← A Message From My Boss August 4, 2021 "You're not getting any younger, you should get… by @Jane
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Sabi nga pag mag asawa anak nya..iinvite nya ako kpg mayaman yung mapangasawa.. Count naman ako edad ko..mga 50 or 60+ na ako nun 🤣
May anak kanarin o sariling pamilya siguro nun te HAHAHAHA ako kasi kung di ako magasawa plano ko nalang ilaan sa pagligtas ng hayop unv maipupundar ko. Enjoy nalang HAHAHA
I guess you need to look for it now 🤣 you are ahead of me..lol
🤣🤣 socI should not worry bout it 🤣 But the future though 😥
malay mo pag uwi mo.. or habang umuuwi ka .. hehe. pero yeah not worry too much i guess.
Yup.. Just be happy for now 😁
Definitely 🥳
single na single hahahaha
You're lucky to have such employer who treated you as her daughter already. Well, marriage is a sacred thing and one should think wisely and wholeheartedly before entering to it. There's no turning back once you get married to someone. But you're still young po enjoy life :) find first a boyfriend before thinking about marriage hehez.
True . no turning back. But you can quit anyway. 🤣🤣 pero wala tlga sa isip ko mag asawa lol
Tama tama..bakit want na agad agad .husband..😅boyfriend muna para naman may thrill yung relationship. ayiee.. Supportive yang boss mopo... Sa panahon ngayon kaylangan talaga may katuwang ka sa buhay ..😊.
Yun ang nakakasad lalo na sa pagtanda
Naku, yung kapitbahay ko sanang gwapo at mabait. Makontak nga.
🤣 ireto mo na 🤣
You look at that build within your mind that your own marriage will be a successful one
I also Appreciate the concern atleast my mga boss na concern. Blessed din ako sa mga boss ko kasi mababait sila. Pero tama ka din importante happy ka at self fulfilled at kaya mo buhayin sarili mo. The husband will see your worth and will chase you soon :)
Haha. Sana nga soon. 🤣
I think your boss is right.
I love your boss. She talked to you as a mother to her child. Marriage is sweet and important and to have a beautiful home and a happy moment together, we need to seek God's face first. We can't be forever because being single or alone is risky though. You can't enjoy your life than having a partner who would share things together. I hope you find the good person for you because you are good person too.
At least you have a bf ma.. You won't be alone
Why do people think that getting married is necessary to live a happier life? Sometimes instead of being happy, they end up with heartaches. You'll be happy and blissful pero sa una lang yan. Lol sorry I'm bitter. But your boss is actually right about her thoughts on adopting your niece or relatives, iba pa rin yung sarili mong anak ang alagaan kasi kahit gaano mo pa mahalin yung pamangkin mo, in the end they'll have their own lives too. Tsaka hindi talaga reliable lahat ng kapatid, lalo pag nagsipag asawa na yang mga yan.
Yun nga naisip ko eh. Matitigas pa naman mga ulo nun.. Pro madam. Need mo rn yan 🤣
i don't want to be a b**ching @$$h0l3 but i am going to be.... Could you pick 1 language and stick with that? When you start in English and then mid-sentence switch to (Filipino?) i think i'm having a stroke for the first three seconds before my brain catches up and realizes it's another language. Translators don't do 2 languages in one paragraph too well, either. sorry
Sweet nang boss mo, tama naman sya pero yun nga kung saan ka masaya don ka. Pero yeah, yung later part lang talaga. I must agree not all pamangkin has the patient to take care of you, minsan nga kahit sarili anak sa iba hirap alagaan magulang.
Kaya nga. Yun nakakasad. Iwan. Bahala na si batman 🤣 enjoy ko lng muna ngayon
Haha oo come what may na lang
Haha sugar mommy na Ang labas mo nyan sis 😅😅😅
While your boss is sweet with the concern, I do not think much of what he thinks. Everyone live in their own pace. It is better not to rush into it and instead let things take its course.
It's not really good to rush marriage haha
Matanda na ako te at need ng katuwang. Haha..joke lng 🤣 pro happy naman ako kht wala jowa 🤣
> Haha Korek, yun naman ang importante..
