Complaining is a human nature!

Would you agree or will you agree?

I bet you'll be going to agree, since you don't have any choice, hahahaha just kidding. You have a choice.

But seriously! We, humans tend to complain about everything in life. Lifestyle, work, weather, traffic, money, expenses, and even about our annoying neighbors. Lol.

Oh, speaking of weather, and neighbors. How was the weather in your place at the moment? And how was your relationship with your neighbors as well? Do you have a great friendship with them? If you have then, congratulations and keep that relationship as one of your gem. Sana all friendly. 😌

Well in my part, I think I can't make a good friendship with our neighbor. Because you know, they have some complaints about us, and I also have complaints against their complaints as well. Charrrr😂😂. Anyway I have noticed, that if you're an indoor person they would never liked you, and sad to say I am 10,000 times indoor person and they tend to watch over my silence and I hate people like that. I don't have any reason to explain about my silence and why I always stay inside as it is none of their business, but ... okay no more explanation. Wew!

I know you're gonna tell me that I should make friends with my neighbors as they are the people who I can run incase of emergency, but I don't wanna change from indoor to outdoor, just to be accepted in their tribes. I don't hate them anyway, and if they talk to me, I response. I still respect them with manners☺️.

Today, we still have a rainy day and it's actually since yesterday and it's because of the typhoon. I wish and I'd pray that this typhoon won't leave a big trouble and won't leave a serious damage to the affected area. Please take care and be safe guy's.

Okay let's go back in track!

So complaining is humans nature. It is our common reaction with our dissatisfaction, disappointments, disagreement etc. Not at all times we come to agree, well it's vice versa, as we also not always come to disagree.

But there are also some complaints that sometimes makes us complain due to annoyance as well.

For example are those people whose struggling in life, and yet they still don't want to work for a change. 🙈. They are just waiting for a miracle, waiting for a help, and blame their struggles to the government.

Another complain that also sometimes makes us complain, is the complaints between works and achievements. Have you also heard some complaints about how much they gain a little despite how they claimed that they have a good works? I mean how much they work hard? Yet they didn't like to claim that they have shortcomings. Sometimes it's really annoying, most specially if you knew their shortcomings😂

Some people keeps on complaining that they are not gaining enough, though they actually know that their works are not enough to reach for their expectations. Some people are complaining and asking why they can't do this and that, and yet they quickly give up and easily get discourage after failing for one time, rather of trying one's again instead. Some people complain that they are being ignored and yet they don't even tried to open their self to others. They remained invisible instead. Lol. I found it funny and ridiculous.

What are this people really want in life? Magic spell? Instant success? Special treatment and rewards for their laziness, and shortcomings?

I am not saying that we/you should not complain, and I am not saying that we/you, don't deserve to get some special rewards, because we all deserves that. What I am trying to say is, stop complaining if you even stop working and your works is even too lame to expect too much!

Success has no shortcuts and it has no magic spell! If you instantly succeed because of some magic and tricks, believe me you won't be happy for long. You won't enjoy your success because it wasn't from your own sweat. It's not from your own hardships.

Don't be lazy, and stop making excuses to excuse yourself why your not gaining anything, and why you can't achieve anything. We always have a choice. Life is full of choices indeed. Remember that either we work or not, as long as we're still breathing we need to survive. We still face struggles. We still failes. We still have to keep going as life continues even if we want to stop. So better get up and start working.

Closing thoughts;

Within our life, there are some complaints that we can't do anything but just to complain. Just like how we complain about the unpredictable weather, even if we complain about the nonstop rain we can't do anything about it, but to let it rain as it is part of our nature.

However when it comes to our life, when it comes to our success and happiness, we have choices. Either we gonna keep on complaining and gain nothing, or we gonna stop on complaining and yet continue on trying .

Work to gain, and gain from our work!

Anyway I hope you don't get me wrong, as honestly I also have lots of complaints in life. But I already realize that as long as I have some choices, I will work to make some change.

So now my choice is, I'm gonna stop complaining about this complain matter, as even if I continue to complain and encourage everyone to stop complaining if they don't want to change, this fact that complaints won't change any complain, will remain.

Seriously, I am not complaining about others complaints, I am just expressing my thoughts😅 ✋👌✌️.

Disclaimer;

All the information contained herein this blog is basically my own thoughts and opinions about humans nature. I won't encourage any of my reader's to agree with all my words as they have their own perspectives and preferences in life. This blog is intended for educational purposes only.

Thank you for reading ❤️.

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