Women are said to be really complicated. They say women are hard to get sometimes.
For this article, let's try to understand women more and uncover what women really want. This insight is based on my friends, family, and myself. Basically, this is based on women that I know.
Generally, we all want a caring partner. We want someone that makes us feel special and important. We love making someone else important. We are all the same, at some point. Psychologically speaking, men and women aren't as different as what others think.
But since we are talking about women now, let's get into what the majority of women want in a man.
Let's start...
Women love honesty, sincerity, and trust.
Honesty builds trust. And the sincerity in being honest and building trust is very important in carving your relationship. We remember your promises and we expect it to at least be acknowledged. You may not fulfill it but when your intentions are sincere, they will let simple promises with acknowledgment pass
Compassionate, caring and sensitive
We want a man that has a lot of compassion. One that we feel will always be there in ups and downs. One that cares about our opinions and is sensitive enough not to disregard our thoughts. Now, don't get me wrong, I don't mean 'sensitive' in a sense that it makes him look weak.
Not afraid to show his flaws
Many men are afraid to show their vulnerability because they think it makes them look soft. Softness is what women also likes sometimes. We also want to be the 'strong one' in a relationship. We also want the feeling of being needed for strength as much as men. We think it's cute to see how men acts soft sometimes.
Reliable / Accountable
This one is in general and not only in financial needs. We want to be comfortable in relying to our man. The confidence in letting them be with the kids for couple of hours while you do some errands. The confidence in knowing they will come in time and if they're unable, the confidence in knowing they will be accountable to whatever mistake they do. One that is not afraid to accept their mistakes and be responsible enough to face it.
Sweet and jealous
As weird as it may sound, yes we like it when men gets a bit jealous. Not to the point that they get all crazy and be so obsessed with us. A bit of jealousy handled in a delicate way is cute. It gives us the feeling of validation. It gives us the feeling of being the most admired girl. It gives us the romantic excitement. But when jealousy is too much, it gives us hell. So be careful.
Masculine in a feminine way
Another weird and (may sound) contradicting thought. What do I mean 'masculine in a feminine way'... It means we want a man that is open with their feelings but is also very strong. Someone funny but can also be stern. Someone who takes success seriously but is also not afraid to have some fun and live life. Strong yet delicate. If you know what I mean.
Loving and romantic
You don't have to book a trip to a very romantic paradise to be calles romantic. If you know how to keep the fire of romance alive in simple ways, you're good to go. We want to feel loved, loved and, loved. A quality time together and a simple hugs and kisses are romantic. It doesn't really matter where you go as long as you both love each other, every place and moment is magical. But of course, it'll be nice to be in a fancy place haha just kidding.
We know we can't have all we want in a man just like you can't have everything you want in a woman. Basically, we just want to be heard, cared and be loved. Everyone wants to be happy with someone they love.
Love with no limit. Love with no other intention other than just love. Love and make both your worlds be as one.
Very nice..πππ