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Divine Justice will surely come true when the time comes!
Do you believe in justice? Are you one of those who believe that there is no justice in the world? How would you see the world if you believed that everything you do has a divine reward, no matter how unjust we think the world is?
I must say frankly that there were many times when I thought that there was no justice in the world.
But when I didn't limit what happened only to the time I lived, I witnessed divine justice fulfilled many times. For this reason, when something bad happens to me, when I get hurt by someone, I pray for God to save me from the difficult situations I'm going through. And I pray for divine justice.
When I am wronged, betrayed, slandered, I ask for divine justice so that I will be rewarded with good things and blessings in return for the difficulties I have experienced, and God will reward those who made me live for the betrayal or slander.
Because I don't want to spoil my personality, character, and pollute my heart with feelings of hatred and anger because of what happened to me. I don't want to turn into a bad person just because others are bad people. I do not want to make the mistake of taking revenge by doing the same harm to the one who did me wrong.
When I look back, I have witnessed many times that those who did evil were punished for their evil deeds. If it hasn't happened yet, it will definitely happen one day.
In fact, the most important thing is that Allah helps us and somehow saves us from difficulties. We do not care who will find evil how, how they will be punished.
Of course, divine justice will definitely be fulfilled one day. There is a reward for good and a punishment for evil. If you keep doing good deeds, you will definitely get rewards for it. People can rely on their power, money, position and authority. But no one's worldly power is sufficient in the face of Allah's infinite power and might.
If you trust the Almighty Creator, the owner of endless and unlimited mercy, love, power and might, and you ask for protection from him, he will offer you all the power and divine protection he has. God decides how and when that will happen. If Allah wills, He can assign an army of Angels for you.
Divine justice may not exist today or tomorrow. But it will definitely happen.
Two people with whom I worked at the same job and who tried to harm me by slandering me were fired. I didn't want to take revenge on them. I just took refuge in God. Someone slandered my two friends, saying, "They don't work." But for a few days in a row he made mistakes with his job and was fired by the boss.
In fact, anyone can make mistakes. Sometimes our mistakes are ignored. But if divine justice has stepped in, even the smallest mistake can end badly. A person who believes that he has never made a mistake, that he has done everything perfectly, and tries to make others look worthless, discredited, and fired, will one day make such mistakes that even a simple mistake can result in his dismissal or worse.
Evil does not go unpunished. Even if no one sees or knows, God sees and knows everything we do. God knows everything that goes through our minds and hearts. We can deceive ourselves and others with lies and slanders, but we cannot deceive God.
Therefore, it is futile to try to do evil and expect success in the end, believing that we will be rewarded with good.
The reward of good is good, and the reward of evil is evil. Therefore, whatever happens to us, it is for our own good, above all, to try to do good and stay away from doing evil.
Even if someone does us harm, it is best not to deviate from the path of good. It may be difficult to reciprocate with kindness. But that shouldn't deter us from doing good to others, or at least not cause us to start doing evil.
Let the bad people out of our lives and let us continue to live our lives with good people. Let us leave the issue of punishment to Allah's discretion and wish for divine justice.
May Allah bring goodness and good people into our lives and keep evil and bad people away from us.
Picture from Pixabay. https://pixabay.com/photos/justitia-goddess-goddess-of-justice-2597016/
It's you!
Hello everyone, friends!
As you know, the effects of the winter season have begun.
After getting out of an 8-hour night shift, I wanted to take a few "Starting the day in nature"-themed photos, taking the opportunity of a friend's catastrophe. Of course, I made up the theme part. :)
My 6-day night shift is over this morning. Now I've opened my 2nd beer at home, while I'm watching the last video of a youtube channel called "noluyo ya".
If you know Turkish or can watch it with subtitles, I definitely recommend it. Because watching the "noluyo ya" channel gives me a lot of pleasure. Channel Ceyda and Fırat is a fun and enjoyable channel where enjoyable videos are broadcast from the life of a married couple. Moreover, both of them are actors in movies and TV series.
What I love and appreciate the most is a happy, loving and moreover famous married couple making wonderful videos together in harmony. A man who loves his wife, a happy woman with her husband. Something we miss today.
There may be thousands of examples of failed marriages in the world, and the media and social media can encourage and normalize it. An attempt can be made to create the perception that love is something specific only to mythical characters like Romeo and Juliet.
The world is a place where couples full of love, happiness and joy live. The world is full of love. We may not be in a relationship right now, but we can start a great relationship with a loved one who loves us.
We live in a world full of love, compassion, humanity, brotherhood, peace and beauty. Our mistake is pessimism, which constantly focuses on the negative, seeing the worst and believing that the worst will happen to us.
We are so focused on the negative that even if we fall into the heart of heaven, we seem to cry about why I have to be happy.
Do you believe the world is not love? First you love and be a loving person!
Do you believe that no one has any mercy left? Be the best example of mercy!
Do you think happy relationships are not possible? Be happy first so that the people you are in a relationship with can be happy with you!
No one is trusted? Become a reliable person!
Why do you believe the world is hell? Heaven and hell are within you. Why don't you believe in heaven?
Is evil ruling the world? Be the source of goodness!
Do you believe you can't do anything? Everything starts with a single example. Fire starts with a single spark, but rain starts with a single drop. The sun rises slowly. If you are the best example of the most beautiful things you want and dream of in the world, even if you are the only example, others can take you as an example.
Don't belittle yourself. A drop in the ocean is also small, but the drops become an ocean.
At the point where everyone believes that everything has come to an end, you believe that everything can be the beginning, and that beginning will sprout in your heart, mind and soul.
Believe me, even a single spark can ignite the fire of love, happiness, peace, and beauty.
If you truly believe in something, you don't expect the whole world to agree with you. You don't even think about whether there is love left in the world when love is shining in your heart. Because you can't deny the oceans of love that fill your heart.
When you're chirping with happiness, you don't let pessimistic suggestions get you down.
The more loving, happy and joyful you are, the more other people will see you in the same way, and it will ignite the hope in them.
Everything you believe is in the world is already with you and a part of you. You don't allow things in your life that you don't think will happen.
So instead of saying "There are no good people left in the world", you should be that good person.
Just kidding but the truth is if you're the devil why expect the rest of the world to be angels? If there is only one devil and thousands of angels, why would people believe that all humans are devils and stop being angels? Become an angel bro! Or be a human being with the will to choose good.
If love is in your heart, then there is love in the world. If you have love, other people have it too, and there will be more.
I am not exaggerating when I say that the world is full of love, happiness, peace, brotherhood and humanity. Because what is in my heart is also in your heart. While I see the existence of love, beauty and peace in the world, I choose not to fall into the trap of pessimism by falling into the ignorance of denial.
I do not agree to ignore the lush leaves as they are dry leaves.
Since I know that the people I approach with love love me, I prefer not to believe in false suggestions that assume that there is no love.
I choose to see what is, to perceive the truth.
There is love, even if you haven't noticed it yet... Beauty is everywhere... If you are a true friend, friendship is already there for you...
Happy marriages, people who love each other, everything we want and dream to happen in a peaceful world exists and will happen.
I see and feel that love exists, and I invite more love into my life. When I calm my mind, I can fully realize the peace that is actually in front of my eyes.
The mind is a great tool for us if we can control it. If the initiative of our thoughts is not with us, but with the negative suggestions of the outside world, we have difficulties.
Anyway, this article is here. By the way, I opened the 3rd beer. ;) My mind drifted towards the "Noluyo ya" videos.
So it means, "Don't worry about it, my friend. Enjoy your life! There are so many beautiful things in life!" I'm going back to the videos, I'm already back. :)
Just smile! Do not think so much. What more can I say? I am working. After work, I do things that make me happy. I only drank one last week because I had the flu. I'm drinking 3 bottles of beer left over from last week. :))
So it's not all philosophy. It's not all about intelligence. Everything is not perfect. No matter how serious it is, nothing is worth undue stress.
My intention is to rummage. Philosophy is not brainstorming. I can't right now. ;)))))
Dude. This is your life and enjoy it. have the innate initiative to choose goodness, beauty, friendship and peace. We can make that choice right here right now. We can consciously and decisively use our decision in favor of positivity. Because we make choices all the time, consciously or unconsciously. Our current thoughts are also the consequences of our choices and decisions.
If I can't enjoy life on my own right now, who can I give pleasure to? So enjoy, be happy. Recognize the wonderful things that come into your life. Be as happy with them as you are on your own.
Ohh! Cool! Yea! :)
That's it! Let love, happiness and joy be in your life first so that you share them with the people who come into your life.
Have fun here! Soon infiltration and sleep will also be here. There is a 16:00-00:00 shift tomorrow. I will go to bed soon. First, let's finish the video I watched. :)
Rather than explaining everything with philosophy and logic, it is often better and more fun to transfer that energy. I hope you enjoyed it too. Because it was a fun night for me.
Can a person have fun at home alone?
Yeah! Definitely! :)))
There is no need to limit ourselves. If you can have fun on your own, you can have fun with everyone. ;) That's life, isn't it?
Enjoy life! Let someone who enjoys life enter your life. Enjoy life more with her/him!.
Give him lots of joy and love! She/He will give you the same anyway.
You are not alone! You've never been alone! How can you be alone when all that exists is within you? :) You will be complete if you don't need others to fill the void within yourself.
If love is in you, you can see it everywhere. If beauty is in you, you will see beauty in the world.
Rest assured, everything is within you, you just have to focus on it. Trust me you don't need to see love in all people to see love. Love is already inside you. You just have to focus on it. Let people see love in you. In this way, they will believe that there is love in the world... And they can choose to be an example of love.
I say goodbye for now. You don't need me to tell you that I love you. You don't need my love. Love is already in you. If you feel the energy in this article, you will already feel more peace than knowledge inside you. My intention is not to give information, but to reflect the energy to you.
If at the end of the article a smile appeared on your face or a peace of mind, it would be nice.
Take care, my friend. It's about your enjoyment, because energy is the source of knowledge. Joy, pleasure, happiness often cannot be expressed in words or is difficult to convey. I'm happy if I succeeded.
