How Kindness Can Kill Us
The amount of time I spent witnessing, seeing online, and reading articles about how they developed into becoming a provider for others, to the point that they were so selfless that despite their scarcity they would still choose to give more.
There's nothing wrong with helping others in need, and it's especially not wrong to be kind to others because you just care about them. However, not all kindness is reasonable.
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"Too much love will kill you," in Queens' song asserts, and it did, so does kindness. It may seem exaggerated but this is the truth, once we fell in love we are no longer aware of how deep the affection that we felt toward that someone, we become blind by love, and soon lead us to act improperly. We forget to love ourselves sometimes to the point that even if we lose ourselves in too much misery, we still chose to sacrifice it all just to make the person we love happy. Aside from that given realities, kindness is also a virtue, we have no ill intentions other than to aid people in need. Many of us want to help those who are in need and to reach out to those who are abandoned. On the other hand, despite our best intentions, it is inevitably for the people we help not to get tempted to abuse the kindness we give them.
The only negative aspect of the society in which we live is that they seldom recognize you and the good deeds that you have done for them. They always openly talk about your mistakes, and while there are still some who appreciate it, there are also some who have bad intentions and thus will abuse you as long as you have something to give.
In connection with this matter, one of the sayings that we had is "the rich keep getting richer and the poor keep getting poorer," given that corruption has an impact on the country's poverty but we also had this in a saying "it is the poor's fault if they die being poor" which I completely agree with. If you're wondering why would I say these, here are my thoughts. To support my point of view, people who are remarkably kind, the sort of who lack financial resources but are willing to help those in need, are frequently found among the poor. They're too selfless, even though they know they won't be able to support themselves they would still willingly give others a hand.
Wealthy people, on the other hand, continue to accumulate wealth not because they are cheap, but because they are aware of their limits when it comes to helping others. Aside from having goals, they also set limits for themselves on things they know are excessive, so they have something to save for.
This topic may be disturbing in relation to the title, but the Maguad Sibling Murder Case is one of the proofs that all the excesses are being abused. Mr. Cruz and Mrs. Lovelle Maguad's generosity in assisting a young woman named Janice, whom they also moved into their own home. Even after providing the Maguad couple with a home, food on a daily basis, and the care of the Maguad couple's foster parents for the young Janice, the family was still shrouded in a cloud of a heinous crime. It was because of the siblings' brutal murders of Crizzle Gwynn and Crizzule Louis, which was motivated by jealousy. Being kind may be a virtue, but it does not imply that you will always be selfless and allow yourself to be abused by others.
Love and kindness, in general, should not always be about socializing and sharing with others if these values are not balanced. First and foremost, we must apply these two principles to ourselves. Before you can love others, you must first love yourself, and you must be good to yourself before you can be good to others. You will learn to appreciate yourself and recognize the things that you should also experience from yourself in this manner. It is critical that we have self-love and self-respect because they will assist us in deciding when to let go when we recognize that we are being abused.
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We must always be alert to any manipulation by people who take advantage of people who are very kind and giving. Every extreme is not right. There must always be a limit. Interesting content.