Nowadays, money can really makes every things possible and happens. That is why, no money, no future, so we must always grind to earn more money for the future. Lol. Just kidding.

But, it is true right? If we won't grind now our future will be unsure.

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My partner is currently working his papers for his employment abroad and just last June 16, he had his medical examination in Manila. He needs to get a Fit to work Certificate from the doctor. It is one of the most important requirement's he needed to have his work contract and working visa for his employment.

However since the medical examination was a bit expensive, and it was also unexpected, he had to sell some of his stuff so he can have money for his medical expenses.

He cannot use his salary because we also have bills to pay, and we also needs to buy our sons milk and his basic needs, so there's no any other way but to sell some of his personal stuff.

The photo below is his compressor. He sell it for only 9,500 pesos($182usd), as he urgently needed the money for his medical expenses and for the other needed documents.

Fortunately he immediately sell the item. He received lots of buyer's for his item, because with the given price it is already cheap, specially that the accessories are already complete.

Some possible buyer's are actually giving him a higher price from his current bid just to make sure that they will get the item, but since he already made the deal to his first buyer he didn't accept the offer as he don't want to disappoint his first buyer so he only sold the item for only 9,500 pesos.

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Fortunately last June 18 it was Saturday, his medical results was finally being released and it was already being passed to his agency. The doctor from the clinic didn't informed my partner about his medical result, but the agent from the agency called him in his WhatsApp about his medical. Unfortunately the agent informed him that he needs to take a second test in his triethylene as the result was pending, which means something is wrong.

My partner was currently in his work when the agent called him and so after they talked and after the agent give him his schedule for his second test he immediately called me in my messenger. He informed me that his medical result has a pending, he needs to take a second test for his Triethylene on June 21, and that was last Tuesday. The agent also advised him to drink plenty of water and fresh coconut water so he can pass his Triethylene test.

Anyway, according to my partner, Triethylene test was being performed using blood samples. The doctor or nurse will get a blood from your arms and they will examine it to measure your Triethylene glycol in your blood. The doctor says that if you have too much Triethylene in your blood it can be poisonous to your body and it may also damage your kidneys and other intestinal part's.

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Honestly this is also the first time I heard about Triethylene and what was it all about. If my partner didn't share to me what the doctor told him, I wouldn't know.

I am not familiar with it and with the advise that the agent given to him, I really thought that maybe he has a Urinary tract infection (UTI) as they keep on reminding him to drink fresh coconut water. Lol. I am really ignorant.

Furthermore, last Tuesday June 21, he finally went back to the agency's clinic to have the second test of his Triethylene. Actually he don't like that test because everytime the doctor took some blood from him he always felt dizzy. I don't know if it's only because he was just nervous or what? I don't know, but he always complain that to me. However his blood pressure is always normal and so maybe he only felt nervous 😂.

For this second test it was another expenses for him. He actually felt bad about what happen with his first test, because there's still another expenses waiting for him, and if he keeps on repeating with his medical exam, it will only makes him spend more.

So last Tuesday I texted him while he was in the clinic. I asked him about his test and he says he was still waiting for the result and his currently in his agency as they asked him about his other documents.

Around 1:30 in the afternoon I received a message from him in my messenger and unfortunately it was a bad news. Since I didn't reply him immediately he called me instead.

According to my partner, his Triethylene test results had even increased than the first one and so it was still pending. The doctor advised him to have an ultrasound that day, and of course they refer him to their own branch 🙄. Because you know? Earnings?

The doctor even said that if there is something wrong with his kidneys they won't allow him to leave the country, and that makes my partner to overthink and feel hopeless for his dreams, that is why he immediately call me to have some comfort as he was slowly losing his hope.

So while he was waiting for the doctor to call him for his ultrasound, we we're talking in the messenger. I try my best to comfort him, and convince him to stay positive. I told him that negative thoughts won't help, and try to convince him that things will still be fine he just needs to remain positive and he should trust the process of God.

Our conversation got distracted when the doctor called him for his ultrasound and so I hang up.

When he finished his ultrasound he immediately message me in my messenger. He told me that maybe his left kidney has damage, as he saw something white in the screen while the doctor is doing the ultrasound.

I immediately get worried. Although we still don't know the findings of his ultrasound, he already passed to me his negativity. Hehehe you know, he overthink and so I also overthink but I tried to hide it from him, I swear. I don't wanna makes him feel that I am also feeling hopeless for him as I know it won't help him.

However, I continue to keep on convincing him that things will still be alright and his ultrasound will be negative as I am certainly sure that he was healthy.

To all wife's or girlfriends out there, remember that if your man is feeling hopeless make sure that you will be their strength 😉.

Furthermore after 30 minutes of waiting for his update, he sent me a very good news in my messenger. Upon reading his message I suddenly felt relief, and I got teary eyed because of happiness. Thanks God he was okay! I murmured.

Honestly I am happy, not because he can finally have his dreams come true, but because he was healthy. His health is more important to me more than anything else.

He says after the doctor read his ultrasound, it inform him that the findings of his ultrasound is normal. Both of his kidneys and Gall bladder are healthy and so he can proceed to do his biometric and attend PDOS this Friday (June 24) .

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Honestly after all that happens, I am still curious and confused about the said incidents. He did two times for his Triethylene test, and they've keep on giving him a pending result but after he did his ultrasound he was perfectly healthy. So what was really happened? Do they only let him spend more money for nothing?

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Anyway, I guess it doesn't matter for now. The important is he was healthy, he can work and achieve his dreams in the future. He can still earn the amount of money he spent for his pending results, and so I guess that's the matter most this time.

...til next time and thank you for reading.

All photos from this blog including the lead image source are all mine, from my messenger and from my partner's phone, or else stated otherwise.