Your life and my life serves as a shining light to so many people, it's like a frontage light that people are using to see their way, so if the light is switched off people would be somehow stranded in darkness.

So before you take any action or even think of quitting from that particular thing, have you think about others that are looking up to you?

Life is all about cooperation as we succeed others are also succeeding.

Your success is an encouragement to others people.

I am seeing life as a game of relay race which if anyone fail to deliver the barton in time it's therefore means that particular person can definitely fail the whole team entirely.

You can see it with me in today's games like soccer ball, athletics, boxing, wrestling, cricket,volleyball and others sport activities if people presenting the team fails, you know what that means the have fail their fans totally.

Then compare this to early life that we are living don't you think that there are alot of people who is seeing you as their own role model, and they are expecting much from you, they are expecting the best out of you so if you fail you don't only fail yourself but you have fail others along side with you.

A successful person will be loved by so many people because they want to achieve one thing or the another from him if not material things the knowledge and the secret about his success, but it's only the smart and the wise ones that would go for the secret, while others would go for material things that can't sustain them for longer time.

I would rather prefer you to teach me how to catch the fish, the skill and the strategy from starting to finishing stop trying to please me by giving me the fish because you will not be there to give me every time I need it.

No body would like to celebrate a failure, a failure doesn't have friends, and if he has it will be only few that sees a little seal in him and keep on encouraging him to push harder.

In any given composition it's the wining team that would be first celebrated by people before telling the losing side to put more effort next time.

Some strong reasons why people wouldn't want to fail

Failure is not a good name to be called, I have not in my life heard of parents naming their child failure. But people like answer success, names like winner and so on.

People wouldn't like to fail in life, people hate such name everyone having a successful huge no one would want to lose in the battle or lose in the game when knowing fully well the meaning of success.

People wouldn't want to fail in life because they have the following reasons;

• Most people wouldn't want to fail because of the strong determination and promise they have promised their family

• People wants to succeed in other to give a better life to their love ones and people around him.

• People wants success in all manner especially when seeing their background.

• Most people are pursuing success in other to change their story from nobody to somebody.

Happiness that lies in success

If you ask the most successful person the happiness he does have sometimes I think I will explain to you that there's so much happiness that lies in success.

There are happiness that would be given to you by your family members, friends, love ones and also the respect you will receive from people.

A successful person attract so much beauty to himself, people would like to listen to him and he will be so much be invited to most occasions.

The pains of failure

There's much pains that lies in failure, the heart of a failure is easily to cultivate anger and hatred because you will see the effort you have put in a particular thing and yet it seems as if you didn't even do anything, or you didn't try it at all.

Most pains in been a failure comes when your love ones or people that deserves help from you comes for the help or ask you for a particular thing and you can't provide or solve their problems at the time, this is when much pains will come.

How can ones failure affect others people?

If you are a leader and through your leadership you make some mistakes that can lead to failure in your time of leading I can tell you that your failure as affected your followers as much as people under your rulership.

Talking about the family issue that we also know about if the parents fails in keeping the family with a good rule and regulations, or the father fails in providing needs to his family don't you think that such is a step of falling the children.

Friends failure can easily affect another I once heard a story of how a good friend giving out a huge amount of money to another friend asking the friend to putin in a business that he will require for the money in the next three years to come, he further discuss with the friend saying that the money is his life savings, that he wants to use it and build his own personal house in the next three years.

And be as it may the friend took the money and when into investment and due to the law of investment you can succeed or you also loss it, it's fity fity 50 -50 success doesn't really guarantee it's face with ups and downs.

So at the end of three years he wasn't able to give back the money to the friend that lend him and this has really cause a very big failure to his friend for not achieving the plans he had in three years later.

I will leave you by some thought from Gently that says;

"If you fail you have also fail others and if you succeed others will definitely benefit from your success, so is all left for us to work hard in order not to disappoint people that are looking up to us".

"Success story is always narrates with excitement it is sweet to tell but failure story always comes with pains if at all people would even like to narrate it".

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