"Bigamy and polygamy marriages"

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Hello there lovelies it's me again, how was your day so far? Today is already Sunday and it's also my partner's rest day and so we had a quality time by watching a movie. However since we had a toddler I didn't even enjoy the movie, all I know the movie is about zombie's but I didn't learn anything as I can't concentrate watching. But one thing is for sure, I learned that if you had a toddler you can't enjoy a movie. Lol.

Anyway today, I wanna express my self again by sharing my thoughts and opinions by answering the last set of the questions that the prompt had. I wish you'll still love to read my opinions.

So let's get it started!

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What are the advantages of being single?

The advantages of being single

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1. You still have your Freedom

In all honesty when I read the question, the first word that comes up in my mind was Freedom. Well I can say freedom, and it was because you can decide everything by yourself without asking the consent of other person (girlfriend/boyfriend). You don't need to ask permission and you don't need to argue if your boy/girlfriend decline your favour. You know?. Sometimes it happens.

2.Your free from stress

Being single was also a stress free life. I mean, I am not saying that if you're in a relationship your always gonna get stressed, however there are really time's for misunderstanding. There's no perfect relationship (couple), and so you can't avoid having a misunderstanding that makes you feel stressed.

Actually I have some more advantages but I'd prefer to limit my words. I don't wanna discourage any single reader's here🤣, as maybe they got afraid to have a boy/girlfriend. Charr

Anyway as I am saying this is just for entertainment, you don't need to take my opinions seriously.☺️🙈.

In some cultures bigamy or even polygamy is allowed. Are you in favour or against this? Why?

I do respect! Like totally respect, with our cultural differences and if in some cultures it is already allowed then I would respect them, and I wouldn't be against with this kind of cultural practice, because it is part of their religious beliefs.

However in my own opinion, I would be against with this practice. I don't want that my man has too many wives, even if I knew about it and much more if I don't.

F.Y.I

Bigamy and polygamy are two different types of marriage practices, both involving marriages to multiple spouses. In a bigamous marriage, the two or more spouses are typically unaware of one another. In a polygamous marriage, two or more spouses are aware of each other’s union to the spouse. Polygamy is also typically practiced for cultural or religious reasons, whereas bigamy is not.

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What do you think about arrange marriages? Do they still exists? Can they work?

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I have already heard about arrange marriages but I don't know if this practices still exists nowadays. Maybe in some parts of the country, and I think this kind of marriage was also depends upon the two persons involve. For some maybe this will work but maybe for some this will failes.

What are the advantages of being married?

I am not married yet and so sad to say I had no idea. But if I am gonna listen to my instinct, it says that it gives me the authority to summon my man if I caught him having an affair with another girl. Wahahaha. I'm bad. Lol.

What do the word cheating and adultery mean? Explain in your own words.

Cheating and adultery is obviously a punishable crimes by the law. It was an inhumanity act that may ruins someone's life and relationship.

Can you die of a broken hearted? What advice can you give to someone who has just been dumped?

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We all have difference's, even in terms of our sensitivity. I may say that no one will die from being broken hearted, but I know for somehow some may says that someone will die from it because of depression. The pain that was caused by the person whom they ones love sometimes is really hard to accept and losing them is also the end for their lives. That's what they call, too much love can kill you.

However for those who has just been dumped, it's not the end of your happiness yet. Maybe God had already prepared the right person for you and that's the reason why you lose the person who you thought was the right one. Everything happens for a reason. Possibly you only meet the person so could you learn something and maybe for you to learn how to love yourself. Things might be painful at first but allow the time to help you heal your wounds. One day, you'll going to have the right love for you. Cheer up as you were special.

Disclaimer;

All the information contained herein this blog are basically my own thoughts and opinions, and it's all up to you if you gonna take it seriously. This is not intended to discriminate nor to promote any parties. This blog is made for entertainment purposes only.

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2 years ago

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I am not into polygamy but I do respect other's cultures and ways of life. I

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2 years ago

Being single does have all the advantages you mentioned. I definitely am against polygamy. But sadly, there isn't so much I can do about it.