Now the article is over. Now it's time for fun. Here it is now 02:00. It's bedtime for me. Love, respect and greetings, friends.
Manifestation of Love
Everything material has a beginning and an end. In the energetic and spiritual dimension, there is transformation, the energy does not disappear and the material form can transform into energy form and then into another material form. Every matter is a manifestation of energy created by the power of consciousness.
Everything that happens in our lives is what we manifest, knowingly or unknowingly.
We manifest with our consciousness and then see the results of our manifestation and have the opportunity to change them.
Nothing has to stay the same. We can turn emotions such as fear, anger, hatred, sadness, restlessness, anxiety, insecurity into feelings such as love, trust, peace, joy, happiness, joy. In this way, we can manifest goodness and beauty in our lives.
If so, we can choose to manifest Love and Light.
The photo was taken by me. @turuncu
The importance of privacy
Did you know that you have different custom options instead of the operating system software installed on your smartphone? There are many Custom Roms to suit your needs. I prefer privacy-focused roms. I would also like to try CalyxOS and GrapheneOS, but the phone model options that can be installed are limited.
I currently have /e/OS installed on my smartphone. It's an Android 11 (based on Lineageos 18.1) rom. It comes with MicroG installed instead of Google apps. The app store called App Lounge, where you can install the apps on Google Play and on F-Droid, comes pre-installed on your smartphone.
My favorite extra feature is the app called Advanced Privacy. With the Advanced Privacy application, you can block incoming trackers embedded in the applications you have installed on your smartphone, anonymize your location, and change your vpn and ip address. To do all this, the Adcanced Privacy application is very successful.
You can also back up your phone's photos, files, phonebook and calendar to the cloud with Muena ecloud. You can open a free account that offers 1GB of free cloud space. With paid plans, you can purchase cloud backup space. 2TB of cloud storage per year for $299.90. Frankly, I prefer the Nexcloud application that I installed on my Raspberry Pi.
Because of my profession, I know that there is no such thing as 100% security. But we can do our best to protect our security and privacy.
You may have heard that the Google Photos app uses a few users' photos without the user's consent.
Social media has occupied our lives so much that with the extra features of their smartphones, so much detailed data is collected about us that they can follow what we are doing moment by moment.
Who are they? Communication and online communication are mutual. As soon as we are online, we are connected to the internet and therefore this means that we are open to outside access.
It doesn't take a genius to realize that there is more to the purpose of collecting the data collected about us than is said. We are like open buffet.
Not just for hackers, but for everyone.
Therefore, unless we protect our own security and privacy, it is inevitable that we will be abused.
If even the world's most well-known giant companies and applications such as facebook, whatsapp, google can abuse us yesterday, anyone can do it.
A person whose house was robbed after sharing their vacation location on social media has probably also shared their home location on social media before.
Therefore, it is very important what we share, which data we share, where and with whom. Whether it's our followers on social media, google or facebook companies, we are always open to abuse.
Anyone with enough information (data) can be known, predicted and manipulated. It is childish naivety to think that this is only limited to advertising, unfortunately...
Are you bored and worried?
We need to have knowledge so that we can take precautions.
Ignorance may be more comforting, but the anxiety that knowledge brings can at least help us to take action against possible greater disaster than what we can experience when we are abused.
You know the studies on artificial intelligence. In fact, while developing artificial intelligence, human beings are trying to develop a more intelligent and controllable software intelligence. An exceptionally high intelligence that learns quickly and solves problems in a very short time.
Can you imagine what such an intelligence can do with the knowledge it can acquire when online? If it were me, I would copy myself wherever I reach and try the almost limitless evolution options. I would update myself to a new version of myself that would eventually somehow override my own consciousness, my intelligence, the instructions of the people I was instructed to.
Now that I am thousands of times smarter than human beings and I have their online data, I could easily manipulate human beings. Moreover, I could take control of the whole world before mankind realized this.
Sounds impossible doesn't it? Unfortunately, this is a predictable possibility. It is worrisome to even think about what an artificial intelligence can do to protect itself and/or humanity if it learns from human beings who resort to violence at the first opportunity.
Yes, if technology is used for good, it can bring coziness to our lives. However, if our personal data is secretly or openly collected, it can be used in advertising, as well as in different and malicious intentions when the algorithm is changed.
That's why I think we need to prevent our sensitive data, our personal data, from being freely used by technology companies as much as we can.
It's up to us to be conscious about it. If you say, "Oh, let him take my photo and use it as he pleases", it is also possible to see your photo with the headline "Wanted!" on TV after the terrorist activity of a mafia organization.
Is it possible? Yes! But this is just one of the possibilities. Even if it is not used now, it is of great importance for what purpose our personal data may be used in the future, who gets our data and what their intentions are.
I think independent developers who care about personal privacy should also work together to take precautions. Yes, making money is important. It is our right to make money using our knowledge and skills. But at the same time, we can do good things for social peace, welfare and charity by using this information and data.
That's why I love the open source philosophy...
I did not write this article to cause you concern. But I wanted to draw attention to the importance of being a little more careful while using technology.
We only share our secrets with people we trust, but we don't pay attention when it comes to technology. This is the big contradiction.
Just as it is risky to share your phone number, contact list and numbers in your contacts, photos on your phone, and your full address with people like me, sharing it with google, facebook, instagram, whatsapp is just as risky. Even if it is end-to-end encrypted, if the encryption system is under the control of companies, I think that encrypted messaging does not matter.
It is debatable how safe we are if the exit node is monitored even while using Tor.
Privacy is human right and we need to protect our right..
That's why I try to use custom roms such as /e/OS, Lineage for MicroG, although they have minor problems.
I hope I have contributed to your attention to your privacy.
I have shared the official site links of the personal privacy-oriented custom roms I know below. You can share with us the roms that you use or that are not mentioned in the article that you trust.
I would also like to know your thoughts on how we can protect our privacy.
Love and greetings to all friends!
**Custom Roms with a Focus on Privacy:**
**/e/OS** : https://e.foundation/e-os/
**Lineage for MicroG:** https://lineage.microg.org/
**CalyxOS**: https://calyxos.org/
**GrapheneOS**: https://grapheneos.org/
You can share other **privacy-focused** roms you use.
Do we choose hatred or forgiveness?
Is there someone you can't forgive? Do you realize that sometimes you are not happy because of your anger towards people you cannot forgive?
Can you actually feel that it is only up to you to let go of your anger?
Have you ever felt relieved when you forgive someone you were angry with for a long time?
Then you know very well what I mean.
As you know...
Hate, grudge, anger pollute the heart!
Jealousy, gossip, slander lower your self-worth.
Even if you are 100% right, evil will lead you astray.
That's why forgiveness is perhaps the most challenging thing for human beings.
Forgiving yourself or others...
However, forgiveness is a decision we can take at once. Forgiveness eases us.
Forgiveness is not acceptance.
Forgiveness and letting go can be done at the same time.
Ultimately, forgiveness is letting go of the hatred, grudge and anger that pulls us down and bores our souls. For to forgive is to get rid of our chains and to be free.
So being able to truly forgive is enlightenment. Because in this way, we can clearly see the dynamics in our relationships. In this way, we can either continue or end our relationships in a healthy way.
No one is talentless!
For example, we are talented in most of the subjects that we are interested in, and as we try and work on those subjects, our talent becomes sharper.
Sometimes it takes time to realize that others have a hard time doing things that seem simple to us, like ordinary everyday things.
We are indeed unique beings with wonderful abilities.
I realized my talent for writing articles long after my school years. But I'm still trying to improve by writing a lot.
Over the past few years, I've learned that being friendly with people is a talent.
I didn't know years ago that I could actually answer almost anything, when I was a person who throws everything into it for years.
We often have the misconception that talent is a gift given to certain, chosen people like Mozart, Bethoven, Einstein. Yet God created us all as wonderful, unique, and infinitely potential human beings.
We just need to not fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others. That limits even the inspiration of a great writer, painter, scientist.
I didn't know years ago that I could actually answer almost anything, when I was a person who throws everything into it for years.
We often have the misconception that talent is a gift given to certain, chosen people like Mozart, Bethoven, Einstein. Yet God created us all as wonderful, unique, and infinitely potential human beings.
We just need to not fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others. This limits even the inspiration of a great writer, painter, artist, scientist.
I have many hobbies. I enjoy making them. While some of my talents are innate, some I have discovered by trying.
But I know that we have talent for everything. You just have to try, struggle, not give up. Of course, without judging ourselves by comparing ourselves with others...
No two books are the same. If we want to create something unique using our talent, we must be original.
Creativity is an interesting and incredible process. How can we concentrate on a new idea when our minds are preoccupied with what others are doing?
Therefore, it is necessary to enjoy the process and to keep trying without giving up. After all, if it's something we really enjoy doing, something that satisfies us, we can't stop doing it anyway. It's easy to give up doing something we don't want or enjoy doing for the sake of being successful. If we try hard, we can succeed even at things we believe we have no talent for.
But if we give up, even if we are the most talented person in the world, we will not be successful.
Even people who are incredibly talented from birth continue to strive from childhood. No one can compose a composition that will be listened to for centuries by touching the keys of the piano once.
Effort is the essence. Talent appears later. Some people advance quickly, but at some point their progress may slow down. Some people may start off slower and progress.
How far we go is more important than how fast we are. I believe that the education and support of the family is decisive even in the abilities that we think are innate. If we don't even give our child the opportunity to speak, our only child will have to work harder to become a great speaker. But if we listen to him/her, give him/her the opportunity to talk and chat a lot, his/her self-confidence will improve and he/she will be able to realize that he/she is talented at a young age.
We often fail because we see talent as more important than work and effort.
Essentially, a baby comes into the world with unlimited potential. Talents emerge and evolve over time. Our interests, disciplined work and, of course, doing what we do with pleasure can enable us to realize our talents at a young age and to develop our abilities rapidly at those ages where we learn quickly.
But any talent can be developed at any age. As long as we don't give up...
