"Don't allow depression rebirth you"

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Disclaimer;

All information that I have written from this blog are basically base on my own thoughts, opinions and also according to my observation.

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So basically, in every movie that I have watched or even in some news that I have watched from TV. I have noticed that most people who did crimes, like hurting or killing someone, their most common reasons why they commit the crime, was because they hated much the victim or the victim hurt them and so they wanted to take revenge. However at the end they would even say's that what they did is unintentional as they didn't notice that they are already suffering from depression.

Oh well that's what they says.

Anger is an emotion that somehow forces a person to do a sin, a different kind of sin to be exact. And mostly, base on what I have watched in some movies or in some interviews. The suspect suffered an illness or mental incapacity due to depression and that pushes them to make those crimes. So in this case, the reason why did ended up killing or hurting someone is because of their excessive anger.

Depression makes a person becomes mentally incapacity if not treated. Well I'm not professional about this case but this is just base on what i have observed.

So a person who is suffering from depression sometimes can no longer control their emotions. Because they felt empty they even think to end their own lives and sometimes they can make an unintentional crime.

Anyway I don't wanna talk much about depression, as I don't wanna mislead any information. Somehow I am not professional with that illness either. As what I have said the information that I have written here is basically just based on my observation, so they are my personal thoughts and opinions anyway.

So I came to this topic is actually because of what I have seen from the episode of the Broken Marriage Vow that was aired last night. This time I wanted to share with you my thoughts and personal opinions about the other face of Depression.

Anyway since not all of you are watching this drama series, I will share a brief summary of the episode where the suspect made his biggest mistake on his life, and that was hurting his ex-wife.

Story time

So last Tuesday, David found out that Jillian wanted to bring their son to Manila and have a new life there. Far from him and far from people who betrayed the kindness of Jillian and far from pain. Since David love his son dearly he wanted to stop Jillian about her plan, as he was afraid that he can no longer see his son. But their friend,(i don't know the name of this girl but I really hate this woman), stopped David to keeps on meeting Jillian. She asked David to leave Jillian alone, give her some peace of mind as she says that she really felt pity to Jillian. She then started to tell David all the sufferings of Jillian and even when Jillian tried to kill her self due to depression. Because of what David heard from that (bitch), (I'm sorry😪) woman, he got the idea to apply a petition for his son as he found Jillian as a mentally incapacity and that's a big points on his side.

He went to Jillian and tried to talk to Jillian about their son. But Jillian is determined to bring their son to Manila, far from him and from his mistress. David then threatened Jillian that he will apply a petition for his son and call her a mentally incapacity as she tried to kill her self. Since Jillian got fear with David's threats she immediately went to the school of his son. Force her son to go with her.

In their way, their son has no idea what's happening, until he started to get mad with the situation. He then hates his mom, and blame his mom as the reason why his dad look for another woman and their family got ruined. He even says that because his mom is always busy with work and had no time for them, he even love's his father more than her.

Jillian get hurt, as all she did is the best for her family. Her husband's earnings isn't stable and so she works so hard to give her family a better future, specially her son. But at the end she found out that her husband betrayed her, as it has another woman and her friends and even the mom of her husband knows about the betrayal but they all tolerate David. So they all betrayed Jillian. And now she heard from his son that it is blaming her also and it even wanted to be on his father side than to her.

Jillian was covered by pain and so she went to back to her car and get a scissor.

In this state, I don't know what's Jillian's plan and what's on her thoughts as she immediately went back to his son while holding the scissor on her hand. She even look like crazy 😪. When her son saw his mom with the scissor and it looks like it will attack him, he felt afraid and here comes the tricks..

I really thought her son fell from the mountain and died as Jillian went back home without her son😅 but she has it's hair😪. So it means she didn't plan to kill her son but just to use the scissor to cut a piece of he's hair and show it to David. Let David thought that she killed her own son😂.

She was crazy actually as David can also use it as a proof that she's really out of her mind 😜😂 and win the petition of their son.

Well the author is really great in making twist.

