The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people

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Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're doing great and having a great week as well. Let's quickly review yesterday's article.

We can all testify that there have been times when we feel like we have been working a lot and there is nothing to show for it. It's kind of painful but we should not give up because of that. When working towards our goals,even if it's everyday as expected to be, it will not show immediate results, because of what we call process. Nevertheless, it will still show in the long term, and that is if we stay the course without giving up. As long as you keep working towards your goal, nothing you do is a waste of time.

You'll need to understand process. If you stay through to process, stay consistent, you do not give up nor expect immediate results, one day you'll wake up and see that you've already seeing the results of your hard work which will encourage you to even push more.

Almost everybody wants to see instant results. That is we think that if we are not seeing little success or signs of success, it means that our work has been a waste.

It's very frustrating to be expecting some kind of progress due to working towards a long term goal and not seeing immediate results or even if it's shades of success. This has made a lot of people to get discouraged and give up on this journey to success. It can feel like all the hours and days that you've invested working are just for nothing. Another worse one is to even compare yourself with another person, this will make you think that there was an easier way to achieve your goal. But the truth is, achieving success takes time and diligence. There's no shortcut to it.

You need to remain patient and trust the process, that is the key to achieving success. One quick advice also is that you should celebrate your wins even if it is the smallest of accomplishments.

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Relationships are affected by the individual characteristics of each person involved in a relationship. Each person makes decisions based on their personality, upbringing, experiences and emotions. Each person in a relationship needs to learn to accept the other person's imperfections. Learning to live with the imperfections of others is an essential ingredient in building healthy relationships and maintaining them

The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.

However, sometimes it is hard to recognize the good in people. We are too absorbed in their negative traits to see their qualities, and we also forget that we all have weaknesses, but when we learn to live with the imperfections of others, and start to admire their good qualities, we will be able to create excellent relationship.

The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.

To love does not mean that you have to be with someone all the time, go everywhere together and do everything in groups. It means you should spend time together when you can, enjoy each other's company and support each other when you need it.

No one is perfect, we just need to learn to manage our weaknesses instead of being judgemental. You should understand that weaknesses come from our past or present experiences and our parents' mistakes or inability to give us the attention or knowledge we needed at the right time. You should always believe in your partner's potential and be forgiving if they make mistakes, because no one is perfect. Even if you are right 100 percent of the time, there will be a time that you will be wrong.

We should learn to love unconditionally without expecting a reward for our love and affection. Giving without expecting anything in return is the best way to show how much we love somebody.

Achieving happiness in a relationship is not impossible. I think the best relationships are based on love, understanding and respect. It does not mean that you have to agree with each other, it means you agree that you will find a solution to your disagreement.

This means that sometimes you will have to tolerate things that you do not like or even dislike. We have to understand that we are all human and we have flaws and weaknesses. By accepting them without being judgemental, we can live with those weaknesses. People change, but at least we must try to be the best version of ourselves.

By working together and knowing each other's weaknesses and strengths, you can overcome your differences and make a relationship last.

Thanks for reading through. I hope loved it.

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Wahhh your words somehow made me realize something, that sometimes we have to live to that imperfections and accept it.

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2 years ago

Yeah, there are imperfections that hat have become normal to you

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It's all good, and yeah realtionship really lasts when the parties involved in it know how to admire the imperfections, and live to prosper together.

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2 years ago

Exactly, you're correct

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Yeah because it's a give and take relationship you shouldn't expect that everything will happen to as you like it because the relationship will last when you know how to give and take suggestions or beliefs from others.

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2 years ago

This is very valid

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2 years ago

The first part is relatable here in read and in noise. There are those who easily gave up because of expecting huge results instantly.

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2 years ago

Yes, it's so sad they don't know how much benefit they'll get if they're patient and diligent

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Truly Jerry, good relationships doesn't necessarily mean both parties think alike or have the same traits. It's learning to accept each other's differences and flaws.

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Yes. That's correct

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