Normalize: Feminism and Flaws
Women are the most judge individual in the universe.
If you are a student, people would look at your grades.
If you are single at 25, people would start to question you about marriage.
While if you get a boyfriend at around 15 or 18 people would say you are too young!
Then here comes when you have a boyfriend then you suddenly get fat, instead of saying you are well loved people would start mocking you and say you might be pregnant while if you get skinnier people would say your boyfriend "used" you a lot. That is how dirty other peoples mind can get. When a girl would be into a relationship they would start thinking that she will then be more than willing to lose her virginity.
When it comes to cheating, if men cheat it would be fine because that is like normal and it is said that men are polygamous, others would even try to blame the wife for the man's action but when a woman would be caught cheating she is then tagged as a whore.
People call us women NAMES that we never could have imagined to be tagged on us but use us for pleasures too.
It is heart wrecking and painful to be a woman because our life is way too limited. The good thing is a lot of women are now trying to fight for FEMINISM and EQUALITY. Women can now work and do wonders in the corporate or even in other industries like men do.
FLAWS
One of the reason why women are ashamed to talk about their body figure and flaws is because the society has so much to say. It is more normal to stereotype and praise someone photoshopped than the real ones.
Others would even have to hide on very conservative clothes when they can flaunt the body they have just to avoid being criticized.
We are so brainwashed by the social norms that we forgot to look deep on what matters.
Example:
DARK UNDERARM
In social media, once this is shown especially on tiktok, like while dancing you raise your hand and then your armpit is shown which is the same as on the picture many people will then judge you not knowing what you've been through and how insecure you are because of those.
Another topic is about DARK SPOTS.
Some women are not lucky enough to be able to wear bikinis because of some dark spots on their area most especially in between their thighs or below their butt.
Let us normalize talking about these and sharing ideas, helpful tips on how to lighten those dark spots or sharing beauty regimen.
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Let us normalize talking about things that could help improve our appearance and sharing tips on how to maintain beauty, body shapes, remove dark spots, be healthier and etc.
This is the real fact about our society nowadays where woman are not being recognized by their capabilities and skills as a person because of the people who easily judged them by their imperfections and mistakes. And it really sad to live in a society with full of discriminations.