Own your decisions
Good day guys. How are you doing today, I trust that you having a great day. Let's quickly review yesterday's article.
When a problem goes unsolved for a long time, you will start to think that the problem might remain unsolved. In this case, if you want the problem solved, you'll need to adopt a different mentality in order to be able to get a good perspective that is efficient to solve the problems. That kind of mindset is characterized by these;
- Because you find yourself stuck in a situation that has lingered more than expected, and you begin to think that the situation will remain the same.
-You do not realize that the situation you're in has made you stronger, wiser and better.
-You become so concerned about what others will say instead of looking for a way to change your circumstances.
-You always think and believe that change is not possible to achieve. You prefer to remain where you're instead of trying something new.
Positive thinking will be required but that's not the main deal, the main deal is about changing your mindset.
No matter how hard it seems that you put in the work, if you feel fear and impossibility inside yourself, you'll never change things because your mindset is in direct opposite to your effort.
Change might be hard and sometimes, the circumstances we face are beyond our control, nevertheless change is inevitable for those that want a turnaround.
It's impossible to solve problems using the same mindset that created them and sustained their existence.
You cannot do without changing your mindset because every day we are face with problems that need solutions. Therefore if there's a problem, yours should change your mindset in order for you to find the solutions that will help you solve this problem.
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You need the right information to make your decision, but you have to know that not everyone will give you great advice, that is why it is highly important for you to consider any advice given before doing anything since you'll be held responsible for the outcome. You need to make sure that you own your decisions.
When you are given an advice either from your family, friends or even from people you don't know, you should consider making an effort to analyze it very carefully because at the end this is what will count.
There will be people who would advise you to do things that are not good for you, there will also be people who'll advise you to do things that are not right at all, it is therefore essential that before you make any decision,you consider any advice given to you because at the end you'll be held responsible for whatever decision you have made.
The best way to avoid being accused of something you didn't do is by not doing it at all. You should never blame other people and you should never say that someone forced you to do anything.
Life isn't always about agreeing with people; most times it's about finding a way to get your point across. You can provide advice to others, but only they can decide how to use it, so don't blame yourself if it doesn't work out
When you opt to use advice provided to you by anyone, you have to be ready to face the consequences, whether you liked them or not. Whether you regret taking action on the advice or not, it is your responsibility to think about what could have happened if you didn't take any action at all. Make sure you own your decisions, not someone else's. If something bad happened to you because of advice provided to you, make sure it was worth it. Because at the end of the day, not everyone has good intentions when giving others advice.
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Indeed, whatever the consequences of our decision it's always in us.