It is your worst enemy

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2 years ago

Hi everyone. How is your life going? I hope everyone is doing great in their lives, and struggling with new vigor to achieve their February goals. I am also trying my best to accomplish mine, so my best wishes for everyone.

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Anyway, I was planning to clean my refrigerator for some many days, but my laziness was keeping me away. But finally, today I made my mind to clean it, so after having my lunch I take out all the stuff from it, and cleared all the snow from its frontside, and later I washed it, and all its other parts. It took only an hour, and now back in its previous plight..Lol

Anyway, this is not my topic for today, so without further delay, let's move towards it.


Never let your anger ruin your innocence and purity, because it's your biggest enemy, which can lead you to irreversible damage. Mostly in our anger we utter some words, for which we are ashamed later, but nothing could be done expect the regret.

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A man live near my area, who was fighting with his relatives for some reasons. His wife was trying to make him calm, but nothing was working on him. Even he abused his relatives, and said some inappropriate words about them. But after few hours, he realized his mistakes, and was regretting for the words he said about them. His wife asked him to apologize them, but he was guilty, so couldn't dare to face them.


That's why it's always said, think before you speak, because once you pronounce your words they will never be back. It's not only about words, but sometimes our anger can lead us to harm someone physically, even to take their life.


My mom told me the story of a man, actually she was at the hospital for normal check up. A man brought his brother to hospital for treatment. His brother was badly injured, and his blood was running from his belly. The man was badly crying, while his whole family was also with him. The doctors take the patient inside operation theater but after few minutes they informed the family that their patient in no more. He was died on the way.

The father of the patient started to beat his elder son, who brought him hospital. Everyone was curious to know the reason, and when they asked his father, he told the spectators that they both were arguing with each other, and the elder brother was in anger, so he brought a knife and stabbed in his belly.

No one could believe at the reckless act of the elder brother, how could he took the life of even his own younger brother. It was his anger which made him to kill his own brother recklessly, although he was ashamed and crying later, but nothing could be done. The police arrived immediately, and arrested him. His parents were mourning at the loss of their both sons, because one was killed and other was in the jail.

How we can minimize our anger?


1)Take a deep breath, and take it easy.

2) Sit down or walk away.

3) Drink cold water

4) Do some exercise or workout

5) Try to think carefully about the whole argument

6) listen some music

So these are few tips which can control your anger, if you know some more, you can share in the comments below.

Thanks for reading.

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That's why, never open your mouth whe you are in the peak of your emotions. Anyways, good job in cleaninh your ref sis.

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2 years ago

Right because in anger we are not aware about the intensity of our words

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2 years ago

Anger is a bad spirit and emotion and we need to learn how to control our anger and not allow it have control on us. I really felt for the man whose elder son stabbed his other brother. This is really disheartening to hear.

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2 years ago

Right dear this was heartbreaking, we shouldn't let our anger hold on us

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2 years ago

We need to learn to control our anger so we would cause more damage. Actions made out of anger cause problems later.

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2 years ago

Right they can leas us to intense loss

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2 years ago

We shouldn't make any attempt to revenge. We should just walk away to prevent irreparable damages

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2 years ago

Right, actually we need to have patience

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2 years ago

Too much anger is not good. It will cause you stress and you can also utter words that should not be said. For the two brothers, I feel sad because of that anger he kill his brother.

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2 years ago

Right, although he was crying later but this was of no use

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2 years ago

Yes,. Regrets is always in the end.

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2 years ago

We should learn not to react based on our anger. But relax first, take a deep breath amd let the anger pass before deciding how best to act.

Actions made out of anger usually leads to regrets.

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2 years ago

Right we should have a little time to think or relax

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2 years ago

Anger issues... Oh dear, still working on it.

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2 years ago

Thats good, try to keep yourself away from it

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