Not to Do List

Hello World!!! About 16 days has already passed in January, this new day is going to lose it's existence too and I am the only one who didn't do anything productive in this month . I'm not regretting for those days as I'm always spend my days like this. I'm not good at making to do list as I always fail to follow those goals that's why I don't even try to write all those things which I wants to do. But now, I'm trying to make a 'Not to do list' , I hope I will be able to follow these this time, let's see what my future holds for me.

Let's delve into today's topic without farther delay....

Believe in every Words & Opinions

Often we makes mistakes by listening to others. We forgot that words can't always reveal the truth. We have to remember our real value does not decrease because of someone's lame opinion who are not able to see our worth with their open eyes. So don't hate yourself for everything you are not in actual just to please others in vain and start to love yourself for everything you are in real because people believes what they want to believe.

Never allow yourself be made a victim of others. When you depend on people to build yourself up then you're the one who are giving them the power, the right to bully you, to break you down.

You don't need someone else's opinion to know your true value. Let them judge you. Let them gossip about you. Let them misunderstood you But don't allow your own self to doubt your real identity. Just keep shining brightly as usual. Don't listen to everyone, don't believe in every words & opinions because Opinions don't define your Reality

Overthinking

Some of us including myself as usual loves to worry or overthink everytime about our future, about our past, about our present, about people, about our surroundings and about plenty of things.

We need to realize that overthinking can't take away our tomorrow's troubles, yesterday's pains and sorrows but it has the ability to take away today's peace and happiness.

Whatever is going to happen in future will surely happen no matter how much we try to stop from happening them , whether we overthink or not So it is absolutely better to give our attention to our beautiful present in lieu of our past and future.

We have lots of worries in our life , most of which never happened to us and surely will neverever happen to us too. By overthinking we often create those problems which don't even exist in actual.

Overthinking can't do nothing but to ruin our happiness. By overthinking we can't change our unchangeable past or upcoming future but we are just wasting our precious time and our lovely present. And these things will steal your joys, all your potential So stop overthinking and work for your future in your present coz overthinking will lead us to sadness.

Giving Importance to Negetive Thoughts & Negetive People

I , We, need to take a break from all the negetive thoughts, negetive people for a while because now it seems too heavy to carry for me and I'm no longer able to carry those worst things anymore.

Our lives will be much much better if we can stop the negetive thoughts and negetive people from attacking us. We need to change our perspective towards them, how we engage with them. Observe them,listen to them but don't believe them. Let those worst things pass like clouds. When you stop to give them your attention they will pass, this is the exact thing they can actually do So don't worry about those negetive personalities and thoughts.

Dweeling on Mistakes

It is the most common thing, we all do. Can't we deny this? I guess no one can deny this true fact.

We all are allowed to look back at our past but we are not allowed to live there for a long period. It will hurt us, only us. If we continue to live at our past ,if we don't let our past die then our past won't let us live peacefully and happily.

We need to forgive ourselves for making plenty of mistakes but we should not forget those lessons we got from our mistakes, learn from your mistakes, it will never give you a chance to regret over your past. Forget your mistakes but don't forget what they taught you.

Don't curse yourself for your mistakes because everyone makes mistakes not only you. If you make any mistake then it doesn't mean that you have to pay for those mistakes the rest of your life. Remember some experienced people also makes some mistakes, it doesn't mean you're a failure. Mistakes are the proofs of your aliveness. Mistakes makes stories & Stories makes Histories.

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I want to stop here, thank you sooo much for being here with me...

Thank you sooo much for all of your support and love. Thank you sooo much my readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers. Wishing you a blessed and healthy night.

Irene 6.56pm 16.01.2022 Lead Image :— Own Image