"When the Time is Right"

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How do you usually dump a man? Do you tell them you don't like them? Or do you tell them that you hate them? I used to dump a man my whole life, I never had one who cross the line I set as a boundary of, not a single one until I met him.

He told me that he loves me and want me to be his wife, all of a sudden under my unprepared heart. Is dating not a deal when choosing of whom to marry with? Is it not a big issue to just choose a woman? What if you've chosen the wrong one? Or, what if the one you chase isn't the one meant for you? Those were the questions I wanted to ask but my mouth was muted and my heart skips a bit when I hear those words. I want to punch him and screw him, back in my mind I shouted, "you dare cross the line!" I wanted to shout and err out anger, but at that time, anger wasn't there but surprisingly a confuse mind was about to burst of an emotion I couldn't explain.

I just only talk of one thing, "I have never been mistakenly dumping a man, I choose to dump them because I don't meed them". I thought just like any other, I thought he would insist, I thought he would beg, I thought he would be weeping, or kneeling, or trying to convince me to give it a try just in case it will work. No! He did not!

He just simply smile and told me that I don't need to need him for me to be his woman, He needs me just like a missing piece of him. I thought I could easily dump him, I underestimated him because every day when he reaches me, I was happy and it made my day. Everytime I ignore him, I can feel the pain which I never felt the same way before. I convinced myself that he is just another man.

He asked me once, he asked me twice, until the third question that he had which is "will you be my girl?" instead of saying "no" or dumping him the way I used ti before, I was amazed when I came to reply with "let it be when the time is right".

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How young are you maam? Pray for it. the Lord preparea the best man for you. Continue to seek and trust Him.

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4 years ago

I am not as young as you think I am. I am living in this world over a decade now.

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4 years ago

Thank you for cheering me up. I will keep him and believe on him too. It may not be too much but at least a little, it's better than nothing.

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4 years ago

You are welcome. Yeah, it starts with little then it will continue to grow and become big and bigger.

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4 years ago

And then one day it's uncontrollable and at times you forgot that you're into it already.

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4 years ago

If you stick in the deccision of being hurt always, dont bother to leave for a second and think twice if its worth it to came back.

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4 years ago

Yeah, because it's not good to decide quickly without, we have to think twice and meditate well before making a decision.

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4 years ago

When the time is right. Kilan ba ang tamang panahon para sa akin. Akoy minsan naiinip at nag tatanong ganun ba kahirap ako ligawan ha ha ha ha. I am just too strick 😤 that's all. Cause if I can't then I'll be a victim again of this stupid call love.

Akey e waley ney mi sebe pa so sana eto e megeng sepet na para mapuri ang imong artikulo selemet sa pag bahagi dito. Ipag patuloy mo pa ang imong nga work. Akey e susuport neleng sa ginitong perian.

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4 years ago

hm wonderful... It's good you guide your heart deligently, because any wrong emotion that goes in there is difficult to get out..

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4 years ago

Yeah, and any decisions made of is a life made up. Our today is the decision we've made before today exist.

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4 years ago

yeah well stated. We have to do things right to avoid regrets at a later time because regrets can never fix a mistake once made

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4 years ago

Exactly! We have to be wise in every decisions we make. We have to be true and try to make the right choice even if it seems wrong for others. What about a thumbs up and subsrcibe? I'll do the same to you.

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4 years ago

sure I would do that now... I enjoy your contents

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4 years ago

thank you! I have done it to you too. I subscribed already on you.

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4 years ago

Wow, it's always heart breaking to dump someone, whether you're the one being dumped or you're the one doing the dumping.

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4 years ago

Yeah, both of them will feel the pain and struggle about the decision being made. After all, the decision is made for the benefit of each party, mayne to avoid future conflicts and heartbreaks.

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4 years ago

I never regret it when I dumped someone. No matter a man or family or friends. It was all for a good reason and each time it improved my life.

Sounds to me this time you found the real one and you are afraid to give it a try or is he that dominant?

Please, run Grammarly to remove the errors. 🍀💕

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4 years ago

Good thing that you did not regret it. I hope I had the real one. I apologize for the errors, I just randomlu write using my phone. I'll try to fix it when I gad the luxury of time. Thanks for yorlur concern.

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4 years ago

Everything revolves around time and time alone...when the time is right the things that hasn't happened before will surface

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4 years ago

Only when the time is right. See? There is always a time for everything that's way we need not to rush things in life to avoid getting hurt.

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4 years ago