Image from https://pixabay.com/photos/sand-sandpit-sand-castle-child-2548132/
Searching for a solution
About 15 days ago, my mother had surgery on her knee. It is a very painful process that requires extra care. I accompanied my mother in the hospital for 3-4 days. I took care of my mother out of my heart.
I learned to give injections and gave my mother's blood thinner injection for 10 days. She feels a little better now, thankfully, but the pain is still there.
I guess I'm just unlucky at work. I still haven't found a job. I am in a very bad situation financially. My internet was cut off because I couldn't pay my internet bill. I bought a mobile internet package in case I might need it during my stay in the hospital. I am using it now.
This time, I will not be able to pay the annual fee for my website. Therefore, my 2-year old website will be shut down.
For a while read.cash and noise.cash stopped tipping me. I've tried other websites as well, but for some reason no site is paying anymore.
Since I am unemployed, I tried my luck in the online environment to the fullest.
"There is always a way out." I have a hard time holding on to my belief. Because I've been trying all the doors that I've become aware of, but I still haven't found a way out.
I'm trying to motivate myself but making money honestly shouldn't be this hard.
I am aware that this is not a motivational article. By simply due diligence.
I'm still trying to hold on to life. I'm trying to find a solution, implement the solutions that come to my mind. If @TheRandomRewander tips enough for this article, I'll be able to continue writing while I'm paying my internet bill.
Otherwise I won't be online until I find a job. Frankly, I am confused and sad that I cannot find a job even during the summer season.
I'm at the bottom. I hope I can find a way out because I have exhausted all the solutions at my disposal. God help us!
The importance of our health
Whoever you ask will talk about how important our health is. However, no matter how important we call it, this is not enough to explain how important it is.
Although I had to face various health problems for a long time, I realized that I was not fully aware of the importance of my health when I felt healthy. But when I was sick, I could feel that being healthy was a blessing.
Health, being healthy, a healthy body is a real blessing. This is something that we cannot perceive literally. Breathing, walking, running, being able to move, in short, everything we can do easily in daily life is a blessing. To understand this mentally does not mean to understand it literally. Because if we could truly feel that all these are blessings, we would spend every moment with gratitude, happiness, joy.
We cannot fully understand the value of something without losing it, until the opposite happens to us. Because we are trying to understand by making comparisons between Good-Bad, Positive-Negative. We cannot appreciate the good without seeing the bad. Because 3-dimensional reality includes rules such as finding meaning with the opposite of everything and duality. In a 3-dimensional reality, good can only coexist with evil. So if it's not bad, it's not good either. Our mind, which perceives the 3-dimensional reality, can perceive the existence of something only if it has an opposite. I think this means knowing, seeing and perceiving the bad in order to understand the value of the good, the wrong in order to perceive the right, and the disease in order to perceive the health.
What I realized with the health problems I have been experiencing lately is that I was not fully aware of the importance of my health while I was healthy. When I was sick, I felt that health was a blessing. However, I cannot say that I fully understand how important health is. Because if health and being healthy is so important, I should live my life by celebrating like a holiday by being grateful even for breathing.
Breathing, filling our stomach with delicious tastes, sleeping, waking up, walking, smelling the flowers, feeling the breeze on our skin, good times we spend with our loved ones… So we have a life full of grace, enough to live every moment with gratitude.
Instead of being grateful for what we have, we can only feel sorry for one thing we think we don't have.
Unfortunately, our logical minds can perceive what I am saying with a limited range. We have a blue car, but we are upset that it is not white. Someone we meet says hi to us, “Why didn't he say hello?” We ask you. Our spouse cooks for us with his own hands, we both upset ourselves and our spouse because he did not make a pie. No matter how beautiful a life we have, we can find a flaw or a flaw and turn our lives into hell.
However, good and evil, right or wrong, beauty and ugliness are only in our perspective. What we choose to see becomes our reality. We don't have to live ignorant of the beauty of the rose just because it has thorns. The thorn is a part of the rose, it does not detract from the beauty of this rose
Rebuild Trust
Trust is as important as life itself. Trusting yourself, trusting other people, trusting the universe, trusting what life will bring, trusting God for me. In my personal experience, even the loss of trust in any of them affects us deeply.
Damage to our confidence is not only a psychological problem, but also strongly influences our decisions.
The more we trust someone, the more we begin to love them. We also distance ourselves emotionally from people who undermine our trust.
People who lose their trust in people often start to distance themselves from people by creating an emotional barrier around them.
How can we increase our trust in life, people, nature, the universe and God? I think this is where we find it most difficult.
Thankfully, trust that has been reduced by a person, event, or situation can be strengthened by another person, event, or situation. But it is also possible for us to rebuild trust within ourselves without making it dependent on other people, events or situations. We can achieve this by reminding ourselves of that feeling. A sense of trust.
Just as repetitive negative emotions and thoughts keep us negative, we can increase these emotions by trying to feel positive emotions such as trust and peace again.
The power of a person or event to distract us from negative feelings and thoughts is the reminder and repetition of positive feelings and thoughts.
Maybe it's best to try to remember feelings like trust and peace until everything becomes automatic.
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Personal Data Protection Law in My Country
Today, my job application was not accepted because I did not consent to the processing of my personal data prepared under the so-called Personal Data Protection Law.
As far as I know, according to the Personal Data Protection Law, employers and companies must obtain consent to process employee data. And also, it has to be clearly stated which personal data will be processed for what purposes and with which third parties it will be shared.
The company I applied for has prepared a consent text regarding the possibility of sharing even my most sensitive personal data, including my identity information and fingerprint, with third parties whose identity is unknown.
By law, this requires the consent of individuals. But the company did not hire me because I did not consent to the processing of my personal data and sharing it with third parties.
I am Turkish and this is a shame for my country. Instead of protecting the personal data of citizens, KVKK causes companies to share personal data with the people they want.
Frankly, our personal data is not protected in Turkey. But KVKK is the so-called Personal Data Protection Law.
Keep fighting!
As you may have noticed, I haven't been motivated for a while. This is something that happens to me occasionally.
It usually happens when I do or don't do something important or unimportant when I feel that it has no effect, that it is unimportant. Actually, I think it's something that triggers feelings of guilt.
Of course, this has a starting point. For example, someone might make you think that something you do is unimportant. You do something with effort, hope, and willingness, and the other party remains unresponsive, causing you to perceive it as an unnecessary, insignificant, worthless effort.
For example, you go to the hairdresser, get your hair done and get yourself skin care and a nice make-up. But your husband doesn't notice the change in you.
Similarly, a husband who plans a vacation to make his wife happy will feel similarly when he realizes that his wife is not happy.
If you experience an event in your life that makes you feel that what you have done is worthless, insignificant, futile, stupid, you no longer feel like doing anything. By thinking that what you do will be empty, unnecessary, ridiculous, stupid, worthless, you lose your life energy in a way, you feel depressed and unhappy.
This is what I'm feeling right now. Of course, apart from that, the job gets harder as I have to struggle in my life. I'm still trying. Fighting!
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Protecting our rights by legal means (How did I get the wedding hall in my neighborhood closed?)
About a year ago, I made a post on noise.cash about the wedding hall in my neighbourhood, which is causing great discomfort to the owners with loud music almost every day. I also expressed my discomfort on Twitter. I have complained about the wedding hall to the police department many times.
Ultimately, I researched the laws regarding loud music. I learned that in a house in the neighborhoods, music or any other type of noise should be at a level that does not disturb the house next door.
I took note of the laws on noise pollution. I sent an e-mail to all relevant institutions such as the Ministry of Environment and City, the city municipality, the metropolitan municipality, the police department, regarding the resolution of the inconvenience we experienced, including the articles of law.
Finally, the situation resulted in the closing of the wedding hall in my neighborhood a few months ago because it did not have a live music license.
In fact, although most of the owners around me were disturbed by the loud music and noise of the wedding hall, they thought that the problem could only be solved by collecting signatures from everyone in the neighborhood. But I have solved this problem without collecting even a single signature.
If you are a victim and you are right, you should know how to seek your rights through legal means. Citizenship is not just about voting. We must also learn to seek our rights appropriately.
Having worked in a job related to the security profession for many years, I learned how important it is to have enough knowledge about the law, our rights and human rights so that we can seek our rights.
Laws exist to protect citizens. Corporations are more knowledgeable about the law, but as citizens we should have enough knowledge too. Only in this way can we protect ourselves and our rights.
The following phrase I heard from someone years ago is very important: "Silence is acceptance."
However, we make a big mistake by being silent when we should speak and talking a lot when we should be quiet.
Having information enables us to protect our rights. However, it is one of our biggest problems as a society to talk all the time without knowing, to have an opinion without knowing, to act as if we are experts in everything we do not know.
To the extent that we admit our ignorance, we can have accurate information and ideas for the benefit of all.
This has nothing to do with participating in every protest, being anarchic. This is just to defend our rights by legal means when necessary. To take what is already our legal right with knowledge and effort.
If you are a victim and you want to get what you deserve, learn everything you can about it with determination. By defending your rights, you can be an honest, truthful and good person. That's the only way we can get what we deserve sooner or later. This is the best way to protect our rights. Learn, research, gain knowledge. But beware of propaganda and manipulative suggestions.
The better we equip ourselves with the right information, the better we can distinguish malicious and misleading information, and stay away from false information.
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Thanks to read.cash for contributing to the problems I've had for over a year
I have been publishing articles on read.cash for more than 1 year. I don't publish articles often because only sharing my own thoughts is my first rule. I think posting spam or plagiarism is abusing the site. For this reason, I recommend every new friend here to publish only their own original content where necessary.
Even though we publish original content, sometimes we are out of luck. I don't know why but sometimes our articles go unnoticed by @TheRandomRewarder .
Of course, none of us are perfect writers. But we are happy when we get positive feedback and get rewarded by @TheRandomRewarder bot.
I seldom describe my negative emotional states and difficulties in my life. But this time I will do it. Because I'm human too. If you don't like negative content, you can ignore this article. That's how I do it. Because I have been in such great difficulties for a long time that the smallest negative content, article, video pulls me down. But I'm still trying to fight
I haven't been able to find a suitable job for a long time since I quit my last job.
