Look for the positive side

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3 years ago

Everyday may not be good, but there is always something good in every day. This is the thing which always make me to look for the positive side of situation. Sometimes in our life when we are going through the difficult time of our life or if any day passes in bad way, we are depressed, and negativity comes to make us hopeless.


But we never pay heed to the positive side of the whole matter. Good and bad is always together, if something is bad then good follows behind. All we need is the wisdom to look the situation from every angle.

Take an example of flowers...


If flowers have their good and beautiful side which is their shape, color and fragrance, they also have their harmful part too which is thorns. But it's our attitude to ignore the thorns, and we always come to adorn flowers. We are positive in the matter of flowers, So why not to behave in the same way in every situation to ignore every bad and negative side of situation and to look for only positive because its depends on us what we choose.


Just take a deep breath and appreciate little things around, your family, your friends, your health, your house, and every little thing you have deserved to be appreciated. Stop being worried about the material things, and never let your past mistakes to ruin your present. Wake up every morning with a new hope and vigor, reform your plans, recreate your ideas and improve your skills. Your dreams are big and life is a short, so start from today.



Cause of your stress

Stress, depression and anxiety are caused when we try to please others. Although everyone wants to be good to others but if we start to live for others they will consider our kindness and care, as our weakness. I don't mean that we always behave rudely with others, but we should maintain balance. If we are doing kindness with others it should be in limit otherwise they will take it negatively. This world is mean who always wants to extract from others every possible thing, your kindness, your emotions, and your well-being means nothing to them, so why are you spoiling your life for them?


Nothing can harm you, as long as you are determined. Obstacles comes in the way of every person but the ones who stay consistent are able to overcome successfully. Just remember one thing that nothing is impossible in this world, the ones whom we see successful today are those who were in the same condition at one time but their diligence make it possible for them to achieve this higher prestige.


Sometimes we think that we are the only ones left behind in the race of life, We are the only ones who are facing these difficulties, and life is full of hardships only for us. This thought make us to give up trying, and sit hand in hand. In this dark period of life, our courage is the last ray of hope.

Never let your inner thoughts or circumstances to make you think that you are not capable of doing anything. The accomplishment of your dreams depends on you. All your dreams can come true, if you hold the courage to pursue them. Your win or loss is decided by your inner self. If you are consistent to achieve your goals than you will not be prohibited by anything. And it's not only about accepting your courage or strength, it's about to stay confident, and keep chasing your dreams, which is a only way to get success or triumph.


I hope this is something to you. Thanks for reading.
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Everyone should look for the positive. If you look for the positive in life, you can achieve success. Every one of your positive word, I like it.

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3 years ago

Right we get what we think so always try to be positive, thank you for dropping by.

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3 years ago

The title alone speaks the entire article. Full of positivity. Loved the way you narrated. Blessed now.

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3 years ago

Thank you for this much appreciation.

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3 years ago

Just look on the bigger side and not focus on the negative part. That's why there's a moon in night time.

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3 years ago

Yeh, we should try to ignore the negative part,thank you for your comment.

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3 years ago

I believe that after every bad situation, there is always going to be something good as long as we never give up. After a dark night, the sun will surely come in the morning

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3 years ago

Absolutely, nothing stays forever so bad situation also end up by replacing with good.Thank you for dropping by.

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3 years ago

You're welcome 😉

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3 years ago

Sometimes we don't see the potential in ourselves. I was told I should apply for higher position at my work. In my home country I was a manager. I left the country and I started from zero. After some years team leader opportunities popped up for me at different work places. I ended up working as a manager as well. I did not really believe in myself, but I know now I can do it.

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3 years ago

I am glad to know the position you achieved by believing yourself. Thank you for lovely comment.

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3 years ago

You are welcome.

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3 years ago

Such a beautiful article!! Yes, I do believe stress happens when we please other people.

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Thank you for the compliment.

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