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So back to the topic; Relationship

Many boys and girls get so carried away at the first week of their relationship not, though most times before they start dating, there is always a time where they get to meet each other, know a little about themselves, and then start dating. At the start, they are both happy to be boyfriend and girlfriend leaving the most important question untouched. Love is one of the main elements in a relationship which everyone knows, and so is friendship. Here are some things you should look at when you just enter a new relationship.

Your partner love language, apparently there are five love language which are

• Word of affirmation

• Quality time

• Receiving Gift

• Act of service

• Touching

When you are in a relationship, you need to study your partner to know their love language so you can move the relationship to the next level, relationship isn’t just about the fun in it, or sometime, most people think it’s all about sex, that’s a big NO, in a relationship, the both partner are to work on each other and build themselves up in any way they can. I’m sure any lady will like a guy that is ready to invest in her future. So once a partner has known the love language of his or her spouse, it would be easy for him or her to enjoy the relationship more with less argument or fighting.

Another important thing not to do in an early stage relationship is, Do Not Dig into the Past of Your Partner. According to personal research, Men are mostly found of this, it is very wrong, digging into the past of your partner will only put the relationship in a bad position, if they are not willing to tell you, just let it be, you don’t have to ask weird question about his or her Ex, or things they are not comfortable talking about, the moment you see a bad past, that is how you will see your partner currently, since they haven’t done anything to make you think they are liars or not honest, just believe in them and love them unconditionally.

Every new relationship is meant to be built on Trust; a relationship that doesn’t start it foundation on trust, such relationship is doom to fail. Imagine your partner always suspecting you on things you didn’t do or things you wouldn’t have thought of doing, it can lead to the breakdown of the other partner psychologically, in fact, a person might say, since he or she suspect me for doing that, I might as well do it, and that will lead it another trouble. You don’t have to suspect your partner, one simple thing that can cause someone not to trust his or her partner is when such person has gone to dig into the past of their partner which I earlier stated is very wrong, once you find a bad or dirty past, the trust level will surely decrease and there goes suspecting. Another reason is that, probably your spouse heard a rumor about you, now it is the duty of your spouse to defend your pride at that moment and likewise vice versa, even if it turn out to be true, but at that moment, the trust you have for your partner will be very strong and when you find out it was all a lie, the relationship has added another brick to it building.

Never be scared to ask your partner about anything especially when you hear a rumor about them, always give them the chance to explain, the moment you ask, you will see the truth in their eyes even if they are going to lie, you would know, and that is better than hearing it from someone else then believing without asking your partner

Finally, know the kind of friend they move with, there is a saying that goes like this, birds of the same feather folk together, likewise, show me your friend, and I will know who you are. The kind of friends a person move with will determine the kind of person you are dating and when you understand their friend, you will be able to understand your person the more, you will know how to advice and what to say in some particular situation.

There are more to an early relationship but I will stop here today, and come back next time to drop the rest, do have a wonderful day. Don't forget to subscribe if you enjoy reading this. Have a nice day

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