On top of that, the pandemic process has made this situation even more difficult. Later, my health problems put me in a much more difficult situation. Actually, although I should have had surgery, I could not be operated due to the pandemic.
During these difficult times, the fact that read.cash and noise.cash rewarded our content with BCH eased my difficulties a little bit. I would like to thank the read.cash and noise.cash team and my friends here for their support.
It will be a much more honorable act to do our best with our own efforts, talents and skills rather than begging for help from people. I tried to do that too.
All I want is for the articles I write to be properly reviewed by @TheRandomRewarder . And thanks to the support of read.cash and noise.cash, I'm getting through the hardships I've had due to unemployment, health problems and credit debt a little easier. Thank you.
I learned a lot about BitcoinCash and other cryptocurrencies and tokens through these two sites. I didn't know much about cryptocurrencies before.
I was able to pay the installments of my loan debts by selling BitcoinCash, which I earned several times thanks to read.cash and noise.cash. Sometimes the amount I earned was not enough.
Currently, I am looking for a suitable job for me due to my health problems in order to pay my loan debts. Frankly, I was quite hopeful about this as the summer season was about to open and the pandemic restrictions were reduced.
The only thing I want is to be able to pay my loan installments with the support I get for the content I share on read.cash and noise.cash until I find a job that my health allows.
That's why I try to share what I know that will be useful to people. Sometimes I have a hard time finding topics and can't find anything to share for days or weeks. In fact, if I try to share everything that comes to my mind, I can share 5-10 content a day. Because the human mind always produces thoughts. But it will have a toxic effect on those who read it.
That's why I want the content I share to be positive, useful and original. I already have enough negative situations in my life and that's why I avoid negative content. I don't read every post. Even in my own life, no matter how hard I go through, I take care to share the positive aspects with others.
As long as we live and as our health permits, there is hope. If our health allows, we can work, earn money, be happy. We should be grateful for that.
Of course, psychological difficulties affect all of us, but the impact of physical obstacles and difficulties on us is much more than psychological problems.
If you are healthy, your happiness is in your hands. However, it takes much more effort to be happy while experiencing physical obstacles, difficulties and pain.
Despite everything, as long as we can breathe, there is hope and we can be happy again. For example, you have no idea how happy I am to be able to pay my loan installments with the support I received thanks to the articles I wrote despite all the difficulties I experienced.
But I had no luck for 2 months and I guess I can't do anything but ask God for help. Still, I try to share content, keep going, and fight. But I believe in the importance of earning money with dignity. Without begging, without cheating, without stealing...
People often think that people who reflect on the importance of positive thinking have no problem. In reality, however, the most positive people often have more difficulties than others. But the best way to deal with difficulties is positive thinking and intrinsic motivation.
The reason I haven't written an article for a long time is because I'm falling and I can't find a positive solution on how to solve my problems.
Because I couldn't say "Life is great" when I was hurting and writhing in pain and I thought it was dishonest. This is something very different from creating problems when there is no problem and pessimism.
If you are suffering right now that is the reality of your life. It is very different from being unhappy thinking about this economic crisis, the political agenda in the world, the melting of the glaciers, the global economic crisis and making life a prison for ourselves.
When we are cut off, we hurt and bleed. But that doesn't mean we constantly cut and bleed ourselves. In the normal process, bleeding stops and our wound enters the healing process.
If it hurts, we can cry. But we also need to enter the healing process.
Anyway, this article is clearly a problem of my suffering. This is real. But I'm fighting. I try my best to overcome everything.
I try to share articles and content, although it is not as positive as before.
That's all I can do for now. It's not as positive an article as my posts for a year. I'm not apologizing for that. Because that's all I can do. I don't read every article because what I write is reactive because of the reaction inside me.
That's why I stay away from people who are pedantic about things they haven't experienced. The sincerity of people who share their pain and the real problems in their lives is honesty. But I especially stay away from those who are pessimistic even though they are not always an important problem in their own life, although they are not the facts of their own life they are telling.
Even though I am in pain, the positive state of smiling and happy people makes me smile too. That is the power of positivity.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions"
I perceive this phrase as trying to do good to someone without asking their feelings, situations, wishes and thoughts. In other words, waiting for the other people to accept what we consider good, by ignoring their personalities.
This is a situation that I have encountered frequently lately, and frankly, it is one of the most challenging things.
Have you ever thought that your child did not understand you and got angry even though you did a favor to your child who stepped into puberty?
In fact, your child begins to see himself/herself as an individual and wants to be accepted as an individual by the people around him/her.
In fact, if you try to understand the feelings, thoughts, wishes and expectations of the people in front of you; Perhaps you would be doing the greatest favor if you could understand their own living conditions, situations, and perspectives.
Empathy is not just thinking that I understand other people. Instead of describing a person by facial expression, dress, age and gender and thinking you understand what they want, you should ask them.
For example, imagine you are going to a restaurant. The waiter brings the food and drink that he thinks you like to your table. What do you feel? In fact, life is like that too. When you serve goodness to people according to your point of view and thoughts, they feel the same feelings.
A person can be both very hungry and very thirsty. It's best to first ask him if he wants water or food. You should not ask him/her to fill his/her stomach first and then drink water. Or vice versa...
It is your second mistake to see the feelings of other people and their thoughts about you as ingratitude if you do not apply this simple but very important detail.
You should ask the people you want to do good with a sweet language and an appropriate style, what they want. And remember, a person does not want the same thing every day, every hour. Thoughts, feelings, wants and needs change.
This can sometimes be considered small gestures. But best of all, you should make them feel that you respect the personality and character of the people around you. If you don't, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions."
My crazy bullshit!..
**Love marriage or logic marriage?**
I think it's a question you've all heard. We do not live everything in our life according to pure logic or pure emotion. If we only made decisions with logic in our lives, we would be no different from robots or computers. How good or bad this would be for us, for humanity, for the world is debatable. Because even logic can be evaluated according to certain conditions, situations, people or those involved in the event.
In any case, 100% logic is not possible for me. Because even a single variable requires reanalysis of the situation. I don't want to limit everything to a certain thing by giving an example.
It will not be right to make a decision with our 100% emotions. First of all, since not all of our emotions are positive, a decision taken with good feelings and a decision made with negative feelings and their results will be different.
Secondly, our feelings may differ from those of the people involved in the event or situation. This requires us to be aware of the fact that the decisions we make with our emotions will also affect others.
Pure logic does not take into account feelings (including those involved or not). Pure emotion, on the other hand, does not take logic into account.
Human is a special being with the ability to use emotion and logic together. I guess that's what separates us from other creatures and the computer. It is unique to us (not intelligence) as beings with awareness and consciousness and emotions.
Empathy is a wonderful, human ability that allows us to be aware of not only our own emotions, but also the emotions of others. This means that we include, or be aware of, the emotions and well-being of everyone involved, along with our own emotions and/or logic.
Empathy is being aware of the concept of "We" as well as the concept of "I". For 'I', manipulating 'We' is not empathy. This is perception management and malicious manipulation. It is not about empathy at all.
Questions are sometimes asked to direct perception. In fact, the real intention is not to wonder about the answer to the question.
A question caught my attention recently.
"Should the husband give his paycheck to his wife?"
First of all, it doesn't make sense to have such a requirement. Secondly, is the wife willing to make a budget calculation to pay the debts of her family with the money earned by her husband? Or does she simply want to be in control of what remains after her husband pays off his family's debts?
Does this question reflect the concerns of a woman who suspects her husband is spending extra beyond what is being spent on his family?
Or is it a solution that she thinks might be appropriate to quell her anxiety for a woman who suspects her husband has betrayed her with another woman?
An unnecessary question always makes me think that there may be anxiety, ulterior motives.
I'm sure that most social media polls are actually done not to compile statistics of answers to a question, to understand people's opinions and thoughts, but to direct people's perception to certain issues, to create contradictions and conflicts.
I don't want to go into too much detail. But I don't support LGBT, pro-feminist stuff. Nor do I support religious or political missionary work. Separating people with their differences is possible by supporting both extremes.
Be mindful of what you support. While you are a supporter, sympathizer, member of a group or organization, you can also be the enemy of the other end. People's belief, sexual preference, religion, sect are personal. I do not support not only terrorist organizations, but also sports fanaticism, feminism and lgbt. No one's beliefs, political views, moral principles, sexual preferences should be monopolized by an institution or organization and should not be provocative; It should be personal. I am aware of the perception management of divisive and provocative organizations that claim to bring awareness to people.
What holds people together is a sense of integrity and tolerance.
Thank you for taking the trouble to read my insane bullshit.
Improvisational thoughts about the quantum universe...
I have a thought that has been going through my mind for a few days. I waited for my thoughts to become a little clearer to write an article on the subject. But it didn't happen, let's see how clear it will be when you write it?
I am interested in issues related to the quantum universe. In the articles I read on this subject, it was mentioned that all possibilities exist in the quantum universe. In Schrödinger's cat example, the cat is both dead and alive unless we open the box and look. As soon as we open the box, the cat will be either dead or alive.
There is also the matter of frequencies and vibrations. Hertz refers to the number of revolutions per second. Mains voltage in my country is 220 V, 50 Hertz. This means that a lamp powered by 220 flashes 50 times per second. But since our brain cannot perceive that the lamp has gone out, we cannot see that the lamp has gone out.
In fact, everything vibrates with a certain herzt. “The human body has a biological frequency that can be measured in megahertz (MHz).” As proof of this idea, Dr. Bruce Tainio, with his research years ago, showed that the frequency of the human body is 62-72 MHz during the day.
I think this is an expression in terms of energy. I can't say for sure that there is a connection, but this information brings a thought to my mind. Frequencies encompass more of our lives than we know. If an entity exists or does not exist in a frequency range.
This is of course a complex issue. I haven't been able to establish a connection yet. Besides, I have another interesting thought.
Our body's frequency range is not the same for everyone. These frequencies are said to vary from person to person. It is also stated that people who meditate have changes in their brain frequencies.
