everything about her is toxic. This kind of attitude shouldn't be tolerated because people like this are the only ones who're ruining their lives and making their lives miserable in the end. Better change this toxic personality and mindset so there is no more regret in the end. Let's avoid this kind of people because they're not a good example. They may think they're right but they're absolutely not. LMAO.


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Maraming ganyan talaga, pabida ! Sya lang ata gusto pumasa eh! Gigil na ako dito hahaha

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2 years ago

mag una una ra siyag graduate daw HAHAH

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2 years ago

Naging leader dn ako dati..and seriously, it's tough to become one especially sa reporting. Kung pwd lng. Hndi magreport members nlng 🤣..but of course, it's a group work that should be done by the whole group. Ganun dapat

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2 years ago

kaya nga, by group naman yung reporting wala namang sinabi na individual, pabida din kasi masyado. Tas kawawa yung groupmates niya, ibig sabihin wala siyang tiwala sa ka group niya

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2 years ago

Aigooii, meron pa rin palang ganyan ano uso pa pala ang bida bida. Madami din kasi nyan nong kapanahunan ko hahaha I sound so old na gosh. Pero grabi sana marealize nya kung anong mali nya. Baka daanin sa iyak iyan. Alam mo na magaling din silang artista ee

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2 years ago

kakabwisit talaga mga taong ganto, ayaw tumanggap ng kamalian, gusto palaging tama

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2 years ago

Ang sama makisama sa ganyan, kakagigil.

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2 years ago

May ganyan akong leader ngayon, di ko na lang pinapansin hehe. Naalala ko yung theoretical framework, awit. Di kasi nakaparaphrased eh ayaw ko naman na itanong kay Ma'am kasi nga alam mo na hehe ulit na naman sa simula. Kinopya lang kasi yung mga theories tapos yung pagkakacitate hehe. Nagpasensya na lang talaga ako kasi nga di ko naman siya kakilala ng lubos hehe. Naalala ko na may utang na loob ako ron kasi siya naging kagrupo ko sa Business Finance eh. Di ko na lang po pinapapansin baka di kami makapagtimpi sa isa't isa haha

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2 years ago

for sure ibabalik din ulit yung research niyo, kaya mas mabuting sabihin sa kanya na need e paraphrased para at least hindi halata na kinopya HAHAH pero pag feeling me medyo bossy, ay hayaan mo na

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2 years ago

Tinanong ko nga sa kaniya tapos mukha siyang galit jajaja

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2 years ago

HAHAHA yawa hanggang ngayon talags meron pading ganyan na kaklase e pabida 😂 jusko naman pati ba naman sa gantong sitwasyon na online class may ganyan..hay nako

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2 years ago

kaya ngaaaa kaka bwisit diba? Kahit sa online class pabida parin, sino di maiinis diyan HAHAHA

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2 years ago

For me, she's not supposed to be called a leader, because she's acting like a boss, maybe the professor just choose her to lead them because she might be more brilliant than the rest.

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2 years ago

without a doubt, she is indeed a smart girl, but the problem is that her attitude didn't match with her intelligence

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2 years ago

May ganyan akong kateam sis..who never took the blame..alam mo yun..ituturo at ituturo nya sa iba ang kapalpakan nya..lulusutan at lulusutan nya yun..also, ayun nga gusto lagi sya ang magaling..hehehe...ayaw magpatalo.

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2 years ago

kahit saan madami parin talagang mga taong ganyan, mapa bata man o matanda. Mga ayaw magpa talo, gusto sila palaging tama

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2 years ago

Truth sis..minsan nakaka asar na din kaya patol din ako minsan dun sa officemante ko eh..napakayabang kasi

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2 years ago

Yes I agree with you sis. This kind of attitude should not be tolerated. It will hurt the others and itself also. There's no leadership. If we are a leader we must stand as a truly leader.

You should know what are the roles of a leader, a good leader. You must know how to handle and you should balance it. I pitied those members of the group. I hope she will change it sis. It is not good and I'm sure that there will be a regrets at the end.

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2 years ago

looy kaayo intawn ang iyang mga members, mintras naningkamot pud baya iya members ay, wala sad siya salig sa iya mga members

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2 years ago

Oo sis.. that's what we called selfish.. kalooy gayud sis..

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2 years ago

Chill hehehe. Hindi talaga mawawala Yung ganyang tipo ng tao. Yung parang Alam lahat.

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2 years ago

feeling alam lahat eh, ayaw pa magpatalo, kainis haha

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2 years ago

Relax lang ate kay ang Heart hehehe. Makalagot jud bitaw ng ing-ana na leader. Siguro mag tigi jud mi ana kung na belong ko saiyahang members.

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2 years ago

makalagot jud kaayo, pamaymay kaayo ba haha

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2 years ago

Nobody likes a know it all! Well I am glad that was not you inday Jini😁

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2 years ago

HAHAHA Luckily I'm not that kind of person kuya ed. I hate that kind of thing, who feels like she knows everything

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2 years ago

Oh I know you are absolutely nothing like her Inday Jini, otherwise we would not talk 🤣🤣🤣

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2 years ago

LOL. Toxic nga haha. But I do hope she'll soon realized that it's not a good attitude. Also, do you know her personally? There might be an underlying reason for her actions.

I also had that kind of classmate before, then I got closed to her and found out how she was being pressured by her parents.

Well, I'm not saying that they have the same reason, maybe, she have her reasons. I don't know her so I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt.

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2 years ago

I've known her since first year, ganyan na talaga ugali niya, gusto palaging tama, ayaw magpapatalo eh HHAHA

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