Relationship and Entanglement; A True Life Story
Some time I wonder why it is so hard for a guy to stick to one girl or for a lady to stick to one guy and just be loyal, you see love can be trick sometime as many have mistaken lust for love, the story you're about to read now is a true life story and still on going, I would like your opinion, especially from our romance expert @Olasquare
There is this guy who works in a tech company, a very tall and handsome dude, and due to this fact ladies tend to fall for him easily, this guy have been working in that firm for about a year and had dated 3girls. The first girl, he calm things didn't work out well for them so he had to break up with the lady and that was after they have sexual intimacy, now the this is where everything started
I have a friend that calm to be in love with this guy, though they are dating but things hasn't been too well, the guy didn't ask her out but he was nice to her, they have been happy, hanging out together and going on date, but recently the guy haven't been giving her much attention as she suspect he was dating another girl in the office, she confronted him but he denied it and said he have nothing to do with the other girl.
Recently, she found out that the guy and the girl have been dating, she confronted him again and they had a big dispute and argument, and finally the guy said "we aren't dating or anything, "we are just s*x partner and nothing more" it broke her heart, and she try cutting all ties with him, she started dating another guy that has been asking out, but the fact remains her heart is still with the other guy, he knows she's dating another guy but still went back to her and she gladly took him back, what they do now is just have s*x without her, she's trying to get him back to her arms, I really don't know what she wants, she said she already let go, but they are always crawling back to each other, they both have different partner they are seeing..
I don't even know what to call this, Entanglement? Problem? Addition?.. Do they love each other are just drawn to each others lust? What if the other partner find out? Though the lady is trying to win the guy over by giving him her all, but I don't think he is ready for anything, yet when she pulls away, he will run to her, what kind of advice can I give again? Probably therapy.
Thanks for reading and let me know your thoughts. All image used are from unsplash.com
Article type: Relationship
Date: 15/01/2022
Time: 11am
Author: Fashtioluwa
It'd be better if they talk it out and find their ways either being together or separately.. What they have isn't by any chance called Love.. it's not right.