@Jher0122
Don't You Just Teach it, Engrave Them.
A child can grow into a fine human by teaching them lessons they can fully use when they face the real world outside from their comfort zone. Also by teaching them the right lessons they can grow into a real human and not like an animal. Well for some reason I can more say that an animal is more human than a human sometimes. Sometimes humans are worst than animals regarding to things that they do. That's why it's really important to plant them the right lessons now while they are young. One thing is certain and I know that some of you will agree with me if I say that a child can have the right attitude starting from home but the child may have the bad attitude because in some situations, instead of learning good things inside the house, the child witnesses unnecessary scenarios and hear words they shouldn't hear. My mom was not with me since I'm 1 month old back then, she's tried going abroad and because of that my grandmother became the mother figure to me. I was very lucky to have my grandmother to be my mother because as I grew up I saw that she has a good attitude towards everything. She's not perfect but for me she's the best example of a good human being. At early age she taught me many things that even I apply it in real life. Even if she taught it when I was still a kid, still I remember it clearly as the day because she engraved those right lessons in my head and heart so that I won't forget it. From that alone you can learn a lesson already, **that is to engrave those right lessons in the minds and hearts of the young ones in order for them to carry it until they grow old. Don't just teach it to them, make sure that they will remember it again and again in order for them to do the right thing in the future.** These are the lessons taught to me when I was a kid by my grandmother. Even if you're poor, don't have foods and money, don't you ever try to steal from the people who have it. Don't let your situation to be the cause for you to do a bad thing to your fellow. What you can do in this situation is that you can ask for it if they can give you some food but not the money. She said back then that there's always a good samaritan out there who are always willing to share his/her food with you. About the money if you don't have, asking for it is not the right solution for you to have some, work for it, earn it by your own hands if you can still work. If you can't really work or it's urgent, ask it politely to those who have because there's always kindness in people's heart. Talk to them and explain your situation. **Don't you ever think to steal from your fellow humans because there's a lot of solutions to any problems**. **If you ever happen to be in a situation where in you need to choose right or wrong, always remember to choose the right thing to do.** Also ask for God's guidance in order for you to decide better. A lesson I will never forget and I will pass it down to my children soon. This is very important my good friends, no matter how dire the situation you're in, if you choose the right one over wrong, I'm sure you'll be good. But if you choose the wrong one I'm sure KARMA will hunt you. Always remember this friends, karma may not hunt you directly now or in years but it can happen to your children later on. Grandma taught this to me when I had done a bad act towards my classmate before. I had a fight and she scolded me and said, you can avoid that fight but still you chose to fight with your classmate. It's not right. You can always avoid fighting and avoiding it will never make you a coward. You just choose the right thing to do over the bad one. Until now I still remember it and I applied it when I'm stuying in highschool. Thanks to that I graduated without being sent to principal's office or to guidance in senior high. My cousins now are growing, the oldest are 2 twelve years old. When they are here I always teach and engrave those two lessons I learned before. I always remind them to apply it in real life and pass it down to their families when the time comes. So far they're doing great together with my younger cousins. I know that at some point in their life when I'm gone, I'm sure they will remember me, my lola and those lessons. I'm sure they will be thankful that we taught and engraved it to them. It may take time for it to be permanently engraved in their minds and hearts but I'm sure the outcome of doing it will be worth it. **Author's note** I can share a rule to you my dear friends, it doesn't matter if the one who raised you was bad or good, Always choose the decision in raising those young ones into a good human being. That's the best thing we can do in order to make this world a better place for the future generations to live in. This slowly dying world need more good human being that can trusted to take care of it. Also it's a pleasant thing to do. I have a lot to share with you guys but the night is getting deeper and the rain is pouring hard making me sleepy so I'll end it here. Once again, I thank you for giving your time reading upto this far. See yah.
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19 comments
House rules and practices always makes the outcome of a kid, only a handful of situation wherein a kid who grow up in a harsh environment turns into a good one once a kid grows up.
Those 2 are really the foundation to be able to raise a good kid ..and these are neede nowadays since I can see some of the kids now are not like before .... It makes me sad..
It's all good bro, that's just normal and the only thing we can do is to watch and guide them grow and support their dreams in anyway we can.
That's also true po..
A child learns every single things from his parents particularly what he observes. So do good let the child learn good.
Exactly ...that's the way to it .. they need role models .. So if you do good to your fellow ..your children will also do the same thing
"Train a child in the way he should go, and ehbe he is old he will depart from it". If parents become more serious, with given their children the proper home training, the society will be a better pla e to dwell in. Parents are slacking sometimes.
That's why I'm always reminding my younger cousins... Parents can't attend to their responsibility sometimes due to workloads but they must find time to deal with their kids.. They need proper guidance while young.
Sabi nga nila the first teacher of a child is their own parents/guardians. Kaya kung maganda ang pagpapalaki sa mga anak, it means naturuan ng tama. Ang mga aral na makukuha natin sa kanila can be applied in real life at sa mga susunod na henerasyon, iyan ang kayamanang hinding-hindi mananakaw ninuman
Tama po iyan ..once na nakatanim na sa kanila yung mga mabubuting aral at asal madadala na nila yun pagtanda..at yung ang kinagandahan ..
That's right habang bata pa dapat na mahape na sila and teach them lessons about living this journey of life and engraved it to their mind that always be the best version of themselves and live this life with kindness and love. Sabi nga nila ang unang paaralan ay nagsisimula sa tahanan. Ang mga magulangbo ang mga kasama natin sa ating tahanan ang siyang una nating mga guro at mga influence habang tayo ay nasa murang edad pa lamang.
I agree po dito na sa bahay ang unang paaralan ng bata kaya dapat mabuting aral na ang naituturo sa umpisa ... ganun din sa paaralan..minsan kasi nakakaligtaan ng mga matatanda na may nakikinig sa kanilang bata..
You're right, Jher. Most children become how they were taught to be. Not just how they were taught but also by what they see as they grow up. It is always better to surround them with good practices so that they can learn from them.
What they see around them really create an impact to what they become in the future.. that's why we need to be careful what to show them..
Some kids are well-disciplined because they are well-raised by their parents. Some well-raised kids also lose their good attitude because of the environment they are in when they left home. It really depends on the person.
Everything start on our home talaga ee. Depends di sa mga kasama natin sa bahay. Yong ngs aksyon ng ilan na hindi muna nag iisip kahit may bata silang kasama, maaadopt ng mga bata yan. Dito mandin sa bahay, palamura mga kasama ko Dito as way of expression lang naman ee. Ayun dahil gsnon sila, naisip ko it's not that bad naman pala to curse, and I think it's cool too kaya ayun. Palamura na din ako now. Isa lang yan sa maaaring matutunan ng bata sa loob ng bahay. Pero as for me, expression lang talaga at di ako nang mumura ng tao. Basta ganon.
Definitely, the right conduct comes from the home where the parents teaches their children. Not just teach but give the power of love by teaching them because with that everything goes.
Parents are the first teacher talaga sa mga bata. Sabi nga nila, kung ano ang ugali ng mga bata ay magrereflect daw ito kung anong klaseng parents meron sila. Kaya mahalaga na turuan ng tama ang mga bata while they're young. Madadala nila yan sa paglaki at maituro din nila sa kanilang mga anak in the future.
Vital talaga na matino din yung parents para makapag produce sila ng matino din at maayos na anak. Kasi kung yung mga magulang ay mali din ang values, most likely maipapasa nila yun sa offspring nila.