September 7, 2022
"To live a life that I wanted." Have you ever thought of that?
Sometimes I am asking myself, "at the age of 33, what have I accomplished? When will I get the life that I wanted? The real freedom with no responsibilities?"
Looking at the accomplishments of my former colleagues and classmates, they have been able to build their own lives with their own families. Some have accomplished their dreams, acquired things they wanted, gotten the real freedom they wanted, and lived their ideal lives. While, I, on the other hand, seem uncertain of when I could get out of these burdens of life.
And just like @BreadChamp, I also have an ideal life. Yet, for breadwinners like me, this is somewhat impossible to acquire unless an unexpected twist of fate happens. Probably in my fiction stories. Although for some reason, my parents have to be blamed. But this is my life and I shouldn't despise them, rather, be grateful for whatever I accomplished and experienced and it's also because of them.
I owe them a lot despite putting me in this kind of situation. Without them, I wouldn't be here by now.
But if given a chance, this is my ideal life.
To live independently in my tiny and comfy house
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I don't need to live in a huge luxurious house. To live in a tiny house is my dream. Tiny, yet, comfy and all I have there are only the necessary things. A minimalistic life is my forte.
I want to live on my own, yet, close to my family. When the government gave tiny houses to the Yolanda victims, the first thing that came to my mind was to renovate ours someday and I would live there. However, my other sibling needs it more, especially now that he has his own family. As an older sister, again, I need to give it to him so he could have a safe place for his new family.
Since I love being close to nature, someday, I might just build my ideal tiny house on our farm which is more tranquil than in the town proper.
To be my own boss
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I've been working for other people since I stepped out of school and I never had time freedom since then. My ideal life is to just work at home and manage my own time. I don't need a stressful boss, I want to be my own boss. I could wake up and sleep at any time I wanted to. I could do other things and spend more quality time with my loved ones.
I want to be my own boss and a boss of others if I put up a business. If this will be granted, all my employers are just my family and relatives. One dream of mine is to help those less fortunate family members (including relatives) to get better jobs. And it's easier to deal with and manage people I am comfortable with. In that way, I am attaining my dream while helping my family.
Just enjoy life and travel more
You guys know me as a Hodophile, and my dream to visit beautiful places will continue until I can. That is my only way to create beautiful memories before I become unable. But this won't just be for me. My ideal life is to travel to beautiful places in my country with my family on our own house bus. Go camping, picnic, swimming, hiking, and others.
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For many years I've been working away from home, there was less time that I spent celebrations and special events with them. I hope someday, I could be my own boss and have more quality time with them.
As for now, it isn't only money that matters, but the happy moments with loved ones. Because we don't know for how long we would live in this world. In regards to this matter, let's pray for Ate@Pachuchay's recovery. We actually don't know her exact condition right now. All we can help is prayers and hope, that nothing worst will happen to her 😥.
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