How do we react to people?

Not that people wouldn't want to help you, but they can't just help you because of your character.

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There are some situations that people would have asissted us but when they come to think about our behavior the flee away from us. It is not that they are bad people but when they look straightly into our life style they just remember what we are capable of during. Your life style can attract people and they come close to you, and it's can also chase people away from you, those are the reality of life, it's not everything happening that are magic, people are after your character and behavior. You might have everything in the world but if you lack a good character in you that is left for you.

They said a rich man has many friends, but a poor man lacks friends, a rich man with a bad attitude will only have a circle of friends that are just going for the riches he has, once they get what exactly they want from them, they tend to withdraw back themselves. When a poor man has a character the circle of friends that he will attract will be those who will like to stand by him, because they when after the character not after the riches he has, this types of friends are the ones we can called true friends, they are the people that will assist and stand by you even in the stormy seasons.

What ever a man is, he is know by the people around him. There are people that are looking at you, you might think that no body is watching but let me suprise you they are, people are watching your foot steps to know if you are good or if are a bad type, even some of your secret things it might suck you when people will tell you about it. So what's life that we shouldn't try as much as possible to live a good and simple life with those of our neighbors. What is life that we shouldn't take one another as they are also humans like we are.

What do we have that we where not given,? and what exactly do we achieve that other person has never gotten.? We should always have this at the back of our minds, because when we know about this, this is what will exactly humble us to live a good and simple life in our society. Always try to ask yourself some certain questions like, if I die today would people say good thing about me, or if I got into danger would people agree to assist me out.? It is through this questions that we will be able to sit back and amend our ways, always have a heart of helping others. When you have a golden heart of helping others there will always be a resources.

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I read a certain post on social media, where by a tiger got it's self into a trap. From the story i learnt that the tiger was about to remove something from a spoil kettle and unfortunately to him, when he put in it's head he couldn't remove it's head out, and in the cause of trying to get out it's head from the kettle he left the inside forest where it was, to outside the town where people were able to see him. Since the kettle has cover it's sights he couldn't see any where even when he was close to people he didn't even notice his way about.

It's was in a position where people could help him but people were so afraid to render help to him. Because of the character it has people could not help him because they knows if they try to uncover the kettle from it's face it will even fight against the person. The tiger which is a wild animal wouldn't spare people's life if its meet people in the forest, so people are always scared of it when ever they see tiger.

So been as it may people were just passing by instead of rendering help to it, but they couldn't just do it because of the kind character it has. Most of our characters and our attitude have chase people way from us, even when we needs help from them, they will become afriad of helping us, with so many thoughts in their minds that if they help ui, that we might harm them in return..

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