Things needed to avoid making enemies instead of friends
03-04-2022
Other peoples be like make more friends and i be like let's make more enemies of mine and it's something i want to leave back but nothing is helping me out
Sometimes don't know what happened to me and i start turning peoples to hate me and become my enemies. Not taking about in real life mostly happened to me in my online world
And nowadays kinda like have make lot's of enemies in crypto as well so another achievement unlocked and will unbox it here.
Well, it was plan to write up goals for april but will do it later after working on tracking and seeing what i can do.
For now I'll be choosing random stuff and more relate able or life related things.
Making enemies in crypto is the worst thing
Trust me it's better not to make your enemies in crypto they can be more dangerous than your relatives who don't want to see you successful
In crypto everyone should be careful and make friends taking care of few things
It is decentralised but not so decentralised at all if you have make someone enemy you'll see them turning you upside down.
Few reasons why peopled in crypto can become your enemies
Personal opinion about specific project
Keeping yourself involved into everything
Openly showing your portfolio
Revealing your income
And many more reasons I'll specially highlights few instead of dragging.
Personal opinions about specific project
The very first reason i can relate with is personal opinions about any kinda project can make many enemies instead of friends
So if you don't want to have enemies don't give your personal opinions if that's not positive for project
Like you can't say bad about project even when it make sense peoples into that project will become your enemies eventually.
And I'm literally too worst in this sense, I'm that guy who cannot control my senses of giving personal opinions
Like I'm confused if this is bad habit or good one because i speak about everything if project is cash grab than I'll speak loudly and give my opinion now peoples in that project will become my enemies
But my point of view was totally different than what they see and what i see
So i always share my personal views about projects and countless enemies or peoples already hate me as far i know
And that's the only advice I'm giving you not to give personal views about any project
They'll call it FUD or whatever so I'm going to stay away from this thing
If i knew about project is about to run away I won't say a single word that's what minding with your own business mean
And I'll only care about myself instead of thinking about other peoples benefit I'll become mean instead of making enemies.
So in crypto making friends is quite hard than normally you always need to avoid negativity and focus on saying good thing only.
Though I'm not the front bencher that's why i lack in skill of lifting the weights.
Keeping yourself involved in everything
It's very next to personal opinions keeping yourself involved in everything is good and okay as long as you're not engaging with community talks
There's literally much benefits of being involved with everything happening in the space
Suppose you're into Defi and the chain is Smart BCH now you know every single project exist till date and where what type of peoples exist and talk
So thing where we should try not involve ourselves is on going conversation about other project or problems
Sometimes peoples doesn't like you because you're being involved in everything and they just can't digest why you're there and there as well.
But that shouldn't be the reason to not keep engaging with others and involving yourself into anything because you can't make everyone happy there will always peoples who don't want to see you so do it and stop thinking too much about what other think or say.
Openly showing your portfolio
Now moving towards jealousy the worst way of making enemies and it all start with showing your portfolio openly to others
Obviously our intention of showing portfolio was not bragging but for own satisfaction and giving other a motivation but there are literally peoples who will turn into your enemies because your portfolio doesn't suit them
They satisfy their self by giving hate to you and disadvantage to you.
So actually why i would never like to show my portfolio is evil intention or turning some good peoples into my enemies.
Well let's have a portfolio reveal someday.
Revealing your income
It's me who always reveal income and made report as well even though last thing i published was on income report so i should change my own habit first but so far I've not seen any side effect so I'm okay with it
But i believe revealing it can cause jealousy and make peoples your enemy.
I've listen something i want to share from couple of days but was quite, few days back one of my friend from noise cash sent me a message 'be more careful some peoples are down voting your articles'.
I asked the guy why you're saying this than told me someone is not happy and we are in a group where we share about events or different things so a person from that group was saying to down vote as much as you can on me
And the only reason why i have blocked peoples from my own country is they cannot be happy seeing someone happy
And blocking them is reasonable at least I've not to deal with the toxic peoples anymore.
So well not always everyone is same only few are like that and we should avoid them and bring more positivity and change our perspective.
Also this is it i hope haven't forgot anything but if you think there's anything else can turn peoples into enemy is than let me know it.
Though we should make friends and only friends but there always will be enemy in our way.
Revealing income here in my opinion will provide motivation for me to follow in the footsteps of your predecessors. I also want to feel good income from this platform.