Parents Vs. Nannies.

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2 years ago

Once you've given birth to a child, your responsibilities as a mother tightened than before. Taking care of a child is a big task which some parents failed to do and their children's path gone in a wrong way. As a mother of a child, how should you consider it? You see it as a challenge or a burden to you in achieving your dreams. Once you become a mother there's no turning back anymore so better pick the right answer before giving birth to a child.

Are you ready or not yet?

A big question which some of the mothers out there failed to answer and there's a lot of reasons why they failed to do so such as business in works or other matters. Having a child is not the only problem of the mother to handle but if it's for the sake of the child, those other matters can wait right.

Raising a child is a parent's responsibility and it's theirs alone. But some parents tend to hire nannies to take care of their children especially if they have a hectic schedule on their jobs. Nannies do the job of a parent which I find not so good especially if the child is at the growing stage wherein they're trying to figure out what will they become in the future.

I can understand if the nannies will only help in take caring the child together with the mother but if the nanny will do the job of raising the child then it's a different story anymore.

For example in sleeping, a nanny accompanies the child in her/his bed and even sometimes they sleep together instead of the parents. In this scenario the bond between the child and the nanny is growing stronger than to it's parents which may cause a little problem later on when the child will grow.

The same scenario in eating, the nanny will accompany the child while the parents are already on their way to work without saying a goodbye to their child. This kind of act later on will make the child to feel like he/she's not that important to his/her parents which can make the child to enter into a rebellious state.

There's a video in tiktok I watched and the nannies and the parents where asked about the dreams and all sort of things about their child. The result was unbelievable. Imagine they are the parents but they didn't know a single thing about their child even their favorite color.

Isn't it that much if the situation is like that. Most of the nannies got the correct answer of the questions. So what does that mean? It only means that those nannies know those children more than their own parents.

The reason why the parents didn't know a single thing about their children is because they're putting a lot of time into their work instead of in their family. Now I'm wondering, isn't it work helps someone to make his/her family to get through everyday but what I'm witnessing now is that these works we have in our society is destroying the bond between a parent and a child then eventually the family.

That's my first thought about it but those works are not the problem here. The problem lies within the parents for not finding time for their children. There's a lot of time is they want to but they choose to be drowned in their work because of MONEY. What's the essence of money if the family you're trying to build is breaking apart from the beginning of constructing it.

It's a sad reality and a lot of parents didn't realize it yet. Money can't give full support to your child. A growing child need a lot of human support not money. It's the support most child needs which a lot of parents failed to give.

Is sparing time for your child a hard thing to do? I think it's not because those nannies as the best example. They take care other children aside from their child. They have a spared time for them. Conpared to their works and to yours, it's more difficult than yours because some nannies out there don't have day offs but they are able to ask the situations of their child.

They can do that amazingly but others still looks down at them just because their are nannies. Being a nanny is a great job but in the eyes of those judgemental and boastful people it's not. They deserve so much respect and a lot of benefits to from the government. They are less appreciated by many and I hope that one day that will change permanently.

My mom is a nanny back then in abroad and here in Baguio and she never fails to checked me every night. She did great and I'm proud of her. I'm proud to all nannies out there. Continue to support those children who need love.

Author's note

To all parents out there, I hope that spending time for your children is more important than spending money on them. There's no point in getting all worked up if your relationship with them is not that strong. It's more fun to spend money with them if your bond in each other is stronger than anything else.

That's all for today and I hope you got a lesson from this one.Thank you for being with me upto this part. See yah

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Mostly na mga bata na nakakaranas ng ganito sa family nila is they explore new things such as engaging in drugs. Lalo na mga teenage years nako. They should know their priorities talaga.

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2 years ago

Me? I am not ready. Not yet. I have to take care of my family and myself first and ensure that I am financially prepared.

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2 years ago

That's a good plan..sana ganiyan ang isip ng iba

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2 years ago

Iba talaga kung mga magulang Ang mag alaga sa mga anak. Kaya kung may trabaho, kahit pag uwi bigyan ng oras dahil makakaapekto sa paglaki nila.

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2 years ago

Kahit pakunti kunti po sana basta wag lang mawala yung bridge na nagkokonekta sa kanila..kasi mahirap ng ibalik iyon pag nawala na..lalo't mga bata pa..

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2 years ago

Ayun nga eh, if busy both parents sa work tas puro nanny nila kasama nila ung nanyayare mas napapalapit sila kay nannies kesa kay parents, yun lang may parents kasi na di napagtutuunan ng attention si baby

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2 years ago

Siguro if both silang busy magset sila ng day kaht sunday manlang para sa family bonding..para ng sa ganon eh yung presence nila as a parents nung bata is present parin.

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2 years ago

This is the main problem when it comes about the parents and nannies. There are parents who will hire some nannies, the one who take care their child. The saddened part, nannies stand as a parent of the child. Parents sometimes they didn't have a time for their child that's why parents must learn how to balance also. They should learn how to handle the things they had to avoid complications of the child.

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2 years ago

That's exactly the thing they must do no matter how complicated their schedule is..diba po. Wag naman ibuhos lahat ang oras sa trabaho to the point na nakakalimutan na na may anak pala sila..

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2 years ago

Yes Jher that's true. Parents should learn how to manage their time too. They should spend too for their children.

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2 years ago

Dapat kahit working mom ka, may oras ka pa din nilalaan sa bawat araw sa anak mo kasi yun tlga ang mangyayari mas maghhabol ang anak sa yaya kesa sa magulang which is masakit sa part ng nanay.

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2 years ago

Balance talaga po dapat para di masiyadong makaapekto sa bata ..lalo na sa paglaki niya..katakot lang na baka mamaya..nagsasuffer na pala yung anak nila deep inside..

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2 years ago

Nani? (japanese female voice)

Napanood ko naman yan sa Facebook kuys. Nakakalungkot lang din isipin na mas alam pa ng mga nanies ang mga bagay bagay patungkol sa bata kaysa sa kanilang mga mommies. Pero syempre, working kasi ang mga mommies nila and hasa little time lang to take care for their kids.

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2 years ago

Nakakalungkot lang kasi na ganun kalala yung kawalan nila ng oras sa mga bata.. Kahit naman sana na magfocus sila sa works nila eh ..di nila makalimutan yung responsibility nila as mga nanay or parents.

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2 years ago

Hindi naman natin masisisi ang mga magulang ng mga yan kasi syempre. Nagtatrabaho lang din sila to raise their children.

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2 years ago