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No More Pain, Madam Pachuchay 💔 2 days ago when I stumbled upon sis @bmjc98 's noise post about the passing of madam @Pachuchay . I was so in disbelief when I read it. Like, how did it happen? We were just exchanging comments here days ago and this is just too sudden. I had no idea what happened to her these past few days. I wanna know how but I think it's not necessary for now. I should respect the entire family's privacy and space to grieve. I knew she has a lifetime serious illness and I have witnessed how madam battled with that. It is such a heartbreaking fact to lose her but at least, madam is no longer in pain. To make sure that what I read was true, I came across her sister's post and there, I saw madam covered in white linen 💔 I felt weak, my body felt weak. To my disbelief, I stared at the ceiling for a moment. I couldn't believe it. I mean, make it make sense? Then things start to sink in slowly. My heart feels so heavy. This is personal to me because I have witnessed how madam started her journey here on read.cash. From there, we became really good friends even though we've only met virtually. I even had a plan of meeting her back when we were launching my band's music hoping for a success but it's not gonna happen anymore. Here are some of the conversations we had before:
Wow, this conversation was 2 years ago. Almost 3 actually. Madam used to have this name @damelindz before but her account was marked as spam that's she created a new one and named herself Pachuchay. Meeting madam was such a delight. Her personality is so lovely. You would never feel awkward approaching her. She's nice and easy to talk with, she can carry good conversations along the way, she's smart, and is very loving to her husband and only daughter.
It took me hours of reading back her articles and short posts. I felt the need to, and as I was reading back all her articles, I realized how tough the journey was for madam. She definitely put up a good fight. We all witnessed the struggles and pain she went through because of her illness.
This was when she took the courage to have herself checked because what she felt was already bothering her. That's when she found out she had Myasthenia gravis. I think that was around October 2021. Refer here to read the full context. https://read.cash/@Pachuchay/is-this-the-end-for-me-5f023e59 I was so saddened and worried about her condition at that time but I was really optimistic that she'll get it through. We were in high hopes that everything's gonna be fine. The first doctor who diagnosed her seemed to be only concerned of the money he'll get from madam and was actually exploiting a lot from her. That was terrible. Good thing she had her second opinion and she went through several tests and seek best medical attention for her condition. It was not easy for her. It was such a tough journey. A lot of challenges and struggles went on. I felt anxious of how she's doing everyday. I salute her husband for not giving up on her. He's always with her through ups and downs. This article broke my heart. 🥺 Madam was looking forward to travel the world and to see her daughter graduate in college 💔 https://read.cash/@Pachuchay/dear-me-in-5-years-b4333c64
That was published December 18, 2021. The letter for herself was so full of hope and happiness to turn them all into a reality. However, life has its own way of demonstrating mystery and uncertainty. We have lost a friend, a family member that we have all cherished. We're all gonna miss you, madam. We would love to read more of your articles but we need to let you go. No more suffering madam. You put up a great fight. You are definitely a warrior. Rest in peace. 🙏 *The lead image was our conversation last Christmas.* Thanks for reading. Keep safe everyone!
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All I can do is cry reading the post coming from her. She is hopeful. Hopeful that even though she knows he illness is for life. This is really sad
Mao lage sissy oy. Pero warrior kaayo si madam oy. Mura na gani daw syag katipunera sa cgeg laban. 😅 Ay, nakakaintindi kaba bisaya sissy?
Hindi sis, pero gets ko Tong reply mo hahaha 😊
Haha. Kala ko kase bisaya ka. Pero buti nlng, naintindihan mo. Haha
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Nagulat ako madam. 😔 Condolences to the bereaved families. 😔
Kalit lang gyud kaayo madam 💔
Oh madam.😔 Nakakita pako niya mag comment2 sa uban articles.
