Start Being Yourself

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Allow me to delve into today's topic of mine without farther delay.

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We all have pasts. The difference is Some of us has beautiful past and some of us has worst past. We all made some choices maybe they were not the best ones but still we have the right to start our life from our worst experience. Whatever past you came from, whatever mistake you made , you don't need to go back to your unchangeable past.

One need to believe in the magic of new beginning because it is the most beautiful, powerful & wonderful among all. Never be afraid to start your life again. This time you are starting your life from your experiences not from your mistakes so you don't need to be worry.

Please stop hating yourself for everything you were and are not and start loving yourself for everything that you truely are. We need to remember that we can't go back and change our beginning, our blunders no matter how much we try but we can start our life where we are now and change the ending.

Free yourself from the slavery of your mistakes which you made in your past. Every day is another golden opportunity to start over. By thinking we often create troubles that are not even exist there. Please stop doing this , AND ___

Take a deep breath... Dust yourself off. Start all over again.

But before starting your life afresh and anew you have to remember something____

Don't Waste Your Time on People who Don't Value Your Efforts

We are making the same mistakes over and over again. Even after bearing and getting lots of agonies, privations we never give up this bad habit of ours.

Our life is limited and we all have to understand before it's too late. We need to understand we can gain nothing but endless pains, miseries by living our life according to someone else's opinion, by wasting our precious time on wrong and unworthy people.

Don't let yourself become like a tiny insect that easily gets caught in a spider's cobweb. Don't let the noise of others knocks your inner and worthy voice down. If you continue to waste your time on people who don't even care for you, who don't even value your efforts then one day you will lose your own self.

Our life is really short and limited to waste our precious time on people who don't even appreciate us, who don't love us.

Whether we want or not , sometimes we have to accept the reality, the harsh truth and try not to waste our time on the wrong people.

Spend your time on those people who loves you unconditionally, who makes you feel worthy & special and don't waste your time on those people who only loves you when the conditions are right for them, when they needs something from you.

You have to remember __"Not All Flower Produce Fruit".

Don't Use Your Energy To Worry

Most of our times , we use our energy on other in order to please them, in order to make them happy instead of ourselves. Often we open the closed doors of our heart to the wrong people very quickly & tell all our deepest, darkest and hidden secrets and end up with heart breaks.

Don't sacrifice your soul, your energy, your peace trying to prove yourself right to others. Don't sacrifice your strength, your energy to worry for your mistakes instead of this 'Use your energy to glow, grow, dream, hope, trust.

One need to understand our past has no power over our present and future. So focus on the things you can control and change & let the rest go.

Keep the Good Ones Close to Your Heart

Nowdays, we are trying to collect a huge crowd of people like lifeless goods without thinking farther. We forgot that it doesn't matter how many friends and relatives we have in our life but how many honest and loyal people we have if counts.

Always keep something beautiful, something incredible, something special in your heart. Always try to cherish those people who are healthy and good for your soul and leave rest behind who are toxic for your soul.

Keep the honest people close to your soul. Just remember, those people who loves you truely will never leave you even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will try their best to hold on and on the other hand those people who hates you silently will never be with you even if there are millions of reasons to hold on. So don't be hard to yourself and don't belittle yourself for the mistakes of others.

It really doesn't matter about others as long as you made your own choice and are happy that's matters the most so don't listen to anyone who is trying to discourage you.

STOP BEING THE SHADOW OF OTHERS, START BEING YOU.

Love yourself first because at the end of the day you will see all you really have is only your own self so don't rely on someone else too much

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I'm not an expert in advising so let me seek your pardon and criticism ( I'm taking both positive and negetive criticism in order to make myself more matured in writing) .

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Allow me to stop my writing here.

Wishing you a very good and wonderful night

Irene

8.52pm

05.01.2022