Jumping into conclusions

Good day guys, how are you doing today? I trust that you're doing well. Happy Monday to you and I wish you a very productive week.

My last article was about social media and how it can help and not help you. Social media makes us the most advantaged but most distracted generation.

There's so much that can be achieved by the good use of the social media and there's so much that can be destroyed by this same social media. The balance should be that we should learn for a way to make use of the social media to our own advantage. Although it takes a lot to break free especially when you're addicted to it. You can break free from too much obsession over the social media. I really liked one of the comments on the article where someone said the amount of data social media consumes was enough to keep that person from the social media. But for those that have access to free WiFi, I understand that it can be really hard, nevertheless it's possible.

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Opinions are the rights of every human. Nevertheless, there are wrong opinions and right opinions. One of the easiest thing is to do is to give opinions on matters. You don't really need to be consulted before you give opinions on a particular matter. Everyone likes to give opinions, most people want to be heard, this sometimes leads them to saying the wrong things.

It's known that people tend to jump into conclusions on matter they know little or nothing about. This is very bad because it shows that you lack understanding on how to react or contribute to a particular matter.

Brent Lamb once said that 'if you can't find something good to say, say nothing at all'. This is a great saying because you really don't have to say a lot of things. Some people don't know how to keep quiet. They always want to talk. When they talk, they talk till they start saying the wrong things.

When there's an issue or misunderstanding, people are quick to judge the matters by the rumours heard from people. They already finish judging that matter without hearing from the parties that matter.

In some cases, some people just hear form one of the parties, and then jump into conclusions on that matter. It is very important to know that jumping into conclusions can be disastrous to people, relationship and even lives and properties.

For example, you conclude on a matter that determines the life of a person based on rumors or what you heard from one of the parties. You'll put the other party in trouble because you've failed to do due diligence to listening an judging rightly instead of jumping into conclusions.

When we see people go through some things, maybe problems, it's very easy to jump into conclusions and say that they caused the problems for themselves. Not everyone causes the problems they face. Some are beyond the extents of their influence. You don't control every thing that happens in your. That is some things will happen without your awareness amd also not because you did something that caused it.

So, in all things, let us try to hear before judging, also take time to listen before jumping into conclusions.

Have a nice day.