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2 years ago

Wahhh iba talaga ang perks ng pagiging single independent ang saya hahaha but anyway fix marriage still exist though sa mga mayayaman or minsan dun sa mga ibang country.

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2 years ago

I'm an aunt of two and I couldn't agree more haha we cannot watch a movie peacefully with them.

It is given for us to have a toxic traits as well as being tempted but I agree choosing to cheat is an inhuman act indeed they didn't consider about someone feelings what and what they can cause for someone's life

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2 years ago

They kinds of lies people tell before entering into a relationship alone scared the heck out of me and what kinds of lies will they be telling each other when they get in the relationship then, that is also an advantage we the single ones have and the freedom we have that can not be over emphazised, I have a friend that if his girlfriend class him too much he will complain and say that the girl disturbs him and when she doesn't call at all it becomes yet another problem so yeah our freedom is just it.

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2 years ago

That is why sometimes we have peace of mind if we were alone 🤣.

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2 years ago

My dear Garreth, how beautiful and inspiring you answered all the questions. Unfortunately, polygamy is legal in my country, but society, culture and consciousness have developed so much that people do not accept it themselves. And a very limited number who are religious and old have multiple wives. I hope all people will one day find the love of their life and their lost half, and appreciate their love...

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2 years ago

Yeah I heard that in some countries it is legal due to religious beliefs.

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2 years ago

Level of sensitivity indeed, some looks okay after break up but some commit suicide as they think they are not worth it and just a failure

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2 years ago

Truth sis, we all have differences in all terms and so some could possibly die from heartaches.

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2 years ago

I love polygamy and will allow my husband for many wives 😂. My marriage is love marriage. Like others I also got broken many times sister.

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2 years ago

Wow! Your amazing and strong independent woman my dear and I respect your perspective.

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2 years ago

Your distinction between bigamy and polygamy is not correct, none of them has anything to do with if other spouse(s) know(s) anything. "Bi" means 2. "Poly" means multiple. So polygamy is the state of having multiple wives. Bigamy is to have exactly two wives.

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2 years ago

Thanks for that, however I have already inserted the sources, so I wouldn't mislead the information, and even if bi means two wives I would still be against for it as I don't want that my man has two wives 😂😂. Anyway thank you so much ☺️

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2 years ago

You should have continued with the advantages of being single because I am actually enjoying it 😂😂

I am free and I love it that way. I was preparing a little meal last week and I told my friends that being a single isn't stressful at all in terms of cooking. You can decide not to cook but find something to eat, whereas if you have a partner, you will always cook thrice or four times a day 🤣🤣🤣

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2 years ago

Indeed, you can also decide if you want to cook or not as you are alone. But if you have a partner you would always cook and think what food you have to prepare and that's stressful 🤣.

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2 years ago

Polygamy is legal in other countries its their culture but for me I prefer to stick on one person whom I will truly love until the end. But for now I prefer to stay single since Im not yet ready, Financially Emotionally Maybe in some cases physically 🤖

But I know that love will knock your heart in an unexpected moment moment of your life whether you're ready or not.

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2 years ago

It is part of their religious beliefs and in their country it is not a big deal anymore so for sure they are happy with that practices.

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2 years ago

being single is the most pleasant condition for people who don't want to be hurt, but this condition can torture their hearts

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2 years ago

Indeed, sometimes it makes them lonely.

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2 years ago

Kapag single ka ate, talagang ang free mo to do anything eh. Unlike kapag may jowa kana, limited na lang. Pero I think kapag may jowa kana, dapay you can still do anything pa rin pero consider mo rin si jowa.

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2 years ago

Truth, you should balance your time, kaso may mga times talaga na may misunderstanding kaya nakakastress, hahahhaha

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2 years ago

Aba bet ko prompts na to ... True ..iba freedom kpg single. Lesser stress at maeenjoy ang life lalo

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2 years ago

Truth, hahahahhaha kaya tagal kong naging single

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2 years ago

Halos pareho na ung adultery at cheating sis, kasi parehong mali at kasalanan kahit pa magkaiba ang meaning ang total nun kasalanan pa din sya😬

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2 years ago

Oo sis, both Mali..

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