If only it's the other way around

January 28, 2022

Is there a time that you'd questioned your state of living? Like, why am I like this? Why am I into this kind of situation? Why I can't able to do this and that? In so many people, why me?

A lot of why's that come to our mind that somehow it's hard to find solutions of what will be the solutions of that why's. That HOW solution may hard to find that is why sometimes because of so many why's and the difficulties of how's we may thought of the WHAT IFs.

What if this is not my state of living its the other way around maybe everything will be fine.

What if I am not like this, maybe I'll be happier than what am I now.

What if the situation isn't what it is now, maybe it's not hard for me to deal with.

What if I can able to do and buy whatever I wanted, maybe I will not feel insecure from others.

WHAT IFs really come into our minds in times that life somehow not in what we expected to be. When life for us were somehow difficult and we felt weary all the time because of things are not in accordance for us. Then, we may thought on the other way around. Just like IF ONLY life were good for us all the time then we may not thought of such things.

If only it's the other way around...

When I experienced for the first time how terrible and shocking a category 5 super typhoon I had this several feeling of if only thoughts.

If only I prepared well before the typhoon hits our province then for sure I will not made all my clothes wet and I would have the chance to asked the owner of the coconut tree that surrounds our house to cut them and maybe our house, my parents house won't be totally damaged by now.

After such typhoon, my family not only ours but all the victims of the said typhoon suffers from shelter, foods and finances because mostly were taken away by the said calamity.

If only I had enough in terms of financial thing or I am one of the billionaire people around the world. Then, definitely the people around me and all the people in my barrio won't suffer anymore in terms of shelter because I will definitely helped them build their houses by giving the materials they needed to be used in re-building even just a simple home for all of them. Also, I will surely provide them groceries as well as an amount of money for them to have something to get in their pockets when they wanted to buy something like foods they like.

I've been sharing here that I and my partner already living in separately from in laws and it's been 5 months now that we are renting a house that were living together with our son.

If only, I and my partner now have stable job and both were financially stable then definitely we are now building our dream house or home so that we will now stop renting a house instead we will only mind the bills alone and not with the rent.

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If only, I had enough money by now. A stable money that can be earned monthly or weekly or twice a month then for sure all my add to cart items on shopee will now be all placed to order. (LOL)

WHAT IFs and IF ONLY, were both be felt and thought when time aren't done on it's expected cases as what I've mentioned. Just like in my case, I somehow felt this kind of thoughts because of the situation that I am into right now. Well, I'm not saying that I am not contented with what I have right now. It's just that, things were also happened unexpectedly and that brought a lot of changes just like what the calamity brought to us in an unexpected manner. That is why, there really times that I had thought of the what ifs in life and thought where I can say if only it's the other way around and not of what it is today.

How about you? Have you also felt the same as I do in some instances of your life?

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