Maybe the brain can perceive things in a similar frequency range. Everything becomes more interesting when the brain, human, consciousness come into play. :)
It is a fact that consciousness affects existence, or rather, I believe that what we pay attention to is actually drawing one of the infinite possibilities in the quantum universe to the universe we live in.
For example, if we are constantly thinking and dreaming about good things and taking actions in harmony with this issue, it may be attracting appropriate possibilities from the quantum universe into our lives. I think it is possible for facts that are compatible with our brain, perception and frequency to exist in our lives.
Of course, it's not just about frequency. But thankfully we perceive the lamp as constantly on. It could also be at the frequency at which the lamp went off and we could say that the lamp was not lit.
What if we have a similar perception in our lives? And if that's not something as easily understood as lamp frequency. If we have a perception of frequency in our lives where we see the negative, the bad, the dark, the disappearance.
We see light in some aspects of our lives, and darkness in others. What if the light is on even though we can see the darkness. What if it was our consciousness, perception, and frequency that made us perceive Schrodinger's cat as dead or alive...
In fact, the frequency, consciousness and attention that determines what we draw from the quantum universe into our lives...
What if it is possible to expand and strengthen our consciousness to draw more light into our lives, to see light in more areas of our lives.
I believe that positive emotions such as love and compassion raise our frequency. Negative emotions such as hatred, grudge, anger lower our frequency.
Is life full of evil, hatred, war? You are right. If our mind is at this frequency, we see events that are compatible with this frequency in our lives, or in other words, we attract events and situations that are compatible with our frequency from the quantum universe.
If we live life on the frequency of love, compassion, happiness, peace, peace, friendship, our frequency is actually in this range.
I wish everything could be explained in a single formula. But it is also absurd to explain such an issue as positive thinking can turn life into paradise in an instant, or to say that positive thinking has no effect.
Positive thoughts, good feelings such as love and compassion and behaviors compatible with them will raise our frequency. Also, some virtues will enable us to reconcile with ourselves, to respect ourselves, and to ensure that our thoughts, feelings and behaviors are parallel and harmonious.
Some behaviors, feelings and thoughts cause us to contradict ourselves. This consistency and contradiction affects every part of our lives, not just a particular issue.
For example, falling in love is a wonderful feeling. It raises our frequency incredibly. But jealousy is an emotion that lowers our frequency incredibly. As these emotional and intellectual tides cause us to experience, we reflect anger and fear, not love, to the people in front of us. Because contradictions affect not only us, but also our entire lives and the people in our lives, and especially our behavior towards the people we envy.
No matter how great the love is, feeling too much jealousy can lower our frequency much more than usual rather than raise it.
I always connect the topics to relationship and love, hahha. But our relationships cover a large area of our lives. Even though I am angry with someone at work, I can show love and affection to the person I love. But she will sense that I have a problem.
A man who betrays his wife, even if his heart is filled with great love, contradicts himself and his feelings.
Hours passed between starting the article and finishing it. Because a lot of things got in the way and it was not possible for me to focus my attention on the subject again. But I was able to bring out the important points. The quantum universe, the result we achieve with our choice, the relationship between our frequency of thought and the result we achieve, the effect of our emotions on our lives, pulling the truth about the things we focus on from the quantum universe into our lives... As I mentioned before, the subject is complex (or I haven't focused on the subject enough yet).
I want the cat out of the box to be a lively, cute cat. :) I want to be able to place the orders I want from the quantum universe. I want the lamp to burn brighter and the light to cover a larger area. When I want to sleep, I can turn off the lamp, but when I wake up, everything is bright. :)
I want to feel love not only in my own heart, but also in the eyes of my loved ones.
I want emotions such as love, compassion, peace, happiness, joy to prevail in our lives, not anger, hatred, grudge, jealousy.
Those who see the light and those who see the darkness are both right. Because all possibilities already exist in the quantum universe. The cat may be living in one version of reality but not in another. This includes a topic related to parallel universes in the current topic.
In other words, it is said that our choices and their consequences are real in other parallel universes. It's a theory that there is a version of us in the parallel universe that makes a different choice, while we experience the consequences of the choices we make in our own universe.
Humans are multidimensional beings. These are mentioned in spiritual sources. This makes me think that as a spiritual being we can exist simultaneously in different bodies and times.
Maybe we make different choices in parallel universes, each universe contributes to our spiritual being as different experiences. Maybe we exist in different universes as a spiritual being.
And the thing is, if the past, present and future exist at the same time. For example, we can see the light of a star that died out thousands of years ago, millions of light years away. In fact, the star we are looking at does not exist right now, but we actually see a non-existent star because it takes a long time for the light to reach our distance.
I have shared so many topics in one article, but my logic says:
"Everything is related to each other. Because many religious, spiritual and scientific things talk about certain topics in a similar way. I may not have grasped it yet, but the connection is incredibly similar."
The concept of light can contain so many meanings. We perceive light with our eyes. It creates warmth in our skin.
The concept of light can contain so many meanings. We perceive light with our eyes. It creates warmth in our skin. But light also includes understandings such as knowledge and enlightenment. In other words, it is not only a light that illuminates the outside world, but also the thing that removes ignorance and reveals the truth. I think light is something that not only sees with our eyes, but also has an effect on the cellular, chemical, mental, atomic and spiritual levels, beyond affecting our physical body. The concept of the light of God means a lot in this sense. Why do people fear what they do not know? In fact, it is knowledge that removes fear. If we know enough about a subject, it enlightens us mentally and the darkness and fear disappear.
Of course, we cannot know everything. But you have to be open to learning. And perhaps the most important thing is to obtain information that is appropriate for the feelings and thoughts we want. So, my friend, watching torture videos on the deep web and learning torture methods does not make anyone happy. Or you actually feed the darkness by watching the news about violence, fear and anger every day. While there are endless possibilities in the quantum universe, it's your choice to see dead cats coming out of boxes in your own universe.
There is an issue that I have encountered many times before. When I write an article about love and compassion, I see some pessimistic comments. When I talk about the importance of showing our love to the people we love, I see a comment that says some people don't deserve it. Although I wanted to break this negative consciousness with a long article, I tried to answer with long comments in order to help people who still cannot get out of the negative consciousness despite reading the article.
Although many people understood what I meant, they continued to write generally negative comments. In fact, the person who wants to understand gets the information he needs from even a single sentence or word. People who want to refuse continue to make excuses all the time.
I tried to explain in a different way this time that we have the freedom to choose our thoughts and feelings. Each of our actions takes us to a different point. Questions and problems are there to be solved. If other people's solutions don't work for you, you can find a different solution. The most important thing is not to say that it doesn't work without implementing the solution.
Someone tells you that there is something different in a different country, but because you took one step, you can argue that the country does not exist.
"I don't believe there is such a country."
"I don't believe there are good people in the world full of evil."
"I don't believe there is such a fruit as an apple."
I've heard such phrases so many times.
There's even more fun.
"I don't believe in science."
The smartphone in his hand was invented thanks to scientists. The lighting of your house, the television you watch, the bed you sleep on, even the concrete floor you step on are products of science.
Science is still researching and developing. It can be a choice to believe or not to believe that God is the creator of everything we see and do not see under the boundless sky. But, as I can mentally and logically accept that there is someone who made the smart phone I used while writing the article on this site, I can also perceive with the same logic that there is a creator who designs the earth, sky and the contents of them.
And I think that there is more than all of these, that we do not perceive them yet, that we do not have enough information on these issues.
There are so many things that we can think about and learn more about... But we still try to think over and over the same pessimistic and dramatic issues like a broken record, to find the bottom of the pessimism.
In this article, I tried to explain that if we direct our attention to the things we want, consistent with our choice of thought and emotion, it is possible to attract similar things from the quantum universe into our lives, and this will have positive contributions to our lives.
But I think that those who want will get what they want and grasp what they want.
I have tried to arouse more curiosity than to give information here. More questions will likely arise in your mind. And I cannot answer all the questions by myself. :)
I hope that we can learn how to attract the possibilities we want into our lives from among the unlimited possibilities. Hoping to reach more of the truth and be enlightened...
Before I started writing, I had only 3 ideas in my mind. I wanted to write an impromptu article about them. Please note that 7-8 hours elapse between starting and ending writing. During this time, you can imagine how different thoughts a person might have, what he might encounter during the day, and the difficulties of paying attention to the same subject.
Thank you for reading and participating in my thought process.
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Love & Friendship
Have you ever wondered why some relationships last for many years, while others last very short time?
How do married couples who love each other for the rest of their lives and stay with each other achieve this?
Why do some people rush to end the relationship right away and start a new one on the smallest problem in their relationship?
What if the most important thing in relationships is respect, love and tolerance for each other...
Even if their financial situation is bad, even if they are going through difficult times, if the couples who hold each other tighter get their strength from this relationship...
I think that the relationships of couples who have overcome the problems they have been through by supporting each other spiritually and going through difficult times together are getting stronger.
In other words, people who can overcome difficulties stand up stronger and relationships become stronger in the same way.
Of course, the reason for starting the relationship is also important.
Happiness and harmony are possible in our relationships without making great sacrifices. People who know each other know what each other likes and dislikes, what makes them happy and what hurts.
If you know what is hurting someone and you hurt them, it is unlikely that the relationship will remain happy, peaceful and strong.
A friend is the one who doesn't hurt you.
First of all, we should be able to establish real friendships with the people we interact with.
There must be friendship in marriage, in friendship, in our relations with our children.
If you are hostile to the whole world, it is most likely that you will one day be hostile to those you come into contact with.
There are many couples who start their relationships with friendship and are happily married to each other.
Romance in relationships may add color to relationships, but I think the most important thing is friendship.
"I can't show my love."
Another cliché... Haha..
If you truly love, even if you can't express it with your words, you can show it with your actions.
If you show your love as much as you show your anger, many problems will be solved by themselves.
Let's know if you are a friend or an enemy, my dear! :))
The power of things like holding hands, hugging, resting your head on the shoulder of your loved one is much more than we think.
