How to deal with discouragement

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Discouragement is the enemy's favorite tools to use against you. He knows there is greatness inside of you. Fight back get your life back.

-Unknown-

Obstacle don't have to stop you if you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up, figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

-Michael Jordan-

Discouragement is what we face in our everyday's life, and if I want to put it across like a question if there is anyone that doesn't get discourage or experience it sometimes, I believe a lot of people will come out with good response. While I will only ignore someone that claims that he hasn't experience discouragemnt in his life before. We are all living in the world that is full with positiyv and negativity, we are living in the cazy world, in which if you listen to what people would say to you, you will get confused and get discourage.

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As far as life is concern there is no human that will not experience it, but the only thing is that we need to overcome some discouragements, so many things that exists today exit as a result of some people overcoming their discouragement. Some people can loss confidence through many ways, it could be through people that they were putting their hope on suddenly turn them down, or it could be through what they listen to that make them get discourage.

Learn to deal with discouragement, the ship in an ocean doesn't sink through the water that disturb it's movement, it's only sink when the water get inside the ship. There is no need of letting what people are doing or saying to discourage us from doing what we suppose to do, we can always deal with discouragement and make out way from it, discouragement is involve in the battle of success.

There are so many ways one can deal with discouragemnt which can also be known as loss of confidence and stands out as a winner instead of a loser. We can overcome our discouragement through the following ways;

Be likely to put your focus on things you can do best

Be likely to put your focus on things you can do best; what do you know you can do best.? What do you know that you are good at?, what do you know you can deliver when ever you are being call upon? Love doing does things and be more focus on that, that is exactly where you will gain much confidence, even when people would wants to discourage you, and it will be too late for them to do it..

Learn to admit discouragement to yourself

Learn to admit discouragement to yourself, admit it's knowledge , also recognize it, people who never feel discouraged have not yet arrive the battle field, they have not yet experience the world.

Ask questions from those who has gone ahead of you

Ask questions from those who has gone ahead of you, ask them if they have felt discourage before,and if they reply you with yes, get to know how they manage to overcome it, and from there you will have a good tips on how to deal with yours.

Learn to solve a small challenges on your own

Learn to solve a small challenges just on your own, if you must become man enough it wouldn't be every challenge that you will take to your parents, they are some that you will handle by yourself

Learn to encourage yourself and someone else

Learn to encourage yourself and someone else, by so doing you will gain the confidence and some other people will be there to encourage you in your own days when you will be battling with it.

Let go of some certain things

Learn to let go of some certain things, when you see that thing are getting out of your control, don't force yourself in. Just let go of them and be free your mind.

Conclusion

If that bad circumstances gives you twenty reasons to get you discourage, write down up to a hundred reasons that should keep you encourage.. Don't' be discourage it could be that last key in your bunch that would open the door, discouragement is the devil's most valuable tools.

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You're right, we need to focus on our strengths because we are unique. I have really learned a lesson from here that the boat won't sink if the water will not get into it. Same with our life, never allow discouragement to swallow us.

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Yes you have got it right friend, we don't need to give chance to it, because if we do it definitely drain us down, thanks for coming around.

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You're welcome. Thanks for this great article.

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2 years ago

Discouragement is part of our every day lives. We can get it from known or unknown quarters. We need wisdom to accept the things we cannot change while focusing on the things we can.

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You're right friend, discouragement is really part of our every day lives.

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Yes, my friend and I am glad to be here

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2 years ago

The first true step to dealing with discouragement is to accept that it is there in the first place. Beautiful article here

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That is right we have to acknowledge discouragement first by so doing we will be able to overcome it, thanks for coming around.

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Not everyone is happy with us, though they will try and act happy they will try to discourage us when they see that we are going to do what they couldn't do.

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2 years ago

It is not everyone that is happy in our progress, some may just pretend when they see us, but in their mind they are looking for a way discourage you..

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When we understand that disappointment is part of life, we wouldn't be surprised when it comes to us. Though we feel bad about it when we do not expect it the way it came through but nevertheless, we can learn how to deal with it just as you have said and listed.

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Yes you're right princess, it is really part of life, we can always over discouragement as humans..

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