28-10-2022

I have seen enough of red flags in crypto world and it always hurts when there was a red flag in any project and later on it came out as a scam and ran away with investors money.

Just like that in real world like the virtual one or real both in relationships while taking to her or him we can spot red flags.

So, I thought i should make two topics on this subject like in this one some of thing's that I think is red flag while talking a women and in next one while talking to a man but that would be better if a Girl who came across this talk on this particular one.

Let me make one thing clear we human be it any gender comes with our own set of red flags. everybody has it, what may seems a green flag for yourself maybe a red flag for others. Nobody is perfect and sometimes red flag can be worked together.

Well, anyway so was just having a normal day took off from college was planning for a topic and than I made this post on Noise.app

And Got an immediate idea of continuing the topic.

So the First red flag is when she wants to know how your first wife died, why second one took divorced and why the heck third one is missing for last 10 weeks.

Want to protect their career at the cost of yours

For both man or woman if there's a situation or at some point him or her want to protect their own career at the cost of yours.

It is like a Biggest red flag and shouldn't ever let yourself become a bait. For someone who cares you will put their own career at risk instead of protecting their own costing one they love.

Like in the meme. It's just a simple thing of human being selfish and when it comes to anyone the first thing comes up is think about yourself even knowing the consequences other can have to deal with still no one want to put themselves in dirt.

Also When she only talks you at certain times of the day Like clockwork.

Doesn't like to be seen in public with you

I have seen this thing happening quite often with many and this one is kind of a red flag and something enough to step back as a man or woman.

Coz it comes to your self respect like if the other person doesn't like you to be seen in public with you than trust me he/she Got some serious issues.

And you deserve someone better like people are so self entitled in this era so it's a thing if that comes to me won't ever compromise or avoid.

Also have seen relationship of years to talking with each other but when it comes to meet with family and take it further the other person won't be agree on that whatever ready or not something I will call a red flag.

Left you alone when you need Genuine Help

When you’re “expected” to be there for them at all times, but no where to be found when you need genuine help.

No matter the help is emotionally or in anyway the thing matter is you stayed but not the other one.

It is the time to step back coz at such time only real people who values you stays.

If she asks for your wife number

Time to change the theme a lil bit and yea for sure if you're talking to a woman and suddenly she asks for your wife number.

Watch out brother it's a red flag and also the end of your story.

From house to homeless or loneliness and bed to couch it's just a matter of time.

Backup plan

Also on a serious note when They start comparing you with their friend of the opposite gender. Most likely that means, they're interested in that friend and you are just an option. If things go sour, they know who to run to.

So don't be someone backup plan and it's too easy to spot I guess when you talk or how they respond tells everything.

Fin.

As of now I can't process more than that already having a headache coz of thinking a lot and now seems like I need to do rest.

Well, I would like to know your point of view and perspective on this also feel free to tell some red flags.