She died for her husbands infidelity

I was raised to know that union lasts forever when it comes to marriage. I have also been in ceremonies where couples are united to live happily. With all these, I believe that saying "I do" is a decision that lasts forever. I began to understand marriage as a no reversal journey, a journey everlasting with love. One man one woman and not otherwise.

Now as an adult, I am beginning to perceive marriage in another sense. This is because of what happens in married homes between the couples. Even the daily news and gossip carry this infidelity talks. I believe that before marriage, the couples must have known themselves to a point that they accept to live forever with each other and that's the reason they get married, call the world to celebrate with them with food and drinks even though it doesn't end there.

It surprises me to hear that couples who invited the world to celebrate with them and made vows for themselves are no longer together after a period of time. Where is the maturity of marriage? "She changed, he changed, he no longer used to be what he used to be" are what people find as reasons to break their union.

Some of my male friends are starting to doubt their marital future. Some say that they doubt they would get married in future while others say they would remain single but have as many kids as they want from random men or women. Every time we talk, they keep saying things like that. When I try to know why, they say it is because of the infidelity happening everywhere. The betrayal and denials of love and number of broken homes and heartbreaks.

I am amazed too to hear their reasons. Most of my friends are victims of broken relationships and heartbreaks and several occurrences make them believe that love does not exist. They make up their minds not to genuinely fall in love again till marriage. Some of my friends also believe that true love only exists in marriage not in relationships, no doubt that they think so because the daily news and social media carry stories and pictures of cheaters in both relationship and marriage.

Last week, there was a trend on the internet about a lawyer who died chasing after her husband's side chick and that makes my article today. She died disastrously in a motor accident while trying to catch up with her husband who was cheating on her.

The news I read explains that the late woman's friend called her on the phone to tell her that she had seen her husband with another young lady from an eatery to the car. The late woman didn't hesitate to go catch her cheating husband and took her car to the location. On reaching there, her husband who had already seen her drove off to save the embarrassment. It was when she was driving after him that she crashed her car ghastly hitting on the tree and died.

Her husband noticed what had happened stopped his car and rushed to her wife but it was too late by then. Sources said that she was reported dead before reaching the hospital.

It Is just a pity that a husband caused his wife's death by cheating. I know now that his heart is filled with regrets and he wished a day like that never came. Who knows what has been happening between the couples for long before it happened like this? How would he teach his own children how to be loyal in their relationship and marriage?

These are what causes people to have wrong beliefs and notions about marriages and relationships. Infidelity is everywhere and even the unknown ones seem to be more than the known.

The other side of the story is the young lady who the man was cheating on his wife with. A lot of girls who do sugar daddy should know that whenever they get married, other girls will be there to ruin their marriage as they have ruined others.

People should also love to respect their partners and give them the respect they deserve. Had this woman's husband not cheated on her, she would be alive today taking care of her home and her lucrative job. Now the unbearable loss has happened, the family lost their mother and lost her support too, it is just a pity and may she rest in peace.

Thank you for your time lovelies.

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