Omg ate, this is so heartbreaking :( I have known Ate Pachuchay for months, and it all started in Noise. Cash, and witnessed how she vigorously fought for her life despite everything. Nakakalungkot, Hindi an tlaga natin alam kung ano ang mangayyari sa atin sa mga susunod na araw. Rest in peace Ate Pachuchay, pahinga kana. :(
Life is so uncertain talaga Lyn. Mapapaisip ka rin eh. Pero at least, pahinga na si madam.
Yes po Ate, kaya let's pray for her soul Ate. Lalo na sa mga naiwanan niyang pamilya 🥹
I was also surprised today to read a publication where I read what Someone said about the physical disappearance of pachuchay. I remember last year she was hospitalized and needed money for certain expenses. Many of us helped her then. This time I didn't know she was sick. Peace to her soul. Q,DEP.
Yeah, everyone chipped in to help her financial needs. Her illness was lifetime though and incurable. It comes and goes. People who have illness like her get slimmer chance of having longer life span.
In this type of autoimmune disease, you have to spend too much money to maintain life. I have also seen a friend die with this pathology. She was my age, but the covid took her away, killed her because of her myasthenia gravis disease.
Myasthenia gravis is such a tough one to battle with. Pachuchay fought over a year against it. :(
Yes, it is an evil disease. The organism itself fights against the person. My friend fought it for many years. She also had her thymus removed. She lived about 30 years with that disease. I read Pachuchay's publications several times when she was hospitalized. She fought a lot.
Nakakalungkot tlga madam ano, ang saya p ng huling usap nmin at ngplano pa syng gumala paggumaling n sy dahil boring na daw sya sa loob ng bahay, un pala ndi na kakayanin ng katawan nya, makakagala na nga sya ng malaya at walang iniisip n sakit. Rest in peace madam pachuchay! Gabayan mo mag-ama mo at syempre kami din...ndi ka namin makakalimutan
She's a good friend to everyone talaga madam no? Everyone liked her. Magaan kase personality niya tapos very interactive pa.
Hala oi, nakabasa pud biya ko sa iyang mga article dire ug sa noise last time nko nkakita sa iya story tung gisugod siyag hospital, di jud lalim iyang struggle I felt sad pud sa nahitabo niya. Condolence to the family and friends of Pachuchay 😔
Luoy kaayo sissy oy pero at least pahulay na sya. Maka rest na gyud tawon si madam.
Hala uy, mga last week lang sad mi nag exchange comments.. ug ako sya gi ingnan e prepare iyang self if worst scenario comes, sa iyang post ...haaay our life on earth is actually too short.
Mao gyud madam. She fought for over a year pud and for sure, grabe iyang kalisod atong mga panahona.
She is now in heaven with our Almighty, the place that she belong, no more pain and all are happiness
Yeah, no more pain 🥺💔
Hala!!! Wa pa gabi ko ka rely sa iyaha sa among conversation atong imong post about gvment employees, unya ani na nahitabo? Shocked jud ko ay. Karo pako ka online.
Sudden kaayo madam oy. Nahunong gud ko sakong gibuhat pagbasa nakos post.
Nakaka lungkot naman tong news na to. Last week lng isa sya sa mga ng welcome back sakin dito sa read. Huhuhuhu... 😭😭😭
Mao lage miss andi oy 💔 naguol gyud ko pag-ayo. Kalit ragyud kaayo 🥺
Kalit jud bitaw kaayo. Huhuhu. Life is so short jud dai..
maka Sad kaau.. life indeed is fragile... rest in peace maam pachuchay!
Uncertain kaayo madam ba 💔 di gyud matag-an ang kinabuhi. Pero at least wa na nag suffer si madam. Nakapahulay na
Rip friend pachuchay. 😭😭😭
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Hi neth, now lang ulit ako naka log in, wala na pala siya, nakapag comment pa siya sa last article ko, mga two weeks ago yata.nakakalungkot naman. On the other side, di na rin siya mahihirapan.
True madam, at least di na sya maglisod oy. Luoy kaayo sya gyud.