Between you and your choice

Earlier today, at about 2:15 am, I tried to contact one of the brothers at our local assembly to find out about his condition and why I did not see him at our prayer meetings yesterday by text message, to which he replied "life is hard". I felt numb when I heard this because he was not making a mistake. Life can be challenging, especially for this brother and how he has handled his life since I met him more than a year ago. Everyone has a hard time, sometimes we are like superman walking on top of the ocean and we feel like we can lift the earth, and some other times we feel like we are going down to the depths of the ocean, and it takes everything to keep us floating.

Of course, life can be difficult, reminding him that there are situations or circumstances that we cannot change but that we have the power to control these situations by the choices we make. The fact is that most of these situations come about because of the choices we made in the past, and we can only reduce the effects with the choices we make today. We can choose to learn from difficult situations in life and control our reactions. And the way we react to situations determines our success or failure in life. The choices are ours and no one else can help us. Each of us has absolute control of our lives. The power of choice belongs to all of us and what you choose is what you get because your choice is your life.

Often people blame the situation on someone else or another situation. Many of us have done this thinking that can get us out of the trap, but the truth is that we ultimately are responsible for our outcomes and what our lives become. We only hold the steering wheel of the car of our lives. Blaming others can only lead to two things. One, not knowing the origin or causes of the problem, and two not knowing what to do to save ourselves from this problem. Shifting the blame means that we are not part of the problem and are not focusing on finding solutions. We often forget that we are the ones who are suffering and no one else and our changing suspicions can only cover our grief.

We must learn to look inside and tell ourselves the truth. Our choices go before us to prepare us for the future — for better or for worse. Stop the blame and take control, until then there will be no improvement or change in our circumstances. Until we stop looking at others to blame and start looking inside, with so much control and ownership over the effect of our choices on our lives we are not ready to see a positive change within ourselves and others. The only way to see or feel the change in your situation is to be more aware and accept the fact that you are the only one responsible for your actions and consequences and that you are the only one who has the power to choose. At the time when you start taking responsibility for your choices and results things will start to change for you.

Your choice is your life, and it's in line with your temporary thought and your feelings. Relaxation helps to make wise decisions. While taking responsibility for your past decisions and consequences you should keep in mind the present to avoid making the wrong decision about the solution. Describe the problems or challenges as they are on the ground, and think of the consequences if problems are left unresolved. You will need to identify and remove the lingering thoughts that are going on in your heart, and then make choices that suit your tastes, values, goals, and strengths without fear of what people may say. Persevere in your decision to make a change and learn to control your emotions because emotions can do more harm than good.

Once we have chosen to embrace the power of choice we can expand our thinking, adjust our beliefs, and nurture those characters or behaviors that will improve our lives. We may have a bad day here and there, but with the power of choice, you can choose to make your experiences your teacher and grow in them rather than living in regrets and criticism. You can improve your life by making the right decisions and ultimately hoping for a better future.

Nothing happens by accident in life, no matter what a person is today it is a product of the choices made yesterday. Nothing good comes on its own, just as nothing bad happens to you on its own. It all depends on the choices we make in life's journey. The degree to which a person chooses determines the quality of life that a person will have. Life is about choices, and your choices are your life. It is important, then, that we make good choices when we have the opportunity.

The action point is a decision time, one must first decide what to choose before taking action. A good decision leads to a good choice, and a bad decision leads to a bad choice. The summary of it all is that man ends up living according to his own will. No one lives beyond his decisions; the choice is what we have admitted, what we allowed is what we have kept, and what we have kept are the things that control the direction of our lives.

Life does not just happen, our lives are defined by the choices we make. Some of these decisions are made by us, while others are made by other people close to us whom we cannot question. Instead, we accept them and follow them. As you know, there is not a single day in a person's life when decisions are not made; we all make decisions every day. Even if we don't want to choose, we still find ourselves choosing. Our daily experiences are determined by our choices, and all of those combined choices determine what our future holds.

The guarantee of a better future lies in taking full responsibility for our actions and the decisions we make. External forces have no power in our lives when we do not give the power of our decision to others by taking full responsibility for ourselves. Making the right choice can be difficult at times, but we must always try to make the right one. Knowing that our choices determine the outcome of our lives should guide us in making the right decisions. Each of us has our own life, but if you choose not to hold back, simply give your life to be the choice of others. And the consequences of inactivity can be far worse than the wrong choices.

You suffer from the choices of others by failing to take action when you should. Whenever we fail to choose what we want, others will choose for us directly or indirectly. And we will definitely follow without thinking about the consequences. We must have the courage to choose our path because it is about our lives. Our future cannot be controlled by the choices of others. Make your choice to make your life, your choice is your life.

Your choice is your life; until we learn the importance of making the right decisions as we drive our future and our destiny. We have the right and the power to choose whatever we want to do, but we have little or no control over the consequences of the decisions we make. Therefore, understanding the role that decisions play in defining the direction of our lives is the most important thing we must learn if we want to fully enjoy the benefits of health.

You can choose to be whatever you want. You can choose to work hard or just have fun with friends all day. You can choose to save money or use it to satisfy your frivolities. You can choose to be loyal to your partner or run with free men and women. You can also choose to study hard or go for a walk with your friends all day. You are free, but one thing to remember is that all your choices are summarized to give you a future that works for you.