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It's not a gender issue

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10 months ago


Hi everyone! I hope you are well. Life is difficult, its the great truth, but it doesn't mean we pray for an easy life. What we need to pray for the strength and patience to endure the difficult life. We can, must change ourselves to become stronger. We should be thankful to all those people who create difficulties in our life because they make us stronger.


Before today, I thought that only girls are oppressed by men, and given such severe punishments. Only girls who is a, if don't accept the proposal of marriage are either thrown acid, burnt or kidnapped and killed.


But today I heard news a girl threw acid on boy's face, and his face was completely burnt just because the boy rejected her proposal. I am very sad to hear that, how could someone be so heartless, actually it's a gender issue, but criminal offense.


Doesn't anyone have a right to marry or decide to live with whomever they want? To marry someone means to live with them for the rest of one's life which should be done thoughtfully, but in this society there are some people who consider others as their property, that people should obey them as they want, but it can never happen.

Education is only solution


We need to educate such people, ignorant people who take such steps should be made aware through education. They need to understand others, their preferences, and importance, to let them not to live in pain for whole life on small things.

Treat your servants well

Once, I also heard a news that family haired a maid for their house, but they treated her badly. She was only 13 years old, and belong to a poor family, so they agreed at a little salary. But her parents were unaware about the cruelty of such people who burned her with cigarettes and iron, and cut off her hairs and put her to death.


For what? Only because she mistakenly dropped some pots or didn't clean the house properly. What's all? My heart bleeds 💔 after hearing this. Why we treat our servants so badly Didn't? Don't they have any emotions or they are material objects that can be treated in a way we want.


They also have a heart, they are also human beings, and have a right to live their lives in a way they want. So always treat them in a way you want to be treated, feed and cloth them with what you like for yourself. In short be good to them.

As our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said,

"They are only your brothers, Allah has placed them in your care....Let him not overburden him with that he cannot bear."

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Although in outer appearance our five fingers are not equal, but they all hold an equal importance in the sense of power. As we know that with the help of all fingers we are able to do anything, together they can do wonders, end even absence of single finger can effect the whole hand, So how they are not equal.


And if we relate this issue with humans then we can see, people are divided in different sects as, Upper class, Middle class and Third class like our different fingers. But in reality, we are humans, and holds equal importance. There should be no concept of creed, cast, color and wealth. If we truly accept this fact, there will be no place for hate and this world would be a happier place.

It's not only our servants who need to be treated kindly, but every living being deserves our kindness. This world is a home of every living being, and everyone has a right to live their life according to their own preferences, so stop imposing your will to others by using wrong means.


Thanks for reading.

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We have this what we called moral standard. Even the uneducated people know the right from wrong. And yes we all deserved to be treated equally with kindness and respect. Thank you for this good article. It reminds everyone to be good to evryone not just to those who are rich or with a pretty faces.

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10 months ago

We all have our lives to live and we have every right to many things. How could a lady pour acid on a guy because he didn't accept his proposal? That's stupidity. She has ended up destroying the guy already. She needs to be punished.

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10 months ago

She would surly be punished, but the damage she did to guy, is irreplaceable.

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10 months ago

Only proper education & perfect explanation can solve this issue.

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10 months ago

You are right, I hope we can easily educate people about this issue

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10 months ago

It won't be easy dear. If it happens, I will be the meme guy... "Ekdm inhone halat badal diye, waqt badal diye.. "

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10 months ago

Hahahaha....yeh to hai, its not an easy job...

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10 months ago

Marriage is definitely for a life time. At least that's how it should be. We really need to think before we ask or say yes. I have not heard so many rejections. If you have been in a relationship for a while you kind of expect the proposal. I don't think people should wait for it.

If you know your answer would be a no, then you know you don't want that relationship last long. So just finish it as early as you realize you don't want it. I know it is hard, but it is harder to say no and even hear the rejection.

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10 months ago

Yeh,there is no need of carrying a relationship which is not meant for you.

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10 months ago