Mastering The Art Of Resiliency.

Our life is full of various obstacles and day by day we are being challenge by them. Sometimes it gives us a lot of troubles to the point of losing our morale in moving forward to our goals in life. Others may see obstacles as a hindrance to their success but for me I see it as a double edge sword. Why? Because it can make me bleed a lot of blood but at the same time it can serve as my weapon and protection in the near future.

In my opinion I think we should face a lot of obstacles in our younger years for us to be molded into a human with a proper mindset in combating those ahead of us because we don't know what they got in bringing us down. So don't think that those obstacles you are facing right now are a hindrance to you. That's a wrong mindset. You should take advantage of them and use them to become more resilient. By having and by practicing the art of resiliency we see paradise at the end of our journey. We Filipinos practiced it for over thousand of years, it's in our blood so why don't we execute it in our daily lives.

In this article I just want to point out what I learned on how to become more resilient in our life. Let's see how we can master it so come on and let's encover these five things.

Number one, Be Authentic.

First of all the definition of authentic is being genuine or real. Why's that? Because in our life we are dealing with real things, real problems so we want to deal it our real self and not a fake one.

It's important to be authentic in order to create real solutions towards our real fights. Don't be a copy cat and just copying everything of what you see in your surroundings. Find your unique styles in conquering those walls. Also the key in being authentic is be true to your self, express what you really feel towards things and all. It's really hard to fight in our journey if we fake everything. There's no guarantee that in the end we can get authentic results if our actions are not even real. So always keep in mind to be authentic at all times even if sometimes we are so down and crying behind the shadow.

Number two, Stay Calm.

Life will surprise us in every way it can in order to make us surrender in our fights. It will throw everything it have to make us confuse and to lose our focus. With this kind of strategy of life we need to remain calm at all times in order for us to make rightful decisions. Being calm has a lot of advantages in our life so we should practice it at all times.

Number three, Be Grateful.

In life despite the things we encounter, even the worst things still we should be grateful with the things we have now and for the blessings we recieved. Sometimes we forget to be grateful because our minds is occupied with a lot of things especially problems in our life and it shouldn't be. In our journey we can lose a lot of things and we shouldn't be down with it instead we should be still grateful because there's a valid reason why you lose it. Be grateful for everything we gain and for everything happened in our life.

Number four, Trust In Yourself.

In fighting our battles we should keep in mind and we should always execute what we need the most. You can't do a single thing if you don't have a trust in yourself. The trust in ourselves is the thing that drives us to achieve spectacular achievement in our journey. You can't become a strong individual if you doubt yourself. So please don't ever doubt yourself because yourself is your only ally when everyone turn their backs on you. Your trust in yourself is the main key in unlocking those gigantic doors of success.

Number five, Find Your Purpose.

We exist in this wonderful world because for the sole reason that we have a purpose to fulfill while we sail our journey. In becoming more resilient we need to determine our great purpose in order for us to transform into a person that fits for it. Having a purpose drives us to be better in many things and achieving the impossible tasks. We need it to keep going aside from our goals in life. If you have a purpose I'm sure you can sail your journey smoothly.

All those five factors really helps in mastering the art of resiliency. If it is executed properly I'm sure it can result to great things.

Thank you to these awesome people and my avid readers out there. Godbless us all.