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How to Make Yourself Likable
We don't want to be someone's enemy, nor we don't want to have an enemy. What we want is a friend whom we can share our timeline in life. Someone who we can trust and someone we can lean on. We are all have different social skills we used to make friends with others. Some of us have charismatic skill to gained the like of many. Some may be outgoing but socially awkward, and some may be introverted. If you will observed your circle of friends, you fill noticed who have those personalities. And it is much fun to have those variety of personality in your circle of friends. We won't be bored and just have fun. Being perceived as likable is more important to some people than to others. Being likable you can easily be loved and trusted by people. They will feel comfortable towards you. Our likability is not entirely depends on us. It depends on our role and function within the group, how much common we have to them, and of course the people around us. As what we always remind ourself that don't pushed ourself to others, their are people that no matter how likable we are, they won't easily be warm their self to us. They may be opposed with our lifestyle, culture, choices or even our personality. It is important to remind ourself that we can't appeal to all people all the time. We can consider ourself lucky if we find people who response to us warmly and openly accept us. We just need to do more to make ourself more likable. Tips to be More Likable ****Be a good listener****. Once someone open up to you telling stories about their life, their education or problem you should listened. People like someone who can listen to his/her dramas or adventure. Finds ways to show that you are attentive and willing to listen. ****Be supportive****. If someone told you that something they achieved, sincerely congratulates his/her. If someone told you an exciting story, show some excitement as well. For that action, you can gain his/her interest but make sure that you don't fake your feelings and emotions. ****Follow up****. If someone told you that he/she went for a job interview, ask how it goes. If they told you they went on a vacation, ask how it was. Doing this can make you earn a likability points. They will know that you listened to them attentively. ****Find a common ground****. You can gain a higher likability points with this tip. People like people whom they have the same interests, opinions, or some what similar to them. ****Don't dominate the conversation****. We all want time to speak, we all want people to focus on us too. You might be a smooth talker or a great story teller but some also want attention and time to speak their opinions, so pay attention to how much time you speak and give others a chance. ****Don't brag****. Humbleness makes people like you more and realizing that you are a down to earth person. Telling how awesome you are, how cool you are, is often turned - off. Making people feel welcome, and accepted and valued makes them happy and loved. We don't want any more stressed in life and having for friends is much better rather than having enemy. **Thanks for reading!**
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Indeed all the things listed makes the people wanted to be with you btw I can be a good listener to everyone
That's a nice trait. Everyone needs a someone who are a good listener.
Thank you Jabs, you can share some things with me as well
Sure. Thanks!
pero khit namn maganda pinapakita mo, hahanapan k p rin ng iba ng d maganda to make others dislike you
Yun yung mga taong insecure sayo.
Well said but their are people who still finds fault in you no matter how you treat them well and show them good deeds... Tsk. Such people. However, but that you can learn which is gold between rubbles.
Maybe those people are insecure and jealous of you that's why they're doing it
Maybe yes... But others have such an evil heart. They don't feel appreciation over good thngs. They only find and loo for negatives.
Then don't mind them. Why waste a time in toxic people.
Right... What we need to do is to continue the ussual way of being kind and compassionate to others...
Di kaso ako approachable kaya malamang hindi ako ka like like. Ako din kasi ang gumagawa ng paraan para di nila ako elike. Sa personal lang yan ha haha. Tho I can be a listener if one of my friend has a problem, supporter din. Pero di pa din sapat kasi nagawa pa din akong eback stab 😣
Pero parang likable ka naman eh, ang witty mo nga tsaka fun.
Hahaha di din naku, pwro basta kalokoham gora tau jan ahahah
Yun nga yung in demand ngayon, yung maloko. Hahaha😂 Taray parang trabaho lang. 😂
Manloloko naman yon eh, hahaha
Will my crush like me back if I do these things? Hahaha
Why not try? Who knows? There's no harm in trying. 😁
It's also about choosing the right people for you. When you are surrounded by the people you're comfortable with, then I believe there wouldn't be major issues in personalities. However, people will always have something to say no matter what. For as long as you do not harm anyone, you're good ❤
We can't please everybody. I guess we need to accept the fact that no matter how likable we are, there are people who aren't please with our personality. Let's just stick with people who will accept us.
Exactly. Why stress yourself out to those toxic people. 😁
Tama! Tama!
How to make yourself likable? "Be true to yourself" that is the only way that others will like you, now if they don't like your personality, then they don't deserve to be a part of your life...we cannot please everyone.. But we will accept those who will accept us for who we are, and not for what they want us to become..
All of your tips is so effective. It's not easy to make ourself likeable to everyone. That's so beautiful article for us.
Be yourself and people will say a thing no matter what so you have to learn to deal with it. Their opinion is theirs, they have the right to do so but how you react is completely up to you. Keep the positive vibe as always! Nice Jabs!
Nice article