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Written by   152
2 months ago

Actually, everyone encounter one or two problems in their relationship, some might be able to handle them while some would be too massive to the extent you just have to end the relationship....... Here I will give a clear and easy example of the kind of problems I face or have faced.

In my past relationship:............. I was in a relationship with this girl but I decide not to share her name, we were in relationship for over 2 years and the most exciting about the relationship was that she was 6 years older than me. We had no financial issue then everything was going fine, she wanted to be a professional footballer then and it was really nice seeing her pursuing her dream, most times we do train together at a football pitch not far from my house.

The problem started when her team won the championship and this would provide her opportunity to travel to Europe to pursue her dream as a professional footballer but she has to go through some stages for a year before travelling.

We started losing our good time, she rarely come for training because she believed when she get to Europe she will continue her training session. She became proud with the way she relates to her friends and me since she thought leaving the country makes her better than us.

Due to this reason all our meetings and fun started getting less and lesser. She started drinking alcohol to celebrate her little win to the extent her friends called me to advise her but we were no longer together again due to lack of communication.

To cut the story short, she is back to training at the football pitch not far from my house, she wasn't aware that a last trial will be done before finally leaving for Europe but unfortunately for her she wasn't physically fit at that moment so she was disqualified.

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Most people in a relationship tend to gravitate towards 'forever' except a few who may have other motives. Here are some problems that could lead to the end of a relationship

1. Contempt:

Do not go into relationship with someone who thinks that being in relationship with you is doing you a favour. Go for the man or woman that knows your worth and values you for who you are not the one that thinks he/ she helped you being with you.

They will treat you the way you don't like because they believe you can't leave them alone and you will regret your decision being with them.

2. Frequent Fighting

Some argument are completely necessary, you can't be in a relationship without some arguments it is completely natural, but very frequent fights are reactive and sometimes it leads to couples drifting apart emotionally and might lead to break up.

3. Comparison

Comparing your current partner to your ex is really not a good idea in relation and you should mind what ever you might say concerning comparison, it would make your partner have low self esteem, and he might get jealous and lose trust in you.

4. Pride

Like this popular saying Pride in the life of an individual will lead to his downfall. When you are at fault and wrong you shouldn't find it hard to apologize.

Final Thoughts

Some relationships last forever not everyone goes through heartbreak and ending a relationship doesn't mean you're bad at it. And finally involve God in everything we do including our relationship

Thanks for reading ❤

What are the problems we faced in relationships I would love to see your answers in the comment section.

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Let me add one Once you are not on the same page, like you guys don't want the same thing in the relationship, it can't work.

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2 months ago

Thanks for the contribution really appreciate

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2 months ago

Then this only mean that you're not meant for each other. It's sad at first, but at the end you will realize that the break-up was a freedom(Yes, Freedom007 hahha). At least you still have a chance to find your perfect match :)

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2 months ago

I saw 2hat you did there 😂😂. If we were meant to be together it would have lasted but we were not meant to be together

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2 months ago

Where una dey see footballer as girlfriend? That's my dream love oo! Lol🤣 You pointed it out very well, relationship shouldn't be seen from one partner as a favor to the other, that's absolutely odd. It the compatibility is not there, there shouldn't be a relationship at all.

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2 months ago

Girls plenty for here wey love football and dem Sabi play am

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2 months ago

Wow! Which side of the country is that? I fit relocate... Sincerely, I love girls that play football, the crush is out of this world

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2 months ago

No be Lagos you dey?

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2 months ago

You speak the truth here, my friend. Those things really affect any relationship big time. It is wise to not do them.

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2 months ago

Yeah, they really affect relationships. Thanks for checking by

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2 months ago

I once fall in inlove with someone who can't love me back .. Super sakit and I'm totally healed now. Lesson learned din .

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2 months ago

With time you will get healed that's fact

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2 months ago

Relationships are meant to be for the edification of both parties, just like you said, it shouldn't be just one end receiving the load of the relationship, it must be balanced and not seem like you're doing the other person a favour

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2 months ago

You're right if shouldn't be just one of the partner taking All responsibility

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2 months ago

You know I feel like if I seriously date someone now I want to marry them I am tired of short term dating

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2 months ago

I'm not in for anything relationship again bro make we just talk till everything fade away. Make I just enjoy myself without including relationship

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2 months ago

Yeah me too

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2 months ago

Some people thing about short time relationship with their partner, they are like part time dating,

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2 months ago

Yeah they don't have any intention to last

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2 months ago

Arguments is common to a relationship, Actually my partner and I usually fight in a very small things but we always fix it after. Fights sometimes help your relationship to become stronger, specially if both of you put God's at the centre of your relationship.

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2 months ago

Yeah there is no how one would be in a relationship without argument. Thanks for contribution

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