Regardles of what she said she did show that she cares about you. That's the first thing to take away from the conversation i think. That being said, this article got me thinking. I have spent the first 34 years of my life alone. Well, besides 2 relationships lasting 9 days and 3 weeks, and then found "The one". Got married and she got pregnant within half a year and she left me 7 months after my son was born. Been alone ever since my kid was taken from me, in 2015 (see him once every 2 weeks for 7 hours, exceptions for holidays and stuff.... And i have to admit that.... well.... i'm lonely.... When i get home, silence greets me. When i triumph i have no one to high five, just silence looking at me with that "Yeah yeah, settle down kid, one triumph don't make up for over a decade of failure and misery" look. When i'm hit with loss or lose, or just feel like shit, silence is pierced (mentally) with the "You ain't seen nothin' yet, ba ba ba baby you ain't seen nothing yet" backed by guitars. When i wake up i look at my agenda and when there's nothing in it... I generally ask myself sometimes "Why the f#%$$@ should i bother?", turn around and close my eyes again. Thing is that, being 47, overweight, and..... not the first choice when looking for a pretty face... I've developed.... quirks and habits.... things i do because.... well, who cares? Those things you do when you're alone for a long time. They've eroded into my personality and make me..... less compatible... So i need to come to terms with the notion that.... this is it, it's not gonna happen anymore for me. I'll die alone. And the irony of it is that before i "found true love" (my ex left me, i didn't leave her. I thought i was happily married until 3 days before she left me) i was fine with that. I already had reconciled with being alone for the remainder of my days. But now, not so much. Hope i made some sense for you, in philosophizing on this topic. If not, just ignore the ramblings of this ugly old dude. Most everyone else does, so it must be me. Stay safe and stay happy! @Anonsunamun
This is good for one article already 🤣 it's fine sharing your sentiment. . I can visualize my future now. Lol. I hope it won't be as bad as yours 😅
Don't worry, through your articles i got the impression of a strong and bubbly happy core person. You'll achieve exactly what you need, and find your happiness. just wanted to point out that if you've not lived with someone and shared your life (however one way it was in my case) you don't miss it if you don't have it. Nor will it effect you negatively as much. Only once you know, you can know that you miss it when you loose it. Am i making sense? Probably not. I'm shutting up now. :D
No you are making sense and it's good to read more personal stories here.
Never had a problem with that. Sharing personal things i mean. Scares the bejeezes out of people, being that way and open about who, what, where and how your life is. lol.
Haha. Nice reading youee story. If I'm not mistake it was also your story shared by sir Marc one time on noise..and he tipped it with a generous amount..
Indeed it was and indeed he did. Too bad half of it was eeehm... paid for a very valuable and expensive lesson. But the scooter i got still works, and the memories i forged with my Son will last forever. So i am grateful still! Too bad he's not been around for the past 4 weeks. I mean, he's here obviously but i mean posting wise.
I love the ending part where you need a boyfriend first to get married HAHAH. It is understandable that it is mot on your mind since you are not even in a relationship
Sa panahon ngayon mahirap mag commit. For me, I will make sure me and my partner is stable enough before going to marriage. Kawawa din yung magiging offspring kasi sila makakaranas ng hirap
Wag na muna isipin yon. Enjoy lang Ang buhay
nakareserba na. hehe. sana pang forever na. hhihi
I'm not a big fan of marriage, though I may be getting married some day, I'd prefer the single life, no stress, no fights and big quarrels. It's basically a much easier life
Marriage is a really big hall of stress, I'd rather be single and stay free from the occasional fights and quarrels. Peace of mind matters more in life.
I think my Son would disagree...
Marriage Is on the most wish of a woman to be with the person you love .. Pero Kung hndi pa handa talaga lng po wag muna Jowa muna po HaHa mahirap kasi mka hanap .. Haha peace,😉😂
Get married, have a son and work again kay dali sabihin pero key hirap gawin..ako nga nhihirapan na once a week lang nakikita ang anak dahil malayo workplace eh..pano pa kaya yung sa ibang lugar although sa tingin ko concern lang Boss mo sayo kasi nga parang anak na turing niya sayo
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