So when David saw the hair of their son he literally thought that she killed their son and so he was gone mad and wanted to hurt Jillian but their son came. Jillian smiled like crazy as she really makes David believe that their son is already dead.

To make the story short.

At night David went back to Jillian's house to see his son, but their son isn't home as Jillian sent him to watch a movie with his friends just to forget the traumatic scene that happens that day. When David came to Jillian residence, Jillian was with her phone talking to his son(Gio). Her son is checking on her, if she was okay as he was worried that it was alone in their home.

Her son already knows the truth so it wanted to make sure that he's mom is fine, but he suddenly heard from the other line that someone is knocking their door heavily and the call was interrupted.

Since Gio felt the danger for he's mom he immediately run home to check he's mom.

While inside their house, Jillian and David is having a serious arguments about the petition of their son. Bad words and blaming to each other's arise. And so David's anger got provoke because of all the hurtful words that he heard from Jillian. He got out of his mind, not knowing that his anger was uncontrollable, it was cause by fear. Fear of possibility that he will lose his son forever. He then started hurting Jillian physically. He grab Jillian on her neck and choke her, like he wanted to kill her. Since Jillian is also fighting for her life she accidentally bump into the wall and that makes her head bleed. She then fell in to the floor and because David was still out of control he then started kicking Jillian even it's already conscious.

Gio arrive home and he found his mom consciously lying in the floor and it's bleeding. Then their friend came and she was shocked with the scene that she saw. She immediately called an ambulance and asked for police to arrest David.

From this scene I learned that depression can rebirth a person into an evil that makes a person commits a crime.

In every action remember the consequences, and if you think you can't handle losing the person you love, don't dare to make a wrong choice.

Meanwhile in marriage life, it is better to have a good communication. Not because your partner had no time for you, you're going to find that time from the other person. Don't try to correct the mistake with another mistake as you only make things more complicated and difficult.

So this is all for today and I hope you also learned something from this blog. Thank you for reading ❤️.

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Yeah extreme depression can make people transform one person to another that we never expect that's why the depression shouldn't be treated like it is nothing.

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2 years ago

Ang sakit naman sis, ginawa muna lahat para sah pamilya, ikw ang nag tatrabaho para sah pamilya para lang maitaguyod mo ang pang araw² kasi walang matining trabaho ang asawa mo tapos ganyan pa ang ginawa? Nakaka depress naman talaga, buti nalang nataohan ang anak niya na yung tatay nia ang mali, hay naku, buhay naman talaga, hindi mo maintindihan.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, nakakagigil din tong drama na to 😅

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2 years ago

Whahaa, kaya nga sis ehh, pero yan lang ang drama nah madala kah sah galit, ahahaha

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2 years ago

Ang bigat sa dibdib.pag mga ganitong story naaalala ko ang aking ex LIP(Live in Partner)I end up hurting him before dahil na rin sa stress siguro kasi lagi nalang kaming nag aaway sa paulit ulit na rason na siya naman ang my dahilan.When the time I was with him my life is like a hell.Very toxic not only to me but also to my daughter.He always shows to us how he wanted to end his life.It was painful for me to let go of him but I think that was the best thing to do dahil super toxic na ng relasyong yun pero I never wish him to end his life.He committed suicide just a a day after I broke up with him. Anyway about having no time with our husbands/wives, Glad my husband usually told me if I focus too much on earning money. I am the one who has a regular job so basically, he has more free time than me. My time usually revolved around my work and extra work like noise and readcash. he totally understands me but I know I need to give him time too.

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2 years ago

Oh, I'm so sorry for your late husband sis. Anyway mahirap talaga ang depression sis, so much better talaga maging balance tayo sa lahat and stay positive.

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2 years ago

Tama sis.. Stay positive Lang and talk to God

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2 years ago

depression is a severe stress recovering it is very difficult because it is about the thoughts that weigh on life. sometimes people often end their life because depression is the most complicated problem. to get out of depression is to make yourself happy.

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2 years ago

Exactly mate.

