Nowadays it's hard to trust people, most specially stranger. Even our own family will gonna betray us, so we must always think about our safety. Our safety must be our priority at all costs because crime rates had increased a lot nowadays. Robbery, killing and kidnapping has been become the biggest problem of the whole country, and so we must be always vigilant and always secure our home.

Anyways, I came to this topic because of the incidents that happens just this morning. But before that, I wanna say that I am not being judgemental here. I am just being vigilant and I am just thinking about our safety, most specially that I have a child.

• Come to think, a stranger is calling and knocking outside your door as early as 4:00 o'clock in the morning. What would be your first impression? You don't know them, and yet they are calling. Okay let's just say that they just mistakenly knock your door, and it's not literally their intention to disturb your sleep, but would you still dare to open your door for strangers?

So I wake up because I heard someone is calling from outside our door. Our neighbors dogs are barking as well, so I immediately check the person from our window inside our room. Upon seeing the images of the person outside they are literally strangers. The person's that I saw from our window are two gay's. I haven't seen them before in our neighborhood, and so I keep my silence while watching. I didn't answer them and say anything because I find it weird. It's too early for them to knock someone's door.

• I just don't have photos of them, since my phone was being charged that time.

Well unfortunately while I was observing them from our window, I heard daddy opened the door and entertain them🤦. My goodness! 🙆🤦. I was like 😑 oh God please keep us safe 🙏. I don't know what's on his mind and he did that. Actually he can also use the window to answer the person from outside without opening the door, but he didn't think that way.

• Mommy was inside the bathroom taking her bath. She leaves home early because she needs to travel early to go to her workplace that is why she's already having her bath that time.

So what daddy did was definitely wrong, because it might bring us all to danger. You know he was aware that crimes are pretty trends nowadays 🤦, that is why I'm kinda disappointed on him. If those guys are bad person's, so what will gonna happen to us? I was just thankful to God that they aren't.

• Literally I am not being judgemental here, as I said I'm just being vigilant and careful. Because lots of things may gonna happen if you open your door to strangers while outside was still dark.

• Because what if they are bad guy's or they are criminals? What if they have some modus and what if they had bad intentions? We cannot guarantee that we can get some help since everyone was still sleeping. Regrets can no longer change the facts and so we must keep in mind about our safety.

Anyways, when the stranger left I went outside and talk to daddy. Mommy just finished her bath too so she also tell daddy that he shouldn't open the door, most specially if outside was still dark. I am really annoyed with what he did, but of course I choose to remain calm and talk to him so gently. I told him that next time he can answer the person outside from our window. I told him that we must be vigilant and always think about our safety. Mommy also helps me to explain, and let him understand the situation without misunderstanding me.

• However as I said daddy is a little stubborn, and so he even tried to explain his side.

Closing thoughts;

I have already heard different stories about stranger's knocking someone's door before they do their bad motive, and so I am already aware that sometimes it is just their way to have a quick look with the place of their target. Mommy even told me the same incidents where her co-workers placed got robbed because she opened her door to strangers. Mommy's co-worker said that after she talks the stranger she became unaware with the things that is happening inside her own home, until she gets realize that she already lost everything that she had. She suspected that the stranger hypnotist her while talking.

That is why I always keep in mind that opening the door to strangers is a very bad idea. As I said, I'm not being judgemental I am just being vigilant.

It is always better to be aware, than to regret later.

Anyway this is all for today and I'm sorry for the early rants.

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