2021 is almost gone, and I'm not trying to be harsh with my words, but I still have to say it," most of you guys are still single 😂," are you satisfied with the way you're? ...... Out of all my friends, I'm the only one who's without a partner. We are all planning to see Spider-Man: No Way Home, which will be released in theaters on December 17th. Guess who is going alone because he's single? ..... Definitely me.
While my friends @Gaftekloriginal @Jumper-01 and a friend of mine who's not yet on read cash are going with their girlfriends, I'm hoping I make it through that day..... I'm thinking about fabricating an excuse to avoid going to the movies since they won't have my time because they'll be busy talking with their girlfriends and I'll have to be alone until the movie is finished.
The question is now...... Am I better off single?
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Some people enter relationships because their friends are doing so; otherwise, they would have little need to do so. What they confuse for love is actually lust, which they won't recognize until their lust has been gratified; this is one of the main causes for the recent rise in divorce rates.
For me, being single is preferable because it allows me to devote my limited free time to hobbies such as football, video games, ping pong, and going to the gym, not to mention writing articles, with no distractions. However, if I were to date someone, I would have to divide my limited free time between her and other activities.
Let's not even get started on distractions; instead, let's look at the main reasons why people date in this day and age....... Most individuals nowadays enter into relationships for the sake of having fun and wasting some of their time with the wrong person, and inevitably, one of the partners will be caught cheating, and the relationship will come to an end.
Some people enter relationships because their friends are doing so; otherwise, they would have little need to do so. What they confuse for love is actually lust, which they won't recognize until their lust has been gratified; this is one of the main causes for the recent rise in divorce rates.
Final Thoughts
Being in the right relationship is fantastic; a connection that is founded on more than simply lust, but also on love, trust, respect, honesty, anger management, commitment, and effective communication.
You should not be pressured into a relationship simply because your friends are in one.... And just because your friend's relationship isn't going well doesn't indicate yours will be any better.
Being single is a challenging choice since you will have to contend with numerous sins. It's never easy to be single, and it's even harder to be in a relationship.
If you haven't found a better companion yet, trust the process; if you haven't, just stay single because getting into a toxic relationship will make you regret it.
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This is a solid advice coming from a good coach 😊… I like being single too, omoo no stress whatsoever and no relationship goals yet.. I could relate with every word. I really have a lot to say based on something’s that happened in the past, let me make it brief.. She only needed this guy for s*x and money and when all of that wasn’t fulfilled she left him even without telling him she’s done… got a new guy in just 3days. Wicked world