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2 years ago

So sad for those who are experiencing depression, we have this saying that don't let the situation turns you into a person which you're not, but then how can you do it when your mind is already full of stress and anxiety. Hayss

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2 years ago

Truth sis, depression makes things complicated and tough .

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2 years ago

Hirap talaga pag depressed ka kasi darating ka sa point na hindi mo na alam gagawin mo, like me I almost kill myself, muntikan na nga rin ako,sinama ko pa talaga c baby ko noon.😭,Buti nalang talaga may Dios tayo.

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2 years ago

Depression isn't a joke sis, and i know how tough it is. I wish your fine now.

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2 years ago

Yes sissy, I'm completely happy na ngayon.🥰 Grabe, nasabi ko nalang what if Wala sakin si Lord Nung mga Oras na yun, siguro sunog na kaluwa ko sa impyerno, kasi muntik ko na madamay Yung walang ka malay-malay na bata.

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2 years ago

Pag ako kinain nang sistema, I mean, yun bang na.de.depress ako, lumalabas talaga yung side ko na hindi kaaya-aya. Tas may mga times na halos lahat nang kilos ko, may mali na lahat. Yung tipong, gusto ko nalang mawala. Yung lahat nang iniisip ko, puro negative nalang. Na kahit anong gawin ko, hindi ko matama ang isang bagay o gawain.

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2 years ago

Me too sis, nagiging aborido ako all the time and I can even spit words that I don't even usually say. It's seems like I'm being possess with my anger.

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2 years ago

Depression is so sad to think about. Some people think that depression is just nothing, but ut weighs so much to those who have experienced it.

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2 years ago

Depression is not good talaga sis kasi ang tao mawawala talaga sa sarili pag nasa depression which mag push sa kanila na gumawa ng hindi magandang bagay. Hindi talaga joke ang depression. Kalaban mo kasi is yung mind mo then connected na sa emotion mo. Hindi talaga maganda ang depression.

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2 years ago

That's true sis.. it's really scary.

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2 years ago

Yes sis it's really scary. 🥺

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2 years ago

Seems like Jillian played David to get custody of the son, and because he couldn't control his emotions, he fell for it .

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2 years ago

Exactly, Jillian is smart 😂.

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2 years ago

Depression is evil if not counseled properly. I don't want to mention it but I don't like when the families get separated when the two perfect living couples get separated (where the love has been lost which they once felt for each other). The story is familiar to depressed people.

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2 years ago

Exactly, it's quite scary and hard to beat.

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2 years ago

I remember the time when I wanted the pain in ny chest literally to go away but I don't know how. Kelangan ko pa makiovernight sa kaibigan ko to make sure na I wont do something stupid.

Anyway, anong oras ba palabas yan sa Tv naintriga ako kasi prang mas bet ko yung original na korean series hahaha, gusto ko dn mapanuod kung mahihighblood dn ba ako jan hahahah

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2 years ago

8:30 ata sis, bxta after sa Ang probinsyano yan xia.

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2 years ago

The battle within is the hardest to fight. Hard as it may, we have to control it and not control us.

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2 years ago

Truth, but sometimes battling alone with depression is tough

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2 years ago

Intentions are raised against some one does something that hurt a person which can later lead to crime.

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2 years ago

Exactly, and its due to depression.

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2 years ago

Wow, dear Garreth, the story you told about this series is just like the story of a Turkish series "Sadakatsiz" that I am following, their story is completely the same. I don't know which one of these films they made from the other, or maybe they both made from the same book.

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2 years ago

Some says that this drama is just a Filipino version from Korea drama series. Maybe they also have Turkish version dear..😊

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2 years ago

Hindi talaga nakakabitin Ang depression sa self Lalo kung Walang umiintindi sayo o gustu makinig sa mga nais mong sabihin na Akala nila nag aarte ka lang.

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2 years ago

Truth and that's the toughest part for the person who's suffering depression.

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2 years ago

Once I fell a prey of it. But not now. Happily living now.

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2 years ago

That's good mate.. I'm glad you overcome it.

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