39 months of love and we made it a little special

Celebrating monthsary is not really a must in a relationship, a simple greetings to each other for us is what matters. But of course, making it a little special by cooking some foods is also a memorable one.

I and my partner celebrates our 39th monthsary yesterday, on the 21st of the month. Were both happy from the fact the we still able to reach this far. Well, not that far because I know some already lasts very far. But, just so grateful knowing that we both end up together or chose to be each others side after knowing our true attitudes, our likes and dislikes.

To be honest, I and my partner were very opposite. When I like something but he doesn't seem to like what I like then vice versa. When I wanted to turn on the fan because it's so hot but he doesn't like to turn it on because he felt cold and vice versa but of course the decision ends up to me, Haha. In other words, we really are opposites but they said opposite attracts. Maybe, that's the reason why we still at each other side aside from having a son.

I must say that I was lucky having him by my side because the time I got pregnant he stays by my side and never abandoned me. Being pregnant before marriage is not what matters. What matters is the fact that someone will hold your hands tightly after such incident and can able to to support our child's needs. Were just humans, and formality on such matter I don't think so is important. The only important for me is that, I had someone that I can assure that there's no other parties involved and my kids will not be at risks. That's why, I'm happy celebrating yesterday with him because he also said that he already understood my attitude well. Because, for all you know my attitude is worst when I really don't like such things he does. I also don't like when our house became messy that's why he knows how to clean it as well because first and foremost I hate lazy people. Since, he knew my dislikes I was glad that he avoided all my dislikes and so do I as well. I avoided those things that he doesn't like I'm doing.

Relationship is really a matter of understanding each others side. Were just lucky if we chose someone that understand as no matter what and of course it's always and should be a vice versa. Because, if only one of you understand and the other won't listen then that maybe the start of a toxic relationship.

So much for that....

Yesterday, for the first time since most of the time we just only greeted each other on our monthsary. I decided to cooked something and ordered a pizza as our appreciation to each other we made a little special by cooking foods since we both loved foods.

After were done in our morning routine like taking a bathe cleaning the house we both went to the market together with our kid and bought the things that are needed.

We bought pizza. . .

It's a hawaiian pizza. I actually want the beef in flavor but since it's not available only hawaiian were available yesterday.

We cooked for the first time, a chicken menudo . . .

Actually, it's our first cooking this food. I was the one who guides my partner on how to cooked this but honestly it was also my first time cooking such. But, the taste of it were not bad as the first timer.

We cooked spaghetti. . .

It's my first time cooking spaghetti as well. So, I asked guidance from my partner's sister since she already tried many times cooking such food. So, again not bad for a first timer. The taste were good, since I add up sugar on it.

Then finally, served it on our table. . .

It was such a memorable one because as I've said it was our first time celebrating our monthsary like this. Cooking something to somehow made it a little special. Well, both of us are not also into such a grand celebrations. We just prefer to be simple and have it simple.

I just hoped we still end up together and stays each other sides until our last breathe.

Just a little story regarding selfies together. We both actually not fond of taking pictures together. Because we both are not photogenic. When I asked him to have pictures he doesn't want it. If he asked me as well to have pictures then I also disagrees. It was just yesterday that we both agreed to have take some selfies together since our son was also sleeping at this time. Therefore, we had to taken time to do some selfies.

That's all for today.

Great day ahead all of you!

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