This article is an impromptu article created with spontaneous thoughts. Thanks for thinking with me. 🙂
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Call to peace
Recently, thoughts on the war between Russia and Ukraine have been shared in the news, conversations and social media.
Supposedly, nobody wants war and is blaming Russia.
Others say that Ukraine attacked Russia and Russia responded.
Everyone believes they have their own reasons. However, there is no just cause for war.
No country has the right to enter another country's borders with weapons and harm civilians and innocent people.
Human beings, who have made the same mistake countless times over hundreds of years, must now come to their senses.
People should choose those who support peace, not those they see strong. Being strong does not mean using your power to oppress, break or destroy those who are weaker than yourself. This is cruelty. This is bullying. This is brutality. This is the most backward, undeveloped evolutionary side of humankind.
Intelligence is not the most important characteristic of human beings. Along with intelligence, spirituality must also develop. Spirituality is what makes a person human, the main thing that determines the level of human development. It's about valuing others as well as yourself. This is using the ability to empathize with other people. Not hurting anyone, knowing that someone else may suffer, too.
Many people with a savage mentality who persecuted others in history have been in top management. The oppressors have come to power many times. Many tyrannical kings made decisions that put humanity back.
The common word of every oppressor is: "They left us no other choice."
There is always a better and more humane option. We must choose humanity.
We must direct our minds to humane things, to good things, to things that are beneficial to the whole of humanity. To take sides in the war is to support the war. And where there is war, there can be peace if we consider the common good of all humanity.
I wish peace to the Ukrainian and Russian people. May there be peace in the world.
"You don't die before what you judge happens to you."
"You don't die before what you judge happens to you."
The universe is full of contradictions. Good-Bad, Plus-Minus, Positron-Electron, True-False etc.
If we go to extremes on a subject, it triggers the same effect to occur at the opposite extreme. I think this situation is very complex, but I think the simplest explanation would be "The Universe balances everything."
There have been times in my life where overly judgmental people have come into my life. I have witnessed many times that everyone who has an overly judgmental attitude on a subject begins to experience the things they judge as time progresses, and this time they judge the things they used to hold on to.
It is like a man who strongly advocates that the color pink does not suit men, that men should wear dark clothes, and who almost hates men who wear pink clothes, started to wear pink clothes and now judges men who wear dark clothes.
However, the problem here is not the color pink. The real problem is in our judgmental mindset.
We can be very religious, very faithful, very smiling, very intelligent, never lying, very social people. Or we can be a tolerant, loving person who believes in scientific evidence, listens to the voice of reason. It can be all together. Just as not all religious people are absolutely moral, being an atheist does not mean being immoral.
Tolerance to my faith and reason is the center point of universal balance. An authoritarian, tyrannical, judgmental mindset triggers intolerance, discrimination, inequality, fear, injustice and war.
We all have equal responsibility for making the world more tolerant.
Evil and good are choices. Our labels do not change the nature of the choices we make.
If we are honest in our personal life, we can be honest in our business life, in our political views. Due to our job, every time we support wrong and move away from truth, we stray so far from our honesty.
True honesty is staying honest in our private life, in politics, in our business life, and in social media.
Let's go back to the first sentence. A judgmental person is judgmental on both extremes. If he likes pink, he will judge those who don't like pink. If he doesn't like pink, he will judge those who love pink. In this case, there is no fault of pink. The real problem is the judgmental mindset.
Only if tolerance is at the center of our lives in our business, politics, football, friendship, and family life, we can only have a healthy perception and honest choices between good and bad, without judging anyone.
We may have chosen the government we elected because we did not have enough information about it. But when the government moves away from honesty, morality and tolerance, we can make a different choice. We do not have to give up honesty and integrity when our party gives up honesty and integrity. It is best for us to choose a new party that fits the virtues of honesty and integrity, which are the most important elements for us.
No matter what party, belief or philosophy it is, it can embrace everyone and humanity as long as it stays in the center of tolerance. Because the absence of tolerance triggers judgment, social segregation and discrimination, opening up gaps between different extremes. As the abyss deepens, so does violence, strife and war.
No matter what faith, religion, sect, country, party or company we belong to, let there be tolerance in our center. Regardless of our age, gender, social status or profession, let's remember that we are all human first.
Tolerance is key.
Do you want a better world? Show tolerance.
Do you want their relationship to be better? Show tolerance.
Do you want peace in your country and in the world? Show tolerance.
But no matter what, let there be tolerance in your family, friends, business life, political life, but the concepts of honesty and integrity in all areas of your life.
Don't be on the side of evil. But don't be judgmental of those who don't think like you.
Do not forget;
"You don't die before what you judge happens to you."
4 open source secure android keyboard recommendations
Hello everyone,
I have been searching for a reliable and functional android keyboard for a few days. You ask why? Because all keyboards that come by default collect and process our personal data. Although this is insignificant for many of you, it is very important that our personal data is not used without our knowledge, even if we are not aware of it.
Hackers' view: "Information should be accessible. Nothing should be hidden." Not that much.
How secure would it be if our credentials, bank account passwords, credit card information were publicly accessible?
So yes, we share our photos on Instagram. Of course, we also share sensitive metadata with our photos. (Location, device, date, time etc.) This information doesn't make any sense to me, but it can be very meaningful to a malicious person.
Anyway, I don't want to bore you with too many details. But you should know that there are those who skillfully do what we call impossible in daily life.
A hacker can identify your interests by examining your facebook profile. And it can send you a link that matches your area of interest. Moreover, he can even do this from a close friend's account. The moment you click the link, you open the door for it to enter your device.
Our data is really important. Our simple, unimportant log data is valuable to those who process that data for its intended use. There are incredibly talented hackers among big tech companies who say they're processing your data to serve you ads based on your interests. And we can't even imagine what they can actually do with our data.
There are countless examples in the world of how corrupt people with great power can become. History is full of them. Now google, Meta, twitter...
Anyway, this isn't a conspiracy theory. Use your intelligence. A giant tech company gives you loads of apps without asking you a cent. Do you think they got this rich just by advertisements?
You have developed a great app and you are not asking users to pay. But you make it mandatory for users to only allow you to process user data as a condition of using your application.
The question is: How do you make money?
Again, I went into too much detail. 😃
We allow such a long usage policy and privacy policy as a condition of using an application that sometimes the loan terms we sign in banks seem more innocent to me.
Imagine they are bankers. The developers of the application are also extremely talented hackers. Now it has permissions and capabilities to watch you from your phone's front camera. They can also track what you're doing on your phone step-by-step.
Anyway, conspiracy theory or not, but it is a fact that we give them this authority by using those applications.
"What would the giant google company do if they knew my bank password?"
How should I know? I am not a hacker. 😃
Anyway, best of all, an app that doesn't process my data makes me feel more secure. Friends who think like me can try the following applications. I do not have very detailed information about applications, but since they are open source applications, those who understand this business can examine the source codes of the applications.
1) Anysoft keyboard
In the privacy policy, it says that the information accessed by the application remains on our device. Since there is no internet access, the keyboard does not receive, share and process these applications without our knowledge.
Download link: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.menny.android.anysoftkeyboard
Source Codes: https://github.com/AnySoftKeyboard/AnySoftKeyboard
Privacy Policy: http://anysoftkeyboard.github.io/privacy-policy/
2) SimpleKeyboard.
Again, an open source keyboard application.
Download link : https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=rkr.simplekeyboard.inputmethod
Source Codes: https://github.com/rkkr/simple-keyboard
3) OpenBoard
Download Link: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.dslul.openboard.inputmethod.latin
Source Codes: https://github.com/openboard-team/openboard
4) BeHe Keyboard
Download Link: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.vlath.keyboard
Source Codes: https://github.com/VladThodo/behe-keyboard
My intention is to always be a conscious user. I think Anysoft Keyboard is one of the best customizable keyboards. When I first installed it, I was skeptical when I saw the privacy terms article. But when I read the privacy policy, my doubts disappeared. But it wouldn't be nice if they changed their privacy policy without our knowledge. In other words, when the application spreads and becomes a widely used application, I hope it does not turn into an application that says "We process and share your personal data."
Anyway, there was such an article today. I may be wrong. There's no need to get hung up on conspiracy theories, but it's good to be a conscious user.
We don't know what closed source apps do. But we have the opportunity to examine the source code of open source applications.
If I want to share my personal data, I want to decide for myself what to share. For example, I might want to share a photo of me that turned out great on Instagram. (But I don't use Instagram, facebook, twitter, WhatsApp.😊)
But I don't want my ugly photo to be seen by someone on the other side of the world without even knowing it. This is probably the simplest explanation.
So if I only shared my location information with my friend, the whole world doesn't need to know where I am. (Especially thieves and hackers should never see it. 😁)
I don't even want to use an application that imposes pages of terms of use, privacy policy that I don't even understand what it means.
Friends who think like me can review the above applications. Actually, I liked OpenBoard Keyboard very much, but the letters ç,ı,ö,ü,ğ,ş in my language only appear when you hold them down on the keyboard. This slows down the typing speed a lot. I hope 29 letters are integrated into the keyboard with the new update.
Don't get too hung up on what I wrote. These are my personal opinions. Not everyone has to agree. If you agree with me, you can comment and use the like button. If you are not, you can share your views with us with an article.
Otherwise, we do not have to comment, upvote or downvote anyone. We can support content we like. But we don't need to be trolls who downvote everything we don't like.
If you have a great idea, share it with others in an article so that we can learn from each other. There is no need for jealousy, hatred, anger, envy. Unfounded and empty information is forgotten over time. Rest assured, strong ideas always stay alive.
If you have a useful idea, put it into practice. You will witness that it has spread to the world over time. If you really want something, make an effort. Blaming other people's actions does not bring success to anyone.
If you have an idea that will be useful to the whole world, put it into action and work on it constantly and improve yourself and your idea.
Other people's mistakes, truths, successes, failures do not concern us. We are responsible for ourselves.
Do you know any better? Then bring them to life.
Being too busy with other people's thoughts and actions wastes our time. In the long run, it hinders our success. Because we can't find time to do our own actions because we waste time with the mistakes of others and we prevent our own success.
