November 20, 2021. No. 72
Life is more complex than we think. We cannot live, just to live. We don't care about anything. Without the decisions we make and the actions we take, they don't affect others, or we pretend they don't matter. When we begin to believe that we are the only ones who matter in the entire universe, that day everything will be lost internally. It turns out that some people are not the least bit interested in what other people think of them or their behavior. They simply do whatever it takes without anyone putting brakes on them.
The right of each person ends where that of others begins.
Hellish neighbor
It is the name of a very popular computer game in its years, but as its name implies, it is about a neighbor who does and undoes as he wishes. Who has not had one? When your neighbor thinks that the whole neighborhood is his house, and he plays the music at full volume, even late at night or even into the early morning. In addition, the music he plays is what he likes and quite annoying, too. Even if I talk to him, the situation improves for a few days, but then it returns to the same thing. He starts celebrating birthdays every couple of days, celebrating whatever happens. And he does not do it alone, he likes to invite all his friends. Noise is something that affects everyone equally and is always quite annoying. No matter how it manifests, it always will be.
Young owners of the world
Surely they have been in the public transport on one occasion when this group of friends arrives wanting to continue their party in a public way. They get on the bus and:
They keep talking loudly.
They come with speakers by Bluetooth connection and increase their volume even more.
They come drinking alcohol and intoxicated.
They are accompanied by friends, creating collective value.
Occasionally they like to annoy others.
They are not interested in the driver having music on the bus, they want to make theirs prevail.
In times of Pandemic, where the whole world is in a fight against Covid 19, they go without covering their mouths without caring about anything.
They start dancing on the bus as if it were a dance floor.
They get annoyed in an exaggerated way if you call their attention, even being able to look for bigger problems.
This has happened to me quite a few times. The last one was two days ago. In the photo, you can see the exact moment in which these individuals sit in front of me on the bus. They already came with a huge speaker with music. The music that the bus had previously did not stop, and then there was a huge noise in the bus, the music of the two sides trying to stand out one above the other. I have seen cases where someone has faced them and unfortunately it does not end well. There is a fight because they do not want to understand that they have to behave in a public place, that they are not in their living room. You end up losing everyone. But sometimes these things cannot be missed. They have to understand and learn to live in society.
There are several ways in which these unpleasant situations manifest themselves. Living with others was never said to be easy. It is the clash of all against all. Criteria found different ways of life, with different customs. What is good for one does not mean that it is good at all. It may even be completely wrong. I'm not saying this from my perspective but from the invisible rules of society itself. They are rules of coexistence that are needed to make everything work perfectly and to the letter. Where there are no people who pretend to be the best in the world, and that the rest of us do not exist.
Avoid excesses and, above all, if you are in public. Always remember that you have to respect to be respected.
Have you had any unpleasant situations of this nature?
Hi friends. I wanted to touch on this issue because at least around here, it is an evil that afflicts us, not knowing how to live in society. Something we must pay more attention to, and know our rights as if we are.
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Very interesting your article. I believe that you must first learn to live with yourself, before deciding to launch yourself into healthy social coexistence.
Who does not know how to live with himself, will never be able to live with others.