Hello reader's and writer's, happy weekend. I hope you guys are doing fine. Anyway I really don't have any topic to write today, but while wandering the platform this afternoon, one topic pop ups in my mind. That topic actually was I read last week if I'm not mistaken, I keep on looking for the author of that article but I really can't remember his username. So I just decided to write my own opinion about his Question.
The article was about the friendship with two people that has a special past.I even asked myself about it too, if it is ok for an ex to be friends.
Could it really be possible for an ex to be our friends one day? Well I think it's depends upon the situation.
Because in my current case, it's okay. I fine with it as long as both of them know they're limits and they can act professionally with they're relationship as a friend. How can I say it? Because I'm currently standing with that situation.
Actually at first it was hard, I saw it very imposible. But it's a fact that I must be accepted.
My partner has an ex and he has two kids from her. They become ex because base on my partner story that girl betray him while he was working abroad and also the girl is already married to her first husband. So he decided to cut their relationship as he also wanted to get married, but he continue supporting his kids. That is also the reason why my partner parents are against to their relationship from the start, because they knew that the girl is a bit flirty and at the same time it's already married. They feel happy when I came to their son's life charot 😂, but it's true.
At first whenever they came to our house to get the allowance for the kids, I'm a bit uncomfortable. But when I get pregnant, I started to balance everything. I also think about my son's half siblings, I felt a little bit guilt for them. So from that day, I started to accept that they are part of our lives. My partner and his ex becomes friends but not to the point that they will act so close. They great each other and talk about their children that's it. We even become friends too. But before that, she hates me a lot lol.
But in the other side some ex can't be friends too. Not because they don't want to, but because they can't because of their current relationship. I also have an ex, but just an ex chat mate not a real life ex. We got a relationship over the internet but we didn't see each other. Somehow we become ex because, that boy is a quite lier and flirty too. Actually when we still both single, after we decided to stop flirting each other lol. We're friends, we use to chat each day just as friends. But when he had a new relationship, our friendship became threat to his new girlfriend. There were times that the girl sent me a message, asking me to stop chatting his boyfriend. I do stop because I respect their relationship. The problem was in my ex chat mate. They are just like us, their relationship was also made by the internet. The girl hated me a lot because this boy sometimes compare her over me. And that was actually bad habit, comparing your current to your ex is a big problem in any aspects. So I chatted my ex chat mate to stop making comparison. I told him to respect her girlfriend feelings to avoid quarrels in their relationship, and I also told him that we can't be friends anymore. And he respect my decision so we cut our communication.
Currently were friends with my ex chat mate ex girlfriend. I don't know what happen to their relationship and they ended up being strangers again. As far as I know they see each other and live together in one roof.
What about you guys what do you think?
Anyway let me flex my achievement for today..
Yaaaaaayyyy i finally have a badge..🎉🎉🎉😍
Thank you so much for your undying love and support guy's.. I really can't have it if you're not here to support and motivate me.
Sending my virtual hugs to each and every one of you. God bless and more BCH to earn..
October 16,2021 19:49
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Congratulations sissy my badge kana din. Anyway ok naman siguro maging friend ang ex kasi friend ko din ang ex ko pero ayokong maging friend ng karelasyon ko ang ex nia hahaha selfish 😂