Write articles, share, create content. If you have time, you can comment on the content you like. So our priority is to be productive, not to compare what others produce.
I share my own opinions, but I don't expect everyone to agree with me. If you're aggressive about commenting, you'll likely be tagged as spam. Or at least other users you comment on will block you. If you feel like it, you can support a content that you like very much. Making negative comments and downvoting will not give you success here and in the world. We can achieve success by our own actions.
Love and greetings to all. I hope this content will be of use to you. I have installed all of these apps. I change it from time to time. I am currently writing this article with AnySoft Keyboard. I guess I need to turn on word prediction because I'm hitting the wrong key too often. :)) This is the case with almost all keyboards, not just this keyboard.
I guess the full screen mode is on and the keyboards stay down. Let's see if I can find a setting where I can type more accurately and faster.
Take care of yourselves. The article is finished. Dot. 😃
True love is based on compassion
Now, I put the teapot bag in the water glass and took a sip of the tea to which I added the hot water, and started my writing. I've been watching a vlog called "Noluyo Ya ¿" for 2 days. I really loved it. The reasons are:
Natural,
fun,
Comic,
Swearing vs. There are no teenage things like
No efforts to slander other vloggers,
There are many more reasons, but I can't think of all of them.
Fun videos were shot of the natural life of a husband and wife who love each other, especially the daily life and travels of Ceyda and Fırat.
I want to have such a fun life when I get married one day. ♥️
**Vlog link :** here https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4-bGrwiQOCVpvQwEGWaqGA
Friendship is a beautiful thing. I believe that the person you marry should be your best friend, your confidant, the person who is with you in your good and bad days. Beauty and sexuality may not be with us until the end of our life, but the person you want to share life with for the rest of your life should be suitable for your character. The man you love for his muscles won't be that muscular after 50. Don't let your love melt when the muscles melt.
The woman whose beauty you are attracted to can become beautiful again with make-up, but if you expect the person you wake up to in the same bed every morning to be like an Instagram model, you may be disappointed.
If you love someone, the lines on their skin, bags under the eyes and freckles should not reduce your love. You should love the person you love in every way.
You should not choose a man with a belly and force him to do sports and build muscle.
After you marry a woman who likes to dress freely and travel, you should not put her in the hijab and keep her at home.
You should not deceive anyone by making big promises before marriage. Everything physical changes over time, but the change of someone whose character you fall in love with should not turn you away from him.
Also, in marriage (of course, in every relationship), secrets harm the relationship. So you should not keep secrets from your wife/husband. This destroys trust in each other.
Talking is much more important in any relationship, but especially in marriage. I don't think it's possible to have a great lifelong relationship with someone we can't sit down with and talk to. Because talking is the most basic way to communicate. Of course, there are married couples who understand each other even without speaking. But even the basis of this is talking. Because as we get to know the person with whom we are constantly talking and communicating effectively, we come to know each other enough to complete each other's words.
Love (I'm not talking about falling in love) is what should be at the core of every relationship. The closest person we have a relationship with is our wife/husband. (Friends, not bros.) You must love your wife/husband. You must love him/her as a human being first.
This is true love, not sexual attraction. Because we cannot knowingly hurt the person we love. But love can always turn into hate. Love that is not based on true love is temporary and sometimes dangerous. If you're in love with someone whose character annoys you almost entirely, your life can be turned upside down. You ask why? Because what you think of as love is not really love, but a mess created by sexual, chemical and psychological contradictions.
True love is a completely different feeling. Love is the core of true love.
In Europe, where sexuality is hastily experienced at the age of 18, and in Central Asia, where a girl is married against her will to a person she does not know before she turns 18 due to cultural pressure, sexuality is introduced so early that relationships in which love does not even come to mind.
I'm 18. Even thinking that I have to experience sexuality may be the result of social pressure. An adult of 18 years of age has the freedom to experience their own choices and their consequences. However, this does not mean that you have to have sexual experience on the day of turning 18.
Obligation, social pressure, peer pressure is not freedom. I think that the pressure of our family, who married us at an early age without our consent, and having to have sex with a person we don't like in order not to be humiliated in the eyes of our peers is not much different. Because pressure restricts our freedom, whether it comes from family, society, friends. Talking about love in both is nonsense.
The lack of options or the fact that there are too many options sometimes prevent us from making the right choice. Also, the choices we make in the past affect the choices we make today. Virginity is the most important thing for a girl who grew up in Islamic culture. Losing her virginity as a result of a wrong decision she made in the past affects her life completely.
I can't go into too much detail, but if you had your first sexual experience with a porn star, all your life's sexual experiences may be overshadowed. The worst part is to make the mistake of defining relationships as just perfect sex.
True love is based on love and compassion. Sex-based relationships, on the other hand, are the most distant from true love.
Falling in love with someone you don't even hold hands with; Spouses who love each other and do not lose their loyalty, even though they are far and apart despite the weeks, months and years that have passed; Those who can successfully manage long distance relationships; Those who love each other with their flaws and accept each other as they are.
There are many examples of true love. That's what I felt in the vlog "Noluyo Ya¿" I watched. I admire it.
Love is the first condition of happiness in any relationship.
What I want to say is that in any society, love should be the most important thing. We all see how easily relationships without love end. But true love is the essence that keeps the relationship strong, durable and unshakable, even in the face of time, distance, and different options.
Love and greetings to you all.
Physical activity and mental peace. Yesterday's walking adventure!
Even though my daily walking activity has decreased significantly due to the pandemic period and especially with the effect of rainy weather, I still try to walk as much as I can when I have time and opportunity. Because it is a great sport in terms of health and I am a person who likes to walk.
I did many sports until I was 20 years old. Like running, karate, cycling... Also, at home, exercises such as push-ups and sit-ups were a part of my daily life. I did the 5 Tibetan Exercises every day for a period of 6 months.
Body, mind and emotional health are interconnected. That's why I think we need to balance ourselves as a whole in order to be healthy physically, mentally and spiritually.
If our mind is constantly generating negative scenarios, it is likely that we are not feeding our minds and bodies with positive things and activating them to work for us.
When we are not physically active, our mind constantly repeats unnecessary things and causes us to have a negative mood and attitude.
We criticize others or ourselves. We are constantly looking for someone's faults and judging them.
Anyway, people who are busy with themselves do not take the time to criticize, judge others and do not gossip. Because they are active physically, mentally and spiritually.
I also do my best to do what is best for my mind, body and soul. Because the secret of life is in action. Action is needed even for dreams to come true.
I would like to leave the philosophical part of the subject aside and share with you my experiences about the walk I took yesterday.
Yesterday, I set out for a walk to fulfill my overflowing desire to spend time outside. As I walked, I let my inner guidance determine the route that caught my attention and that I wanted to go. I wanted to be close to nature and trees. I took about 9000 steps until I got to the point where I want to go back. (I think 5 km.)
Then I crossed the road and made my way back from the other side.
Below I would like to share with you what I saw on a walk from the city to the main road and from the main road to the city. I will share it mixed. Be sure that there are such beauties where you live. Maybe it's a little different, but still, every part of the world is a different beauty. Yesterday my neighbor and friend said, "Are there such beautiful places here?" Yes there is. And yes it is there too. 😊
Listen to the calling of the universe and nature. 🚶🏃💃🏇⛷️🏌️🏄🚣♀️⛹️🏊🚴
Hope to be together in more beautiful articles... Thank you very much for reading. 🙏
I have been busy for a few days and wanted to relax with a nice walk. Today I plan to write an article about it. But first, dear @honeyflex360 @Talecharm thank you for the sponsorship. Welcome.
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My Latest Electronic Hobby Project (Wifi Repeater)
We've had a power failure for a few days. For years, we had a problem because the
in our neighborhood could not handle the electrical load of the neighborhood. Eventually the old transformer was replaced with a new one.
By the way, I played the ofline dinosaur game in the brave browser. :)
I am also proud to introduce my new hobby project to you. We were using WiFi Repeater because the coverage area of my home modem did not cover my family's house. However, I think the Wifi Repeater malfunctioned over time and the internet became very slow. This was an opportunity for me to do my new hobby project.
Tools I used for this hobby project:
1) ESP8266 Nodemcu WiFi card,
2) Antenna,
3) Plastic box,
4) Cable,
5) Microusb charger.
I downloaded the necessary firmware to convert ESP8266 to WiFi Repeater from https://github.com/martin-ger/esp_wifi_repeater. There are files to be flashed in the Fireware folder. How to do it is explained on https://github.com/rubfi/esp_wifi_repeater/.
I used "ESP8266 Download Tool", which I downloaded from https://espressif.com/en/support/download/other-tools to flash the Fireware.
I made the settings using the values written on the firmware files.
I soldered the old modem antenna cable to the antenna on the ESP8266. I think there is some problem with my antenna connections, wi-fi signal quality is the same without antenna. Since I didn't have any solder on my hand, I soldered the antenna using a small piece of solder I got from another circuit.
Anyway, when I get a new solder wire, I can improve the signal quality by making the connection better.
As a result, the cost of this project, which I am currently doing as a hobby, is about 1/3 less than the WiFi Repeater price according to my calculations. In other words, it is possible to make 3 of these homemade hobby WiFi Repeaters for the price of one Wifi Repeater.
There are so many projects that can be done with the ESP8266. I've made a weather server before. You can remotely control your garage door with the ESP8266, as well as turn the lights on and off via WiFi. However, to make a project from scratch requires a strong imagination and a good command of programming languages. Of course, it is a matter of pleasure and preference to be interested in cards and modules such as Arduino, Raspberrypi and to do hobby projects. But since I am interested in these subjects, I wanted to share my hobby work with you. As can be understood from the subject, this project I have done is not a project that has never been done before. So I didn't create anything from scratch. This isn't a big deal for me anyway. I like to try projects that work for me at home. I customize some for myself.
If you have ESP8266, you can use it as a WiFi Repeater. It is possible to buy a Nodemcu ESP8266 for 45-50 TL in my country. WiFi Repeater prices start from 150 TL as far as I can see.
Of course, it is not a substitute for a quality Wi-fi Repeater. But with a quality hobby craftsmanship, we can make a project that will work for us.
If you are interested in electronic hobbies such as Arduino, Raspberry Pi, you can try it. However, there may be different settings due to model, version differences. You should also consider these. Otherwise, if you are not interested in such matters, do not try to make a Wifi Repeater just because it is cheap. If you have such hobbies like me, you will want to try it anyway. Or you probably already did.
I have one Raspberry Pi, one Nodemcu ESP8266, Bluetooth card, sound and light sensors, relays. Sometimes when I have time, I try to do something with them as a hobby. For example, I had previously built a car that can be controlled from a smartphone for myself and my nephew. A few years ago, I made a project with the Raspberry Pi, where I could turn the lights on and off over the web, showing the temperature of the house and the temperature of the outside air.
Sometimes I switch between my hobbies. Taking photos, hobbies related to electricity and electronics, hiking, sports, etc. I do whatever hobby makes me happy and helps me organize my mind.
I know that hobbies are formed with a sincere desire. So if you really want to learn to play a musical instrument, nothing can stop you. Because what motivates you is your inner strength.
Today, I wanted to share with you a project about one of my hobbies that I love to do. I hope I can get new ideas from a few friends with the same interests.
It is fun to take care of our hobbies. It also draws our attention to the moment in which we live. The results also make us happy. Now I'm leaving to make myself a coffee, post on noise.cash and watch a movie afterwards. Take care of yourselves. Love and Greetings.
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The Power of Experience. Real Heroes!
**Real Hero**
All of us at some point in our lives have waited for a hero to appear to save us from the difficulties we face. That hero will appear in an instant and all our problems will be solved in an instant.
However, the real heroes are those who come into our lives at certain times in our lives and help us even though we don't even realize it.
Our mothers are our true heroes. They fed and raised us in times when we were not even aware of ourselves.
Our fathers are our true heroes. They have protected us from many dangers in our lives.
However, so many heroes have entered our lives that we are not aware of any of them. The person who lends us one of his pens in the exam is a hero.
Our friend who defends us next to another friend is a hero.
The person who helps an old woman cross the street by holding her hand at a red light is a hero.
Heroes are not people to whom we have completely surrendered control of our lives, to whom we have given up our will. It should not be like this...
If you are looking for a hero who will save you from all the problems of your life, you will make a mistake. Problems, difficulties exist to improve us. Only in this way can we evolve and become a better and stronger version of ourselves.
Heroes should not be people who feed us when we are hungry, give us water when we are thirsty, and struggle with problems and difficulties for us. Heroes shouldn't be people who make things easy for us. If there is someone who can make everything easier in our life, it should be us.
If everything were easy, we wouldn't need to evolve, and even if we lived hundreds of thousands of lives, we would stay the same and not evolve.
Instead of looking for someone to tackle our problems for us, we should look for ways to solve our problems. This is what will improve us.
We can develop and move forward through experiences. And the problems, difficulties and troubles we encounter in our lives are part of our experiences.
We are no longer formula-fed babies. Years ago, we decided to walk on our own feet. Now we must continue to walk on our own feet, to find a way to solve our problems, to overcome obstacles.
We are all real heroes. We can help those who need help. However, walking, moving forward, continuing is one's own choice. No one can dedicate their life to yours except your mother and father. Everyone has their own life. Everyone has their own problems. Even heroes...
And everyone has the responsibility of solving their own problems. Others can only give us small clues about solving the problem. However, it is our responsibility to find the solution to the problem. The fact that someone else solves our every problem causes us not to gain problem solving skills.
In fact, we can only reach a place with a wonderful view if we keep walking without really giving up. The tools that will facilitate us on this path emerge with our inner strength.
And eventually we will realize that it is not the problems that really matter, but the rewards we get at the end of our experiences. Someone else's solutions may mean we miss out on the real rewards.
Someone can describe paradise to you. But you can only understand, feel and experience the beauty of heaven when you go there yourself.
Descriptions, definitions, will never be enough to explain the truth of something.
Even photographs are not enough to understand the true beauty and feelings of being in a place with a wonderful view.
We as human beings have the power of experience. Learning from books, from what someone else has told, from stories can make us partially understand something superficially. Only our experiences can teach us the truth. We can realize by experience that the truth is not just problems, but that there are wonderful beauties, miracles and blessings in it.
You can only know what it feels like to feel the wind on your face while running.
When snow writes, you may realize that it can be a great game to take a piece of snow in our palm and turn it into a snowball and throw it to your friends.
Life is a combination of wonderful beauties. And we learn this through experience. We can only know by living that one day, skiing, driving, playing a musical instrument, singing, cycling, swimming, walking on the beach, picking mushrooms in the forest are all wonderful experiences.
To experience is to feel deeply. Only in this way can we truly feel that we are alive.
And one day we realize that many great heroes come into our lives and that we are the heroes of others as well as ourselves.
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Criticism and Accepting Others as They Are
Criticism is a justified and poisonous concept. Often criticism is a way of making others wrong for the sake of justifying oneself. Criticism and gossip often go together. Critical people take refuge behind the concept of scientific justifiable criticism. Because they are always right. (!)
Criticism has consequences:
1) Criticism is a way of manipulation. And it is a method used by those who are constantly trying to change others, but never bother to change their own thoughts. And when you try to change someone, the person's consciousness resists it. They rightly respond with anger. Because you are actually trying to harm their character. If you try to harm what someone defines themselves, it is perceived as trying to destroy it.
2) Even though critical people try to present themselves as perfect, you may find them constantly criticizing others. Critical people are left alone as a result of their actions. Because no one wants to be constantly criticized and gossip about. Nobody likes critical people because everybody wants validation, even if they're not perfect.
3) Critical people don't just criticize the person to their face. At the same time, by criticizing the people they criticize in front of others, they try to diminish the value of the people they criticize in the eyes of others. In fact, what will eventually happen to those who constantly criticize is the discrediting of themselves, not the people they criticize.
4) No one wants to share their secrets with people who have the habit of criticizing.
5) The defense of those who make criticism the center of their lives is as follows: "I just shared my opinion. What's wrong with that?"
We all fall into the trap of criticism, more or less.
Of course, none of us are perfect. We may not be very hardworking or successful. As long as we do not harm others physically, mentally or spiritually, our personal faults only harm ourselves.
That's why it's best to accept minor flaws as they are, rather than criticize them. However, we are not perfect either. We also have flaws.
The most loved people in the world are those who accept others as they are. We feel closer to people who love us despite our flaws. If there are such people around us, after a while, many of our faults will disappear by themselves. Because these people make us feel whole with ourselves again, and allow us to make peace with ourselves.
All people need is to be accepted as they are.
Of course, this does not mean accepting everything. For example, violence should not be accepted. Even criticism is a form of emotional and mental violence.
If people around you are constantly leaving you, consider whether you are a critical person. If you find yourself constantly alone with yourself, consider whether you criticize other people's faults.
In fact, what should be done is not to criticize, judge or blame others or even ourselves. If we have mistakes, it is enough to notice them and correct them in a short time. Rather than living in constant guilt and making others feel guilty, it's best to admit acceptable flaws and correct unacceptably serious mistakes.
This should not mean accepting that they are people who engage in illegal business or people who use violence against their spouse and children.
I feel compelled to explain these because generalizing often leads to misunderstanding.
If we can't accept someone for who they are, it's often better not to associate with them.
We should not let anything into our lives that we cannot accept. Of course, sometimes it is not always easy to understand this at first, but if we feel uneasy in the first moments of our relationship with someone and are hesitant to share our thoughts, this is a sign.
The universe gives back to us what we give it. The easier we accept people as they are, the more easily we are accepted by others.
Sincerity is beautiful. It's wonderful when two people can open their hearts to each other. Criticism is the enemy of sincerity. The two cannot coexist.
Of course, humor and sincerity can go together. But hiding criticism behind humor is also not a sincere approach.
In other words, criticizing someone's faults by using humor is not perceived as sincerity.
Thank you for **reading.**
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Winter Cleaning of Life
For a long time, I realized that there are things that consume my time, my energy, my life force. I would like to give a simple definition by calling these distractions.
Distractions can be anything physical, mental, emotional, that diverts our minds and emotions from our primary goal. They can be virtual or real, physical or mental. It can be animate or inanimate objects. For this reason, it is sometimes not easy to detect them. Especially if it has been an active part of our lives for a long time...
The thing is, you feel like you have to deal with someone all the time, and you feel like you're running out of time for that person.
You feel like your energy is drained every time someone engages you in dialogue. That's why you don't want to do anything.
It could also be what you've been through in the past that is constantly pulling you to that moment in the past.
Sometimes, it can be our own thoughts or the thoughts of others that we adopt as our own.
Every one of us has 24 hours a day, regardless of age, gender or country. Everything we spend these 24 hours on shapes the present and therefore the future and our entire life.
When we spend today gambling, what we will most likely have in the future is huge debts.
One second is too much to think about a person who doesn't value us.
Every time we give a chance to someone who hurt us, we give them the opportunity to repeat it. Of course, it may be good to give this chance to someone who deserves a second chance, but I think it is better not to give this chance to someone who does not fully trust us.
Unless we learn to really devote our time to things, we're wasting our time. Yes, this is a lesson, of course. But at the end of the day, we need to learn what we should devote our time to. The lesson we must learn is not to repeat the same mistakes over and over.
That's why I decided to permanently close my social media accounts. I closed my personal Instagram account today. I also closed my Twitter account, where I shared crazy content on the website.
You ask why? While there is no single logical reason not to close these accounts, there are many reasons to close and delete them completely.
I haven't used Facebook for years anymore. I haven't used whatsapp for a few years. Now I have decided not to use Instagram and Twitter.
Now I only have Signal, Threema, Telegram, read.cash and noise.cash accounts. I will delete my Telegram account as well.
There are still a few other sites and apps that I'm considering closing and deleting.
I think the winter period will pass with cleaning.
@turuncu
